I wanna cry because.....

Started by arthur_allen30, October 31, 2011, 11:36:00 PM

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 :( :( :-X :'(

I want to cry now...because of what happened a while ago....

My friend asked me to sleep over at his place.....

I've asked permission from my dad...and said that i will sleep at my friend's house...
( he thought he is my college friend so he agreed)

After he came back from work and asked about my friend....
He found out that I've just met this person for about9 months...

He called me and scolded me over the phone...and said I am a bullshit...

I just said..."Sige po tay uuwi na po ako."

Nagpipigil ako ng luha...sa sobrang asar at lungkot....

I've been a good son to my parents...
I always obey them to whatever they want me to do or choose....

but why can't they let me do the things I want to do....
hay......mahirap magkaron ng strikto, konserbatibo at halos perpektong pamilya....

lahat parang inoobliga.... :'( :'( :'( :'( :'(




^ naks, hindi bagay maging emo isang tulad mo arturo. hahaha. :-)

seriously, see the positive side of it. i'm sure maganda ang hangarin niya for you. bilang anak ka ng dad mo.

Quote from: ctan on October 31, 2011, 11:39:16 PM
^ naks, hindi bagay maging emo isang tulad mo arturo. hahaha. :-)

seriously, see the positive side of it. i'm sure maganda ang hangarin niya for you. bilang anak ka ng dad mo.

if the intension is good but the act is not therefore and still it is not good/right...

In order for a bird learn how to fly....Mama and Papa birds let him take the risk all by itself....I'm not a bird even my parents.....but when can they let me take the chance to live on my own....to grow...to decide.....to cry....to walk...to talk or even to move all by myself...no dictations...from them..... :'(

natural lang yun, ako nga best friend ko nagalit sakin nung sinabi kong siya gawin kong cover up pag hinanap ako ng parents ko, nung malaman nyang makakasama ko mga complete strangers, galit na galit sa akin, yung dad ko pa kaya :D

Quote from: arthur_allen30 on October 31, 2011, 11:36:00 PM
:( :( :-X :'(

I want to cry now...because of what happened a while ago....

My friend asked me to sleep over at his place.....

I've asked permission from my dad...and said that i will sleep at my friend's house...
( he thought he is my college friend so he agreed)

After he came back from work and asked about my friend....
He found out that I've just met this person for about9 months...

He called me and scolded me over the phone...and said I am a bullshit...

I just said..."Sige po tay uuwi na po ako."

Nagpipigil ako ng luha...sa sobrang asar at lungkot....

I've been a good son to my parents...
I always obey them to whatever they want me to do or choose....

but why can't they let me do the things I want to do....
hay......mahirap magkaron ng strikto, konserbatibo at halos perpektong pamilya....

lahat parang inoobliga.... :'( :'( :'( :'( :'(

sa edad mong yan arturo ...i think alam mo dapat ang tama o mali... minsan its not disrespectful kung ipapaalam mo lang kung nasan ka.... iba ang ipapaalam sa magpapapaalam... you just have to prove yourself na dapat kang pagkatiwalaan



today im going to mass since its all souls day and iwanna cry fpr all those who dont see the real essence of this day


pak!

natikman mo ang galit ng papa mo PLUS nakatikim ka din sa pangaral ng mga pggfriends mo.

ang sa akin lang ay, ipakilala mo sa tatay mo mga friends mo like pakita mo facebook nila a little background about them ganun.

kagaya yan sa pagpunta ko ng manila last march.

kasama ko sila angelo, kung tutuusin strangers sila sa PGG ko lang sila nakilala.

pero ang ginawa ko pinakilala ko sa mama ko sila using their facebook lahat ng picture, background nila at cellphone numbers nila binigay ko sa mama ko, ayun pumayag na mag manila ako.

ganun ang style.

pero kung mga hidden agenda ang lakad mo yun ang consequence mapagalitan or mangmayari sayo na masama.

been there, done that.

Quote from: arthur_allen30 on October 31, 2011, 11:36:00 PM
:( :( :-X :'(

I want to cry now...because of what happened a while ago....

My friend asked me to sleep over at his place.....

I've asked permission from my dad...and said that i will sleep at my friend's house...
( he thought he is my college friend so he agreed)

After he came back from work and asked about my friend....
He found out that I've just met this person for about9 months...

He called me and scolded me over the phone...and said I am a bullshit...

I just said..."Sige po tay uuwi na po ako."

Nagpipigil ako ng luha...sa sobrang asar at lungkot....

I've been a good son to my parents...
I always obey them to whatever they want me to do or choose....

but why can't they let me do the things I want to do....
hay......mahirap magkaron ng strikto, konserbatibo at halos perpektong pamilya....

lahat parang inoobliga.... :'( :'( :'( :'( :'(

grabe naman tatay mo sabihan kang bullshit. either extra-sensitive siya dahil feeling niya kaya mo siyang goyoin or something to that effect. kung kaya mo, i-explain mo sa kanya nangyari. matagal na rin naman yung 9 months para maging magaan ang loob mo sa isang tao, so, tingin ko wala naman yung magiging kaso. pero hindi mo kinuwento kung anong nangyari nung umuwi ka na sa bahay niyo. pero sana, hindi mainit ang mata sa iyo ng tatay mo sa pakikipagkita sa labas kasi social life mo yan eh :)

nakikita ko medyo hindi xa kampante at sure sau na wala kang gagawing masama or kaya mo alagaan sarili mo..kasi tingin ko hindi naman sa pinaghihigpitan ka,takot lng xa na may mangyaring di maganda sau dahil xempre mahal ka nya..kaya dapat ang gawin mo,ipakita mo sa kanya na kaya mong alagaan at ipagtanggol sarili mo,and the same time isecure mo sa kanya na wala kang gagawin na kabulastugan,kunin mo ang 100% na tiwala nya,ung kaht malayo ka,alam nya na you'll be ok and you'll be a gud boy,hehe..kung pano mo yun gagawin,it's up to you dahil ikaw ang mas nakakakilala sa father mo..

Quote from: arthur_allen30 on October 31, 2011, 11:51:30 PM
In order for a bird learn how to fly....Mama and Papa birds let him take the risk all by itself....I'm not a bird even my parents.....but when can they let me take the chance to live on my own....to grow...to decide.....to cry....to walk...to talk or even to move all by myself...no dictations...from them..... :'(

Your dad is an angry bird. You are a sad bird! hahahah

Seriously, baka kailangan mo lang iexplain. Siguro kasi ang sagot mo lagi ay, "Opo"

Quote from: otipeps on November 01, 2011, 06:30:25 AM
natural lang yun, ako nga best friend ko nagalit sakin nung sinabi kong siya gawin kong cover up pag hinanap ako ng parents ko, nung malaman nyang makakasama ko mga complete strangers, galit na galit sa akin, yung dad ko pa kaya :D

kaso...parang hindi na tama minsan.....
ever since napaka overprotective nya....

I remember when I was about to attend a party sa lugar namin.....
hindi nya ako pinapunta kasi baka daw may sumabog na bomba dun...

It's not that he's not trusting me...but maybe the people around me.....
I think doing this is like questioning my judgement and decision making...

alam ko naman kung sinong mabait na kaibigan..

Quote from: joshgroban on November 01, 2011, 08:35:35 AM
Quote from: arthur_allen30 on October 31, 2011, 11:36:00 PM
:( :( :-X :'(

I want to cry now...because of what happened a while ago....

My friend asked me to sleep over at his place.....

I've asked permission from my dad...and said that i will sleep at my friend's house...
( he thought he is my college friend so he agreed)

After he came back from work and asked about my friend....
He found out that I've just met this person for about9 months...

He called me and scolded me over the phone...and said I am a bullshit...

I just said..."Sige po tay uuwi na po ako."

Nagpipigil ako ng luha...sa sobrang asar at lungkot....

I've been a good son to my parents...
I always obey them to whatever they want me to do or choose....

but why can't they let me do the things I want to do....
hay......mahirap magkaron ng strikto, konserbatibo at halos perpektong pamilya....

lahat parang inoobliga.... :'( :'( :'( :'( :'(

sa edad mong yan arturo ...i think alam mo dapat ang tama o mali... minsan its not disrespectful kung ipapaalam mo lang kung nasan ka.... iba ang ipapaalam sa magpapapaalam... you just have to prove yourself na dapat kang pagkatiwalaan



today im going to mass since its all souls day and iwanna cry fpr all those who dont see the real essence of this day

jpsh nagpaalam naman ako eh....sabi ko sa kaibigan ko...
I also told him about the place....
at kung sino yung kasama ko....

but when he found out na nameet ko lang online dun sya nagalit...

Quote from: Jon on November 01, 2011, 10:07:14 AM
pak!

natikman mo ang galit ng papa mo PLUS nakatikim ka din sa pangaral ng mga pggfriends mo.

ang sa akin lang ay, ipakilala mo sa tatay mo mga friends mo like pakita mo facebook nila a little background about them ganun.

kagaya yan sa pagpunta ko ng manila last march.

kasama ko sila angelo, kung tutuusin strangers sila sa PGG ko lang sila nakilala.

pero ang ginawa ko pinakilala ko sa mama ko sila using their facebook lahat ng picture, background nila at cellphone numbers nila binigay ko sa mama ko, ayun pumayag na mag manila ako.

ganun ang style.

pero kung mga hidden agenda ang lakad mo yun ang consequence mapagalitan or mangmayari sayo na masama.

been there, done that.

I already did ....napakilala ko na ang barkada ko sa family ko....every year pumupunta sila sa bahay namin para icelebrate ang bday ko........

pero ang gusto nila halos lahat ng pakikisamahan ko....kilala nila...

and that's what I don't like....nasasakal ako...nawawalan ako ng privacy...

lumiliit ang mundo ko....

Quote from: pong on November 01, 2011, 01:42:01 PM
Quote from: arthur_allen30 on October 31, 2011, 11:36:00 PM
:( :( :-X :'(

I want to cry now...because of what happened a while ago....

My friend asked me to sleep over at his place.....

I've asked permission from my dad...and said that i will sleep at my friend's house...
( he thought he is my college friend so he agreed)

After he came back from work and asked about my friend....
He found out that I've just met this person for about9 months...

He called me and scolded me over the phone...and said I am a bullshit...

I just said..."Sige po tay uuwi na po ako."

Nagpipigil ako ng luha...sa sobrang asar at lungkot....

I've been a good son to my parents...
I always obey them to whatever they want me to do or choose....

but why can't they let me do the things I want to do....
hay......mahirap magkaron ng strikto, konserbatibo at halos perpektong pamilya....

lahat parang inoobliga.... :'( :'( :'( :'( :'(

grabe naman tatay mo sabihan kang bullshit. either extra-sensitive siya dahil feeling niya kaya mo siyang goyoin or something to that effect. kung kaya mo, i-explain mo sa kanya nangyari. matagal na rin naman yung 9 months para maging magaan ang loob mo sa isang tao, so, tingin ko wala naman yung magiging kaso. pero hindi mo kinuwento kung anong nangyari nung umuwi ka na sa bahay niyo. pero sana, hindi mainit ang mata sa iyo ng tatay mo sa pakikipagkita sa labas kasi social life mo yan eh :)

pong my father is so traditional...

hanggang ngayon di pa kami nag-uusap
I woke up late para hindi kami mag-usap
syempre takot pa rin ako sa tatay ko....

pero ever since....all our decisions are controlled by our father...

at yun ang ayoko nawawalan kami ng freedom.... :'(

Quote from: vir on November 01, 2011, 03:34:21 PM
nakikita ko medyo hindi xa kampante at sure sau na wala kang gagawing masama or kaya mo alagaan sarili mo..kasi tingin ko hindi naman sa pinaghihigpitan ka,takot lng xa na may mangyaring di maganda sau dahil xempre mahal ka nya..kaya dapat ang gawin mo,ipakita mo sa kanya na kaya mong alagaan at ipagtanggol sarili mo,and the same time isecure mo sa kanya na wala kang gagawin na kabulastugan,kunin mo ang 100% na tiwala nya,ung kaht malayo ka,alam nya na you'll be ok and you'll be a gud boy,hehe..kung pano mo yun gagawin,it's up to you dahil ikaw ang mas nakakakilala sa father mo..

sa sobrang pagmamahal parang napaka obsess naman....
kaya napakasensitive naming magkakapatid.....
minsan naiisip para naman akong babae nito...
my curfew....ang daming bawal....
tapos na akong mag-aral ganito pa rin ang situation ko...

daig ko pa ang babae...tsk tsk tsk

Quote from: carpediem on November 01, 2011, 06:11:06 PM
Quote from: arthur_allen30 on October 31, 2011, 11:51:30 PM
In order for a bird learn how to fly....Mama and Papa birds let him take the risk all by itself....I'm not a bird even my parents.....but when can they let me take the chance to live on my own....to grow...to decide.....to cry....to walk...to talk or even to move all by myself...no dictations...from them..... :'(

Your dad is an angry bird. You are a sad bird! hahahah

Seriously, baka kailangan mo lang iexplain. Siguro kasi ang sagot mo lagi ay, "Opo"


SA lahat lahat  ang ayaw ng tatay ko ay yung nangangatwiran so para wala ng talo...."opo" na lang ang sagot ko.....
para lang kaming robot ....tsk tsk...de susi. :'(