how to look and feel good when youre not good looking?

Started by thegutzy, January 07, 2017, 10:17:56 AM

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Admittedly, di ako kagwapuhan and im thinking thats the reason why im not getting that much attention sa barkada namin when it comes to girls. Self pity na nga minsan eh. Yung tipong you always compare yourself to other guys na mas lamang sayo. Tips naman dyan mga brod.




Quote from: thegutzy on January 07, 2017, 10:17:56 AM
Admittedly, di ako kagwapuhan and im thinking thats the reason why im not getting that much attention sa barkada namin when it comes to girls. Self pity na nga minsan eh. Yung tipong you always compare yourself to other guys na mas lamang sayo. Tips naman dyan mga brod.

MAY MGA GUYS KASI NA HINDI GANUN KAWAPO, PERO MALAKAS ANG APPEAL, SEX APPEAL GANUN. JUST BE YOURSELF, IMPRITQNTNE MALINIS KA SA KATAWAN, MABANGO PALGI. HINDI NAMAN NEED MGPERFUME NG SOBRANG DAMI OR TAPANG. GOOD HAIRCUT. GOOD CLOTHES/OUTFIT.

Quote from: GreenLover on January 07, 2017, 11:11:35 PM
Quote from: thegutzy on January 07, 2017, 10:17:56 AM
Admittedly, di ako kagwapuhan and im thinking thats the reason why im not getting that much attention sa barkada namin when it comes to girls. Self pity na nga minsan eh. Yung tipong you always compare yourself to other guys na mas lamang sayo. Tips naman dyan mga brod.

MAY MGA GUYS KASI NA HINDI GANUN KAWAPO, PERO MALAKAS ANG APPEAL, SEX APPEAL GANUN. JUST BE YOURSELF, IMPRITQNTNE MALINIS KA SA KATAWAN, MABANGO PALGI. HINDI NAMAN NEED MGPERFUME NG SOBRANG DAMI OR TAPANG. GOOD HAIRCUT. GOOD CLOTHES/OUTFIT.

I agree! Number one is NEAT dapat parati. That includes your personal hygiene and kung bagay mo ang may bigote/balbas. Kundi naman e ishave mo na. Wear clothes na nababagay sayo at sa skin tone mo. And last but not the least ung haircut dapat swak din sa hugis ng mukha mo. Feel good about yourself! When you start thinking and feeling good about yourself, people would see and think the same! Goodluck! :)

Quote from: thegutzy on January 07, 2017, 10:17:56 AM
Admittedly, di ako kagwapuhan and im thinking thats the reason why im not getting that much attention sa barkada namin when it comes to girls. Self pity na nga minsan eh. Yung tipong you always compare yourself to other guys na mas lamang sayo. Tips naman dyan mga brod.

work out and take care of yourself, everything will fall into place after that..

ako? wla lang. basta di ka lang mabaho. ok na yan. ahahahahaha


 be different from the rest.... is the key to standing out.... alwys find ur redeeming factor...

Quote from: Tmar27 on March 03, 2017, 11:16:29 PM
be different from the rest.... is the key to standing out.... alwys find ur redeeming factor...

Exactly!!

No matter how good looking you are but you don't feel good about yourself, wala din. So I guess, it should start within you. You need to love yourself, feel good about yourself. You know yourself more than anyone so you have every reason to love yourself. Saka ka mag total make-over. Haha. Know your body type and what fits and looks good on you. Ok na yun! Tapos yung iba, gaya na rin ng sabi ng iba dito. :)


Quote from: bokalto on March 17, 2017, 09:10:04 AM
No matter how good looking you are but you don't feel good about yourself, wala din. So I guess, it should start within you. You need to love yourself, feel good about yourself. You know yourself more than anyone so you have every reason to love yourself. Saka ka mag total make-over. Haha. Know your body type and what fits and looks good on you. Ok na yun! Tapos yung iba, gaya na rin ng sabi ng iba dito. :)

tama! di nman yan sa mga damit eh o sa mga sinusuot. dapat kumportable ka lang sa sarili mo. ok na yun.

Quote from: bokalto on March 17, 2017, 09:10:04 AM
No matter how good looking you are but you don't feel good about yourself, wala din. So I guess, it should start within you. You need to love yourself, feel good about yourself. You know yourself more than anyone so you have every reason to love yourself. Saka ka mag total make-over. Haha. Know your body type and what fits and looks good on you. Ok na yun! Tapos yung iba, gaya na rin ng sabi ng iba dito. :)

This is actually true.
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=wrEvCKgV0gM

I asked several girls before regarding how they perceived a guy as a good-looking and amazingly majority of them answered like this:
Kaming mga babae mahilig talaga kami sa gwapo (maputi, matangkad, maganda ang katawan, chinito, etc etc) but at the end of the day we are still looking forward on the guy's personality. Kasi may mga lalaking ang gwapo nga bastos naman sa mga babae.

So therefore, it is not the physical features that makes a guy "gwapo". "Gwapo" is always inside the man's body and heart. Confidence is also a factor. Some guys are good looking but because of lack of confidence, those good looking features are being neglected so "sayang naman". Hygiene is very important also. Just wear neat clothes and be snappy (is that the right term?).

Quote from: MR_BIG18 on January 20, 2017, 11:24:17 PM
Quote from: thegutzy on January 07, 2017, 10:17:56 AM
Admittedly, di ako kagwapuhan and im thinking thats the reason why im not getting that much attention sa barkada namin when it comes to girls. Self pity na nga minsan eh. Yung tipong you always compare yourself to other guys na mas lamang sayo. Tips naman dyan mga brod.

work out and take care of yourself, everything will fall into place after that..

I agree