Pano mo malalaman kung yung girl na gusto mo, gusto ka rin, or kung may pag asa?

Started by ReCharge, March 15, 2009, 08:37:22 PM

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Well yun medyo nalilito ako, dati, sure na sure ako na may gusto xa sakin, pero ngayon, hindi ko lng alam. ???




here are some indications based on my personal experiences. pwedeng di totoo ang mga to sa situation  mo. pero good luck sa'yo! ;D

1. madalas na dumikit sayo
2. madalas magpasama kung saan-saan
3. pag nagkikita kayo, malayo pa lang hanggang tenga na ang smile
4. masyado syang nag eenjoy pag kinakausap mo
5. halos everyday tanungin kung
         kumain ka na ba (breakfast, lunch,dinner)---> proven to! tiyak na may gusto girl sayo pag ginagawa nya to.
6. lagi syang may good night text
7. kilala ka ng mga friends nya na di mo naman friends.
8. nirereport nya sa'yo mga ginagawa nya kahit di mo naman tinatanong.
9. pag di kayo nagkikita, tinetxt ka nya lagi and tinatanong kung ano ang ginagawa mo or kung nasaan ka.
10. mas mabait sya sa'yo compared sa ibang tao.

Kung wala sa mga to ang ginagawa nya, tanungin  mo na lang sya para matahimik na yung utak mo. ;D



Quote from: Viktor Von Ulf on March 15, 2009, 09:23:13 PM
here are some indications based on my personal experiences. pwedeng di totoo ang mga to sa situation  mo. pero good luck sa'yo! ;D

1. madalas na dumikit sayo
2. madalas magpasama kung saan-saan
3. pag nagkikita kayo, malayo pa lang hanggang tenga na ang smile
4. masyado syang nag eenjoy pag kinakausap mo
5. halos everyday tanungin kung
         kumain ka na ba (breakfast, lunch,dinner)---> proven to! tiyak na may gusto girl sayo pag ginagawa nya to.
6. lagi syang may good night text
7. kilala ka ng mga friends nya na di mo naman friends.
8. nirereport nya sa'yo mga ginagawa nya kahit di mo naman tinatanong.
9. pag di kayo nagkikita, tinetxt ka nya lagi and tinatanong kung ano ang ginagawa mo or kung nasaan ka.
10. mas mabait sya sa'yo compared sa ibang tao.

Kung wala sa mga to ang ginagawa nya, tanungin  mo na lang sya para matahimik na yung utak mo. ;D




aha!!! daming alam ni Viktor  ;)

Quote from: Viktor Von Ulf on March 15, 2009, 09:23:13 PM
here are some indications based on my personal experiences. pwedeng di totoo ang mga to sa situation  mo. pero good luck sa'yo! ;D

1. madalas na dumikit sayo
2. madalas magpasama kung saan-saan
3. pag nagkikita kayo, malayo pa lang hanggang tenga na ang smile
4. masyado syang nag eenjoy pag kinakausap mo
5. halos everyday tanungin kung
         kumain ka na ba (breakfast, lunch,dinner)---> proven to! tiyak na may gusto girl sayo pag ginagawa nya to.
6. lagi syang may good night text
7. kilala ka ng mga friends nya na di mo naman friends.
8. nirereport nya sa'yo mga ginagawa nya kahit di mo naman tinatanong.
9. pag di kayo nagkikita, tinetxt ka nya lagi and tinatanong kung ano ang ginagawa mo or kung nasaan ka.
10. mas mabait sya sa'yo compared sa ibang tao.

Kung wala sa mga to ang ginagawa nya, tanungin  mo na lang sya para matahimik na yung utak mo. ;D




para sa akin, kahit 1-100 pa yung list, MAHIRAP MAG-ASSUME.
panget lang talaga.

dapat kasi sabihin. sasagutin ka naman nun kung may chance, kung tuloy na kayo or kung hanggang friends na lang talaga. ganyan talaga magmahal, may pain involved.

Quote from: angelo on March 16, 2009, 01:07:22 AM



dapat kasi sabihin. sasagutin ka naman nun kung may chance, kung tuloy na kayo or kung hanggang friends na lang talaga. ganyan talaga magmahal, may pain involved.

tama. it's the risk you have to take.


Quote from: Viktor Von Ulf on March 16, 2009, 07:38:32 AM
Quote from: angelo on March 16, 2009, 01:07:22 AM



dapat kasi sabihin. sasagutin ka naman nun kung may chance, kung tuloy na kayo or kung hanggang friends na lang talaga. ganyan talaga magmahal, may pain involved.

tama. it's the risk you have to take.

Hirap mag risk eh, kasi mag friends family namin, (were negihbors kasi) so pag may nag yari man samin, damay pamilya ~_~

kuya viktor, pano pag BI?!?  :D na aaply parin ba yung 1-10 mo?

yup nasabi na nila ibang clues. usually naman malalaman mo na gusto ka nya kung:

1. gusto ka nya kausap. yun bang tipong open-ended questions lagi ang batuhan nyo ng tanong at kwentuhan
2. everywhere you go, nandon din sya.  ::)
3. at iba pa...

hehe pero ako honestly I hate mind games.

ayoko ng hulaan at pakiramdaman. Oo, masaya yun sa umpisa ng ligawan pero pag tumagal sakit sa ulo.

Kaya mas ok na mag-take ng risk. tanungin mo. sabihin mo gusto mo sya at tanungin mo kung ano tingin nya sayo. kung ayaw nya sayo, nothing to lose, move on to the next girl...

it's one advantage of being a guy. that is, being able to choose until you find the one.

Quote from: ReCharge on March 16, 2009, 09:12:26 AM

kuya viktor, pano pag BI?!?  :D na aaply parin ba yung 1-10 mo?

Hmm. what do you mean? I am not sure how to interpret this.  :-\

Quote from: Viktor Von Ulf on March 16, 2009, 11:40:26 AM
Quote from: ReCharge on March 16, 2009, 09:12:26 AM

kuya viktor, pano pag BI?!?  :D na aaply parin ba yung 1-10 mo?

Hmm. what do you mean? I am not sure how to interpret this.  :-\

I mean, hindi sa as girly compared to other girls.  ;)

Quote from: ReCharge on March 16, 2009, 04:38:48 PM
Quote from: Viktor Von Ulf on March 16, 2009, 11:40:26 AM
Quote from: ReCharge on March 16, 2009, 09:12:26 AM

kuya viktor, pano pag BI?!?  :D na aaply parin ba yung 1-10 mo?

Hmm. what do you mean? I am not sure how to interpret this.  :-\

I mean, hindi sa as girly compared to other girls.  ;)

i  see. napaisip ako bigla. anyway, i am not saying naman na ung 10 lang na binigay ko ung magiging clue mo kung gusto ka nya.  they may be used as clues but it doesn't necessarily mean na pag wala sa 10 na yun ang ginagawa nya, di ka na nya gusto. Those are are just based on may personal experiences.  iba-ibang tao naman have different ways of showing attraction. ung iba magaling din kase magtago ng feelings. or ung iba naman nag aact differently from what they really feel. yung tipong gusto ka nya pero pinapakita naman nya sayo na galit sya or naiinis sayo. it's actually a defense mechanism.

the best advice talaga  is ask her, straight-out. dapat nga mas madali yun for you since friends naman ung family nyo and your neighbors pa. i'm assuming close naman kayo. maybe you can ask muna ng pabiro. if she gets mad at you okay lang. at least natanong mo. and tingin ko di naman masisira friendship ng family nyo ng dahil dun lang.  :D

Quote from: Viktor Von Ulf on March 16, 2009, 05:56:36 PM
Quote from: ReCharge on March 16, 2009, 04:38:48 PM
Quote from: Viktor Von Ulf on March 16, 2009, 11:40:26 AM
Quote from: ReCharge on March 16, 2009, 09:12:26 AM

kuya viktor, pano pag BI?!?  :D na aaply parin ba yung 1-10 mo?

Hmm. what do you mean? I am not sure how to interpret this.  :-\

I mean, hindi sa as girly compared to other girls.  ;)

i  see. napaisip ako bigla. anyway, i am not saying naman na ung 10 lang na binigay ko ung magiging clue mo kung gusto ka nya.  they may be used as clues but it doesn't necessarily mean na pag wala sa 10 na yun ang ginagawa nya, di ka na nya gusto. Those are are just based on may personal experiences.  iba-ibang tao naman have different ways of showing attraction. ung iba magaling din kase magtago ng feelings. or ung iba naman nag aact differently from what they really feel. yung tipong gusto ka nya pero pinapakita naman nya sayo na galit sya or naiinis sayo. it's actually a defense mechanism.

the best advice talaga  is ask her, straight-out. dapat nga mas madali yun for you since friends naman ung family nyo and your neighbors pa. i'm assuming close naman kayo. maybe you can ask muna ng pabiro. if she gets mad at you okay lang. at least natanong mo. and tingin ko di naman masisira friendship ng family nyo ng dahil dun lang.  :D

D kasi kami close eh ~_~ the thing is, she's been my neighbor for 10 yrs i think, but I just started talking to her last year, (torpe no? ) anyway, we grew close, but for some reason(school), d ko na xa nakakasama, nakakausap, or text man din. Lately ko lng xa ulit nakakasama, pero ~_~ na conquer ako ng pagiging torpe ko, so I couldn't talk to her much... :(

based dun sa sinabi mo sa THE PARENTS topic mo (dito ko na sabihin ung opinion ko. ayaw ko ma out of topic), gusto ka naman pala nung girl. narinig mo na mismo sa nanay. baka si neigbor and si pinsan nagconspire to make you jealous. baka gusto nung girl more effort from you.

I just noticed... parang tama ka! Woohoo! Cge I'll take the risk, just don't know when...

Quote from: ReCharge on March 16, 2009, 07:03:19 PM
I just noticed... parang tama ka! Woohoo! Cge I'll take the risk, just don't know when...

wag mo na ipagpabukas pa! yang confusion mo naman brought by your fear of rejection lang. masakit sa puso ang rejection. pero mas masakit sa ego. just be man enough to accept whatever your fate is. pero i have a good feeling na everything will turn out well for you.  Make us proud! Good Luck! ;)

Hmm, teka, what should I do 1st? Ask her out, tell her straight on, or tanong ko muna kung pwd manligaw  :D