At dahil maraming nagsasabi na
move on na. Let me play the devil's advocate. I value your happiness and if you're gonna be happy getting that girl read on.
Meron ba kayong mutual friends? Or mutual activity (running, hiking)? If so, use it to your advantage. Go out with the group. Sobrang obvious pag nag-message ka sa kanya tapos wala kayong mutual. Unless bebentahan mo sya ng pampaputi. I dunno. Actually pwede rin. Haha.
Been there. And I did what you want to do, continue to pursue that girl. Its not good pare. Morality wise, pwede kang makasira ng relasyon at hindi mo gugustuhin na gawin sayo yun. Kaya sundin mo nalang yung advice ng karamhan na andito and stop.
Pursue is not the right term. It's too aggressive. It will clearly raise the girl's guards. Basta just hang around. Be
friendly but not too friendly. Huwag mo syang sosolohin. What I mean is, never put yourself in a position and location where it's only the two of you. Hindi ka pa nya jowa so huwag mag boyfriend duties. friends lang muna. There are a lot of things that friends don't do that boyfriends do. Your goal is to be the good friend. Her go to guy pag di available ang jowa o girl friends nya.
Forget karma. We can only connect the dots going backwards. We only see things that we want to see. We can only see the karma stories but not the success stories.
Let me leave you with this quote:
Mas madaling hulihin ang manok pag nakatali na.