Nagbibigay k b ng pera sa parents mo?

Started by marvinofthefaintsmile, August 27, 2010, 09:55:10 AM

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nagkaroon lang ako ng adverse belief on this.


yep.

breadwinner kasi.

lahat lahat na. :)


Quote from: Jon on July 18, 2014, 12:15:12 PM
yep.

breadwinner kasi.

lahat lahat na. :)

eh pano pag nanghihingi na ang boylet?

Quote from: vortex on May 26, 2014, 07:36:35 AM
Yes, since nag-aaral pa ako nagbibigay na ako ng pera sa mama ko for the family needs. I was a consistent scholar when I was in college, and may sideline as student assistant kaya nakaktulong kahit pambili ng food and pambayad sa bill. Medyo nakakatampo, kasi I was thinking na di siya part ng responsibility ko since nag-aaral pa ako, pero ayun.
Ngayon na working ako, sagot ko ang bayarin sa bills, grocery, medicine ng Mama, minsan emergency needs ng family ng mga kapatid ko, tapos ngayon nadagdagan kasi mag-aaral ang isa kong pamangkin sa college kaya dagdag gastos yung kanyang tuition and allowance at baon.
Kung tutuusin, kaya kong gawin ang lahat nang luho ko kasi above standard or basic pay naman ang sweldo ko, pero ayun lang, nagkataon na maraming sinusuportahan. hahaha.

-same here. kung solo lang natin ung pera.  ;)

Quote from: josephbr on July 19, 2014, 05:35:02 PM
Quote from: vortex on May 26, 2014, 07:36:35 AM
Yes, since nag-aaral pa ako nagbibigay na ako ng pera sa mama ko for the family needs. I was a consistent scholar when I was in college, and may sideline as student assistant kaya nakaktulong kahit pambili ng food and pambayad sa bill. Medyo nakakatampo, kasi I was thinking na di siya part ng responsibility ko since nag-aaral pa ako, pero ayun.
Ngayon na working ako, sagot ko ang bayarin sa bills, grocery, medicine ng Mama, minsan emergency needs ng family ng mga kapatid ko, tapos ngayon nadagdagan kasi mag-aaral ang isa kong pamangkin sa college kaya dagdag gastos yung kanyang tuition and allowance at baon.
Kung tutuusin, kaya kong gawin ang lahat nang luho ko kasi above standard or basic pay naman ang sweldo ko, pero ayun lang, nagkataon na maraming sinusuportahan. hahaha.

-same here. kung solo lang natin ung pera.  ;)
Wow nice we share the same sentiments joseph. Pero let's continue to do such good thing. Kaysa wala mapuntahan ang pera natin magandang investment na din ang pagtulong sa pamilya.


Nice meeting you by the way. Newbie ka lang ba dito?

Quote from: vortex on July 20, 2014, 06:09:42 PM
Quote from: josephbr on July 19, 2014, 05:35:02 PM
Quote from: vortex on May 26, 2014, 07:36:35 AM
Yes, since nag-aaral pa ako nagbibigay na ako ng pera sa mama ko for the family needs. I was a consistent scholar when I was in college, and may sideline as student assistant kaya nakaktulong kahit pambili ng food and pambayad sa bill. Medyo nakakatampo, kasi I was thinking na di siya part ng responsibility ko since nag-aaral pa ako, pero ayun.
Ngayon na working ako, sagot ko ang bayarin sa bills, grocery, medicine ng Mama, minsan emergency needs ng family ng mga kapatid ko, tapos ngayon nadagdagan kasi mag-aaral ang isa kong pamangkin sa college kaya dagdag gastos yung kanyang tuition and allowance at baon.
Kung tutuusin, kaya kong gawin ang lahat nang luho ko kasi above standard or basic pay naman ang sweldo ko, pero ayun lang, nagkataon na maraming sinusuportahan. hahaha.

-same here. kung solo lang natin ung pera.  ;)
Wow nice we share the same sentiments joseph. Pero let's continue to do such good thing. Kaysa wala mapuntahan ang pera natin magandang investment na din ang pagtulong sa pamilya.


Nice meeting you by the way. Newbie ka lang ba dito?

-newbie, kita naman sa # of posts ko. hirap pag breadwinner nu.

Hahaha. Ok sorry di ko napansin stats mo. Oo mahirap pero ok na rin naman kaysa ikaw ang nahingi ng tulong. Hahaha



tingin ko lang, it's just all about responsibilities.

paminsan may martyr effect ang nagbibigay, yes it is a good act, but there are limitations. panget kasi yung "breadwinner" but for the wrong reasons. 


Quote from: angelo on August 06, 2014, 11:43:52 AM
tingin ko lang, it's just all about responsibilities.

paminsan may martyr effect ang nagbibigay, yes it is a good act, but there are limitations. panget kasi yung "breadwinner" but for the wrong reasons.
ha? Pano yun? sorry, di ko na-gets. hehehe.

I think what angelo is trying to say is that in some situations, nagiging dependent ung family sa "breadwinner".

I've seen this a lot of times especially with friends overseas.
Konting kaluskos na gastos, hingi. Nabuntis ung girlfriend, padala.

This may not be happening to you yet, but it doesn't mean it's not a possibility.