Paano ba dapat gawin pag nalaman mong my bf na pala ung gusto mong babae

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Offline marvinofthefaintsmile

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@ chris

un lng ang diko alam sir. basta ako bgay lng ako ng bgay nang gifts ni hnd ko pa nga natatanong kun my bf siya e

pero di nya alam na nakita ko na.

parang pumulot ka ng bato na ipupukpok mo sa ulo mo.. wag kang magbibigay ng gifts dahil aasa ka dun at tiyak na masasaktan ka lang. kaw din..

suggest ko, magjakol ka muna. pag nilabasan ka na. pag-isipan mo ulet ang sitwasyon mo at kung anu ang tamang gawin.




Offline josephbr

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ahasin na yan  >:D

Offline Carsnow

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Tama, move on muna saglit, then focus to something that will catch your attention, like playing games, studying and more, kasi it's between you and your feelings eh, like whati have said kung mag break, pormahan mo step by step, pero dyahe kasi may BF na, focus muna sa iba hehe
It's not pleasing kasi when you make some moves tapos the girl you're really into has her boyfriend tapos ano she will busted you after? Hehe, pero ikaw it's still your decision, as for me now, i have decided to keep my feelings on silent kasi may sabit pa, kung sila edi sila, kung kami edi ayos! XD

Tama. In short wag kang epal tol mai bf na yung tao sisingit kapa. nang aanu ka eh. isip munalang if pag mai girlfriend ka tapos malaman mung mai ng liligaw sa kanya anung mafefeel mu.  sundin munalang yung advice sa taas!

Offline chris_davao

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Offline bembmd

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Next na yan, wag mo na guluhin


Offline bugnutin99

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Simple lang. Iwasan mo. Pangit manira ng relasyon ng iba. Sayo din ang balik niyan.


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Offline miggymontenegro

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Move on. There is plenty of fish in the sea. Make urself busy and dont think about the person. U follow sa fb and ig. Dont think about viewing their post. U can move on. Naniniwala ako sayo! If i can u can din! Ano sabi ni jolibee?. Kaya mo kid!

Offline siradri11

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Paano ba dapat gawin pag nalaman mong my bf na pala ung gusto mong babae kaso gusto mo siya ligawan kumbaga na love at first sight ka gustong gusto mo talaga :) :(

salamat sa tutulong godbless po

Been there. And I did what you want to do, continue to pursue that girl. Its not good pare. Morality wise, pwede kang makasira ng relasyon at hindi mo gugustuhin na gawin sayo yun. Kaya sundin mo nalang yung advice ng karamhan na andito and stop.

Offline jackxtwist

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At dahil maraming nagsasabi na move on na. Let me play the devil's advocate.  I value your happiness and if you're gonna be happy getting that girl read on.

Meron ba kayong mutual friends? Or mutual activity (running, hiking)? If so, use it to your advantage. Go out with the group. Sobrang obvious pag nag-message ka sa kanya tapos wala kayong mutual. Unless bebentahan  mo sya ng pampaputi. I dunno. Actually pwede rin. Haha.



Been there. And I did what you want to do, continue to pursue that girl. Its not good pare. Morality wise, pwede kang makasira ng relasyon at hindi mo gugustuhin na gawin sayo yun. Kaya sundin mo nalang yung advice ng karamhan na andito and stop.
Pursue is not the right term. It's too aggressive. It will clearly raise the girl's guards. Basta just hang around. Be friendly but not too friendly. Huwag mo syang sosolohin. What I mean is, never put yourself in a position and location where it's only the two of you. Hindi ka pa nya jowa so huwag mag boyfriend duties. friends lang muna. There are a lot of things that friends don't do that boyfriends do. Your goal is to be the good friend. Her go to guy pag di available ang jowa o girl friends nya.


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Offline pepegagasusu

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as a married man, dont be selfish. mag wait ka

Offline bugnutin99

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Simple lang. Iwasan mo. Pangit manira ng relasyon ng iba. Sayo din ang balik niyan.


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Parang na-contradict ko tong sinabi kong to.
May gusto akong tao - as in, gustong gusto. Nalaman ko na in a relationship na siya pero sige pa rin ako kahit na alam kong nagseselos na yun bf nya.  ::) 


Pakiramdam ko ang sama ko tuloy.  :-[

Offline mrgagoman

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Kumilala ka ng iba.
Nanghihinayang ka sa isang magandang chic kase wala kang ibang choice eh.
Thats scarcity mindset. Daming isda sa dagat.