May bestfriend ka ba?

Started by toffer, November 09, 2008, 03:54:38 PM

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eh di kausapin niyo.
paano pa masasbing friends kung may doubts? pwede naman linawin ang lahat, patch up kung may differences. then mas ok na bestfriends kayo.




nakilala ko noong second grade yata.. or mga ganun. classmates kmi til first year high, then lipat sya ng school. then college kasama ulit kmi same course, same school. hihi.

til now, parang few things changed. got our share of fun ..and some fist fights din dati. haha.

sa tingin ko.mahirap itag ung word na "best friend" ..
nung kabataan ko parang issue kapag wala kang "bestfriend"
kaya parang mghahanap ka tlg sa class ng walang bestfriend tpos cia ung ggwn mong besfriend
weird no.. hehe
kaya hindi nko ngttag ng gnun..
pero nung kme pa nung ex ko siya na besfriend ko.. lhat tungkol skin alm nia
pero in the end, nung nghiwalay kme, pati friendship kasam dun.. :(

yes. classmate ko from kinder to 4th year highschool! haha. babae. most people thought na kame nga noon. till now actually tinutukso pa kame. there was a point in high school up until  nung college na she was in love with me. ang tindi talaga ng love nya for me. tumagal eh. pero ako di ko lang pinapansin. pag may nililigawan ako, nababalitaan ko na lang na umiiyak sya. i'd given it a thought din naman if i should give her a chance pero yoko lokohin sarili ko and sya. para kaseng kapatid ko na sya. incest pag pinatulan ko. and we already know each other too well. there's nothing more left to discover. wala ng excitement. anyway, we are still best friends up to now. pero madalas kame mag away lately. ang sama kase ng ugali nya. haha. feeling ko nga minsan meron pa syang hidden desire for me.  :D  ang hilig kaseng magpakadamsel in distress. tapos ang kj pa. oh well, i guess i just have to be more understanding. :D

when you get a girlfriend, the girlfriend becomes the bestfriend, and the bestfriend becomes the 2nd bestfriend. That's just how it has to be if it's ever gonna work...


Quote from: Prince Pao on March 14, 2009, 05:24:14 PM
when you get a girlfriend, the girlfriend becomes the bestfriend, and the bestfriend becomes the 2nd bestfriend. That's just how it has to be if it's ever gonna work...

do you actually believe this? ako  i'm not convinced.

definitely in the technical sense of calling a friend a best friend, hindi na talaga possible. shempre kapag best, siya na talaga. shempre a committed relationship, dapat yung partner mo na ang best friend mo. other special friends na yung iba and you maintain a core barkada whom become the first fallback once the relationship is on the rocks. ..

Quote from: angelo on March 16, 2009, 12:55:56 AM
definitely in the technical sense of calling a friend a best friend, hindi na talaga possible. shempre kapag best, siya na talaga. shempre a committed relationship, dapat yung partner mo na ang best friend mo. other special friends na yung iba and you maintain a core barkada whom become the first fallback once the relationship is on the rocks. ..

DAPAT ganun nga. But in my opinion, that view is too idealistic. sa mundo natin maraming "dapat" pero di naman nasusunod.   ;)

I don't really believe in the bestfriend thing, TRUE friend meron, but bestfriend, nah... kung meron man, dapat yung significant other mo yung bestfriend mo.

Quote from: Viktor Von Ulf on March 16, 2009, 02:48:45 PM
Quote from: angelo on March 16, 2009, 12:55:56 AM
definitely in the technical sense of calling a friend a best friend, hindi na talaga possible. shempre kapag best, siya na talaga. shempre a committed relationship, dapat yung partner mo na ang best friend mo. other special friends na yung iba and you maintain a core barkada whom become the first fallback once the relationship is on the rocks. ..

DAPAT ganun nga. But in my opinion, that view is too idealistic. sa mundo natin maraming "dapat" pero di naman nasusunod.   ;)

maraming dapat, kaya nga iyon ang sinusunod. pero hindi naman ibig sabihin na kapag hindi na nasunod hindi mo na gagawan ng effort para mag work or para maging totoo.

its not idealistic, its just the way it has to be. it will surely be not a good one once you started to doubt one another and not 100% trust is given. iba na talaga kapag S.O. iyon, that is a deeper relationship. kaya nga nauso ang term na "hanggang friends na lang tayo"

meron hehehe....
pero yoko ng maraming best friend kelangan isa lang

wala akong plano makipag best friend sa babae hehe...
gsto ko silang maging friend with benefits hehe

#41
at yan ang isa sa mga rason tulad ng paniniwala mo kung bakit natiturn off ang mga babae sa lalaki... tsk tsk tsk -_-

living up to your username aren't you? hahaha


ows tlga pao hehehe...RELAXXXXX

naintindihan naman kita tsong hehe

im bad tama ka and i won't apologize for that ...

pero pag ikaw siguro ang gumawa
woman will be turn off sayo sakin kasi hindi eh..sorry bro!

and besides hehe di tyo parehas hehe...goodboy at nice guy ka ..
kaya wag mo ko itulad sau hehe

magkaiba tyo
kaya wlang pakialaman bro..

walang personalan hehe ...cool lng fafa pao!  ;) ;D

pero seryoso mga bossing mas maigi kung sabihin mo na intention mo
sa babae bago mo siya maging bestfriend kaysa naman
later niya pa malaman at nilihim mo at ang mabigat nito sa iba nya pa malalaman.

mahirap nga lang kung sasabihin mo sa una na may gusto ka sa kanya
o kaya naman crush mo siya ...pero katorpehan lng yun, kaya lakasan mo lang loob mo
gawa ka ng paraan para masabi mo, kasi mas maa - appreciate ng babae kung
magiging HONEST ka sa kanya.

mabuhay PGG ;D

Wow nagkakainitan na dito ah...

Stay cool... ;)