No real best friend :(

Started by carpediem, May 23, 2010, 10:02:33 PM

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I cn relate to Jude


Sobrng laki n dn ng difference nmn lyk. Mhlg xsng mgpklasing pero aq eh tmang inom lng.
I have a permnent job at xa e part tym part tym LNG. Nkkpg away dn xa Kung kani kanino. At naalala LNG aq when he feels lonely. Prng feel q eh "what about me?". Prng nghhnp naq ng mga reasons Kung bkt q b xa nging best friend for years smntlng ala aqng marecall n favor n gnwa Nya for me at prng aq n LNG lagi ang gumgwa ng favor 4 him.




Sa part ko naman, di ako kailan man magsasawa sa mga taong kino-consider kong good friends... May mga taong di ko madalas nakikita pero alam kong tunay ko silang kaibigan... Mga taong alam nila ang pagkatao ko. Nakakaunawa sa weakness ko at nire-recognize ang strength ko. They are those friends who knows how I feel despite of my silent moment. Yon bang mga kaibigan na di mo na kailangan ng ice breaker para basagin ang katahimikan kasi kahit di kayo nag uusap, comfortable kayo sa isa't isa.

Quote from: Reyzho on June 27, 2010, 10:15:24 PM
Sa part ko naman, di ako kailan man magsasawa sa mga taong kino-consider kong good friends... May mga taong di ko madalas nakikita pero alam kong tunay ko silang kaibigan... Mga taong alam nila ang pagkatao ko. Nakakaunawa sa weakness ko at nire-recognize ang strength ko. They are those friends who knows how I feel despite of my silent moment. Yon bang mga kaibigan na di mo na kailangan ng ice breaker para basagin ang katahimikan kasi kahit di kayo nag uusap, comfortable kayo sa isa't isa.

naks nmn! how i wish ma-experience q ung ganitong instance..

Quote from: marvinofthefaintsmile on June 27, 2010, 06:46:34 PM
I cn relate to Jude


Sobrng laki n dn ng difference nmn lyk. Mhlg xsng mgpklasing pero aq eh tmang inom lng.
I have a permnent job at xa e part tym part tym LNG. Nkkpg away dn xa Kung kani kanino. At naalala LNG aq when he feels lonely. Prng feel q eh "what about me?". Prng nghhnp naq ng mga reasons Kung bkt q b xa nging best friend for years smntlng ala aqng marecall n favor n gnwa Nya for me at prng aq n LNG lagi ang gumgwa ng favor 4 him.

woh! parehong pareho nga tayo.

para sakin you have to be the best friend in order to find one.... meaning iopen mo sarili mo and try to be friendly .... someday may magiging kaibigan ka na totoo... kahit magkalayo pa kayo andun yung bonding.... i have one pero nasa canada na... i think mahirap man minsan gawin ... friends always give and not counting kung ano yung binibigay niya.... kaasar lang pag may demands.... just give and you ll see how things work out...


I have friends, I have few close friends, I don't have real friends and I don't even have a best friend. Kaya siguro bored ako dahil yung mga tinuturing kong real friends before eh bigla na lang naglahong parang bula....

ahaha. ok lang yan bro, atleast my mga taga PGG pa :D

i have a bestfriend, and she's a girl. :)
mas komportable ako sa kanya, kasi i can get advices at hindi kontra.

my guy bestfriend just betrayed me and found out that in 2 years we've been best friends, he's insecure and backstabbing me. its sad but there are times when we just need to move on. :)

^^ Hahaha! Nabasa ko ung mga unang post namin ni Jude_Law (whom is now my best friend.) I also have another one.

OT: ^^ At bakit nmn xa na-insecure sayo in what form?

Nag group message siya nun, nung nag-away kami.

Kesyo mas popular ka. Magaling ka sa lahat ng bagay. That kind of thing, i treated him like a real friend, a brother. nagulat ako tinanong ko sa kanya gano na siya katagal na ganun. grabi e.

and ever since, madalang na kami mag-usap. nagquit narin ako sa band na ako nag found, pero siya naging leader. lumaki na ulo. so ayun :)

^^ hinde ka mo man lang ba siya binalikan? pride?

yun din isa din issue yun, kesyo mapride daw. AMP.

I tried na ayusin, pero wala. i made him to promise not to speak about me on my back.
pero wala, ako na nagpakumbaba. nagmukha na akong eng eng e. haha

pero i guess im not born to please everybody.

^^ kase me and my best friends have some problems din in the past.. Pero on my part, regardless kung cnu man ang me mali eh I compromise to save the friendship. Mejo complicated pero you need to know which one you value the best. Yung best friend mo ba or yung pride mo. Understanding lang nman ang kailangan jan.. You just need to trust one another and also accept the bad part ng kanyang personality.

iba na talaga sa kanya e. lumalaki ulo. it's like he evolved
magkaiba na kami ng section pero sabi nung isa kong kaibigan, pasikat daw siya lagi dun. @_@


^^ Hmm.. kung di talga kayang ayusin eh sadly, you'll have to leave the relationship para hinde nmn kayo ma-stress. Darating at darating din sa buhay mo ang best friend mo. Ako nga eh di ko siya, hinanap. Basta dumating na lang siya.. Prang ganito ung evolution nung sa amin..

teacher-student relationship tapos naging friendship.. tapos after a year eh naging best friend na kame. tpos this 2011 eh 3 years na kameng mag-best friend. although, i admit na hinde kame laging nagkikita since we have our own individual work na. Pero I learn to trust him no matter what.