Should you always listen to your parents?

Started by david, May 31, 2011, 10:30:58 AM

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nakaka-apek sakn ung childhood history ko kaya mejo hinde aq nakikinig sa mga parents q.. though it happened long ago pero still.. pwede pa dn xang maging basehan.. Pero recently.. mom becomes kinder to me.. Siguro dahil her favorite son.. my kuya impregnated his gf and it is now on live-in. they now have a daughter with abs. However.. it seems I dont need that extra kindness my mom is giving me... I need it when I was young.. I dont need it now.. Pero it is still considered as ' good to have'.




ang alam ko kasi if you honor your parents...it adds long life... ito lang ang commandment na may promise


"Children, obey your parents in
everything, for this pleases the Lord.."

...ako pasaway madalas pero narealize ko na tama yun mga advices sakin ng dad ko ng nawala na sya.



clarify ko lang listening doesnt mean always obeying... pag malaki ka na advice na lang talaga marereceive mo sa kanila kasi mas alam mo na ang situation mo ...importante you honor them...kahit ayaw mo silang sundin sa payo nila....wag mo silang sagutin ng pabalang... i learned it from experience....

Quote from: joshgroban on September 22, 2011, 08:21:23 AM
clarify ko lang listening doesnt mean always obeying... pag malaki ka na advice na lang talaga marereceive mo sa kanila kasi mas alam mo na ang situation mo ...importante you honor them...kahit ayaw mo silang sundin sa payo nila....wag mo silang sagutin ng pabalang... i learned it from experience....

agree!!

Should you always listen to your parents? Are they always right?

depende yan sa age ng taong sasagot. Usually pag bata ka pa you always do since you don't have someone to teach you things that are good and bad but only parents.

But as you grow up, nagkakaisip ka na and you decide on your own. It means, you already know what is right and not for you. Your decision depends on how you are molded in those early years. Kaya minsan may maeencounter ka baluktot ang principles and paniniwala dahil mali ang pagpapalaki sa kanila.

root cause ng problem will bring back to the parents, sad to say  :(

If you are confident with yourself and you trust your guts, I think you shouldn't always obey your parents. Otherwise, their advice most probably will benefit you rather than give an adverse outcome.

yes! pero nasa sayo pa rin ang desisyon, at pag nagdesisyon ka..wag mo kalimutan iconsider ang payo ng parents mo..

ikaw na bahala magtimbang sa sarili mo kung susundin mo ba parents mo o hindi..at kung sinunod mo man ang parents mo at nagkamali ka in the end dapat wag rin natin isisisi sa parents kung di man naging maganda ang resulta dahil wala naman makakapagsabi kung ano ang kahihinatnan ng mga pangyayari.

it never hurts to listen  :D

napanood nyo na ba yun diary of a wimpy kid? <related yun sa topic>

ikaw ang titimbang ng sasabihin ng mga parents mo. kung sa tingin mo, mas alam nila ang sinasabi nila, at mas tama sila sa pananaw mo: pakinggan mo. wag mo na lang sagutin nang pabalang kasi kabastos-bastos yun. (ako, sinusuwag ko lang pero hindi ibig sabihin nun hindi ko pinakinggan)

this is a sensitive issue... I will just reserve my comment... :p

Parents are also human. So they can't be always right.

Quote from: geo on January 20, 2012, 02:22:12 PM
this is a sensitive issue... I will just reserve my comment... :p
hmmm... napaisip tuloy ako sa kung ano ang icocomment ni geo...