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Offline chris_davao

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Unwelcomed

  • on: May 21, 2015, 12:14:38 PM
Na-experienced nyo na ba na feeling na unwelcomed ka ng mga ka-workmates mo? ano gnawa nyo? thanks sa mga replies nyo. 




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Re: Unwelcomed

  • on: May 21, 2015, 07:47:45 PM
normal lang yan pag baguhan ka pa lang, ako nga yung sa first job ko tatlo kaming newly hired talagang ayaw samin nung mga ka trabaho namin pero nung tumagal naging kaibigan ko na din sila ang sama pa nga ng loob nung manager namin nung nag resign ako hehe

pero kung matagal na ayaw pa rin sayo may problema na nga yun gawin mo lang be yourself wag ka makikipag plastikan dahil malalaman din nila yun

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Re: Unwelcomed

  • on: May 22, 2015, 08:04:34 AM
normal lang yan pag baguhan ka pa lang, ako nga yung sa first job ko tatlo kaming newly hired talagang ayaw samin nung mga ka trabaho namin pero nung tumagal naging kaibigan ko na din sila ang sama pa nga ng loob nung manager namin nung nag resign ako hehe

pero kung matagal na ayaw pa rin sayo may problema na nga yun gawin mo lang be yourself wag ka makikipag plastikan dahil malalaman din nila yun

salamat.

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Re: Unwelcomed

  • on: May 22, 2015, 10:27:10 AM
Naku ganyan talaga minsan nga hindi lang isnob or parang your not existing. Pinagdadabugan pa ako smile na lang ginagawa ko hanggat kayang magtimpi magtitimpi kasi need ng work :) much worse paguusapan ka pa kahit wala kang ginagawa hehehehe pero alam mo isa lang naituro sakin ng ganyang karanasan hindi mo kailangan ng maraming kaibigan kahit isa lang ang mahalaga hindi ka nagiisa.

Basta alam mong nasa tama ka at totoo ka sa sarili mo you are "UNIQUE"

 

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Re: Unwelcomed

  • on: May 22, 2015, 01:17:36 PM
Naku ganyan talaga minsan nga hindi lang isnob or parang your not existing. Pinagdadabugan pa ako smile na lang ginagawa ko hanggat kayang magtimpi magtitimpi kasi need ng work :) much worse paguusapan ka pa kahit wala kang ginagawa hehehehe pero alam mo isa lang naituro sakin ng ganyang karanasan hindi mo kailangan ng maraming kaibigan kahit isa lang ang mahalaga hindi ka nagiisa.

Basta alam mong nasa tama ka at totoo ka sa sarili mo you are "UNIQUE"

salamat.  :)


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Re: Unwelcomed

  • on: May 26, 2015, 03:45:44 PM
Ako a lot of times, i have been stereotyped and judged without due dialogue, sometimes even in this forum... it hurts much but in the end, i accept that not all people will understand and accept who i am.on my part,i am just being truthful, and being respectful of others and knowingmy limits

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Re: Unwelcomed

  • on: May 26, 2015, 04:55:18 PM
Ako a lot of times, i have been stereotyped and judged without due dialogue, sometimes even in this forum... it hurts much but in the end, i accept that not all people will understand and accept who i am.on my part,i am just being truthful, and being respectful of others and knowingmy limits

dito sa forum? bakit?

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Re: Unwelcomed

  • on: May 27, 2015, 07:54:59 AM
Long story bro. I cant say it here on the board. My private messaging has been suspended without notice and without fair trial. Some parts of the forum are restricted for me. I feel an outcasted brother

y? nag-ask ka na ba kang admin chris about that?

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Re: Unwelcomed

  • on: May 28, 2015, 07:40:18 AM
Cris, let's talk about it outside this forum.

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Re: Unwelcomed

  • on: May 28, 2015, 08:55:31 AM
send mo kay kuya monch lahat ng conversations nyo, tapos siya na mag foforward kay chris malay mo makatulong yun sa case mo. Fair naman si Chris usually dami nga mga pinalalagpas lang nyang kaso, pero sa case mo kasi dami nagreklamo, me and kuya monch don't know all the details kahit moderators kami medyo private kasi.

Anyway payo ko lang sayo, minsan ang akala mong tunay na kaibigan dito sa forum sila pa pala magpapahamak sayo, kaya be vigilant ;)

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Re: Unwelcomed

  • on: May 28, 2015, 11:02:29 AM
I have done that already, but my appeal was left unheard. Kuya monch knows it. Anyway, i rest my case. first impressions of people on me, always last, even if i explained the Matter. Thnaks for the concern. I think it's a lesson for me in this forum. This is an imperfecr community, and i, an imperfect person, comes here to relate with others. When i make mistakes ormy actions look "odd for" guys to do, i am boxed out. Beyond this, i appreciatemy happy times here. today, it's not so welcoming after all.

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Re: Unwelcomed

  • on: May 28, 2015, 02:24:15 PM
how offensive?

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Re: Unwelcomed

  • on: June 12, 2019, 11:58:29 PM
Sa work, pati na din sa family.. :(

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Re: Unwelcomed

  • on: June 14, 2019, 07:36:57 AM
send mo kay kuya monch lahat ng conversations nyo, tapos siya na mag foforward kay chris malay mo makatulong yun sa case mo. Fair naman si Chris usually dami nga mga pinalalagpas lang nyang kaso, pero sa case mo kasi dami nagreklamo, me and kuya monch don't know all the details kahit moderators kami medyo private kasi.

Anyway payo ko lang sayo, minsan ang akala mong tunay na kaibigan dito sa forum sila pa pala magpapahamak sayo, kaya be vigilant ;)

Oo nga. I know ang topic ng thread na ito ay about being unwelcomed pero mukhang inappropriate dito sa thread yang case mo. No need to raise your case or appeal publicly dito sa thread why not raise it sa moderators and admins? Kung di napakinggan no need to rant here, this is not just about your personal matter. Sa pag-post mo ng ganyan dito not sure how to say it pero parang sinisiraan mo naman  peers mo dito. Deal it personally with them. If wala nangyari no need to open it publicly 

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