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Title: Why do people come and go?
Post by: jazaustria on January 19, 2012, 10:10:33 PM
How do you keep friendship alive even if you're far away....

nakakalungkot lang kasi I miss some of my old friends, kaso may kanya kanya na rin kaming mga buhay kaya eto ako, moving on and meeting new people.... I'm socially inclined kasi hehe!

share your experiences... ty!
Title: Re: Why do people come and go?
Post by: pong on January 19, 2012, 10:34:51 PM
It's part of life, Jaz. Ganun talaga.

Minsan, natatakot ako sa isang fact na yung 40 kaibigan mo at the age of 17 ay magiging 2 na lang at the age of 40. To think na ganun pa rin ang takbo ng buhay mo. Napapaisip lang ako kasi parang totoo nga.

Could be linked to maturity or deeper understanding about friendship. May tendency tayo na i-presume na dahil araw-araw nating kausap at kasabay mag-lunch, ka-yosi, ay kaibigan na natin. Hindi ako expert sa psychology pero may tsansa na pag hindi na kayo madalas magkita, talagang tatabang ang samahan ninyo. Andun pa rin yung mami-miss niyo ang isa't-isa pero hindi na tulad ng dati.

Para maiwasan ang ganung mga insidente, I see it to the point na makipagkita sa mga kaibigan ko nung HS, kahit once a month. Para makibalita. Kahit ako ang gumastos, basta magkita lang kami. Minsan, hindi maiiwasan na magtampo ka at tipong wala na rin silang pakialam dahil may mas pinagkaka-abala-han sila; pero the fact na naalala ko sila or maalala nila ako ay isang malaking bagay na.

Isa pa, people come and go as a means of experience. May tao talagang nakatakdang buwisitin, inggitin, saktan at gumawa ng bagay na makakapagpasama ng loob natin: pero yun ay para tumatag tayo. Pero later on in life, makakalimutan mo rin mga pagmumukha nila. Pero ikaw, matikas pa rin, salamat na rin sa kanila. At saka, may mga tao talagang hindi meant sa atin na maging kaibigan, kahit anong pilit. Yun ang isa ring palaisipan sa akin ngayon.

So, mag-enjoy ka na lang dito. Pero ihanda mo ang sarili mo na one time, halos hindi na kayo magkakakilala ng iba. Dahil iba-iba ang buhay-buhay. May mag-aasawa, may magiging mayaman, may magiging frustrated, pero hindi yun dapat magpabali ng pagkakaibigan.
Title: Re: Why do people come and go?
Post by: jazaustria on January 19, 2012, 10:39:26 PM
hmmmm di nga ko magpapakita sau para ikaw manlibre! lol!  :P
Title: Re: Why do people come and go?
Post by: joshgroban on January 19, 2012, 11:31:49 PM
sakin kasi yung physical presence come and go pero yung relationship andun pa rin...at pag nagkita kayo  you just talk of the good things you shared together... somehow we changed from glory to glory...
Title: Re: Why do people come and go?
Post by: marvinofthefaintsmile on January 20, 2012, 08:05:56 AM
losing friends is an enevitable part of lyf.  kea ako eh dump lang nang dump with that shit. ang mkulet lng eh c ung datng bespren ko, hirap i-dump from d heart pero malapit na.. im sure..

mnsan nga eh me nkksalubong akong chikas sa daan at binati ako pero diko siya matandaaan eh.. Gusto ko nga sanang tanungin eh.. "Did we have sex before?"
Title: Re: Why do people come and go?
Post by: geo on January 20, 2012, 09:17:42 AM
waaaaaaaa... nakakaiyak na topic....  :'(
Title: Re: Why do people come and go?
Post by: Peps on January 20, 2012, 09:54:02 AM
"If there ever comes a day when we can't be together, keep me in your heart, I'll stay there forever"
Title: Re: Why do people come and go?
Post by: jazaustria on January 20, 2012, 10:27:54 AM
waaaaaaaa... nakakaiyak na topic....  :'(

may naaalala ka bang experience?? share! haha
Title: Re: Why do people come and go?
Post by: enzoafterdark on January 20, 2012, 10:49:52 AM
honga ka-lungkot

i also agree with josh. na-reretain saken kung ano yun napagsamahan so kung magkaron man ng gap ok lang kasi pag nagkita naman im sure di naman ganun ka-awkward kasi ok naman yun bond eh

pero na-imagine ko na malungkot isipin pag nangyari nga no? its hard but we have to move on...
Title: Re: Why do people come and go?
Post by: geo on January 20, 2012, 11:01:35 AM
mamaya na... Makwento ako kapag lasing. hahahah. kabaliktaran ng personality ko.... :p
Title: Re: Why do people come and go?
Post by: jazaustria on January 20, 2012, 11:12:24 AM
bakit? ano bang personality mo?? haha! bohemian rhapsody na yan!!!!
Title: Re: Why do people come and go?
Post by: geo on January 20, 2012, 11:26:11 AM
masyado ka nainlove sa bohemian ko....
Title: Re: Why do people come and go?
Post by: jazaustria on January 20, 2012, 11:35:57 AM
naisip ko lang... nakakalungkot nga tlga to... kung sakali mang magkaroon na tayong mga sariling buhay dito, sa mga kaibigan kong nakilala dito, sana no awkward moments when we meet in the future....
Title: Re: Why do people come and go?
Post by: pong on January 20, 2012, 11:37:04 AM
naisip ko lang... nakakalungkot nga tlga to... kung sakali mang magkaroon na tayong mga sariling buhay dito, sa mga kaibigan kong nakilala dito, sana no awkward moments when we meet in the future....

yeah, sana. pero pag naging artista ka na, malamang, tsupipi na kami LOL
Title: Re: Why do people come and go?
Post by: jazaustria on January 20, 2012, 11:38:37 AM
dnt worry pong, bigayn kita autograph ko! bwahahaha!
Title: Re: Why do people come and go?
Post by: geo on January 20, 2012, 11:42:12 AM
naisip ko lang... nakakalungkot nga tlga to... kung sakali mang magkaroon na tayong mga sariling buhay dito, sa mga kaibigan kong nakilala dito, sana no awkward moments when we meet in the future....

an drama mo pre... feeling ko may soft touch ka when it comes to relationships.... hahhaa...
Title: Re: Why do people come and go?
Post by: jazaustria on January 20, 2012, 11:43:35 AM
lahat nmn tau may soft touch... yun nga lang, may mga di magandang pangyayari akong naexperience na nakakalungkot....
Title: Re: Why do people come and go?
Post by: geo on January 20, 2012, 11:55:27 AM
lets talk it over a drink... mapagusapan para makapgmove on na.... haha... im sensing these experiences are dragging you back down......NAKS...
Title: Re: Why do people come and go?
Post by: pong on January 20, 2012, 12:12:45 PM
saan? sa tissue? no, thank you  :P
Title: Re: Why do people come and go?
Post by: geo on January 20, 2012, 12:52:49 PM
wat? haha
Title: Re: Why do people come and go?
Post by: pong on January 20, 2012, 01:01:37 PM
sa tissue pipirma ng autograph si jaz PFFFT
Title: Re: Why do people come and go?
Post by: geo on January 20, 2012, 01:08:51 PM
tpos gamitin mo pamunas kapag nag cr ka... :P
Title: Re: Why do people come and go?
Post by: pong on January 20, 2012, 01:21:26 PM
nakaka-insulto ka naman... hindi dapat pinamumunas ang autograph.
Title: Re: Why do people come and go?
Post by: enzoafterdark on January 20, 2012, 01:25:08 PM
parang alam ko soft touch ni geo hahaha...hula ko...chest???  ???


pag sumikat ka na jaz entourage mo kami ah in short alalay hahaha
Title: Re: Why do people come and go?
Post by: marvinofthefaintsmile on January 20, 2012, 01:49:21 PM
parang alam ko soft touch ni geo hahaha...hula ko...chest???  ???


pag sumikat ka na jaz entourage mo kami ah in short alalay hahaha

tara! pingutin natin ng sabay ang utang ni geo. sa kaliwa ka, ako sa kanan..
Title: Re: Why do people come and go?
Post by: enzoafterdark on January 20, 2012, 01:52:43 PM
game!

a wan

a two

a tree...

 :o
Title: Re: Why do people come and go?
Post by: geo on January 20, 2012, 01:55:15 PM
 8)

Thats cool... :)
Title: Re: Why do people come and go?
Post by: enzoafterdark on January 20, 2012, 01:59:15 PM

lol!!!

nagenjoy?  :o
Title: Re: Why do people come and go?
Post by: marvinofthefaintsmile on January 20, 2012, 02:03:23 PM
gusto mo tong ginagawa namin sa yo ah.. O yan pa!! Ayan pa!! Hahahahaha!!
Title: Re: Why do people come and go?
Post by: soulseeker27 on January 20, 2012, 02:04:33 PM
-choice nilang umalis and minsan, napipilitang umalis under unavoidable circumstances...  :(
Title: Re: Why do people come and go?
Post by: jazaustria on January 20, 2012, 02:07:26 PM
trip na trip nyo chest ni geo ah! haha! pakitaan kau nyan! nag pepecbounce pa yan! lol!
Title: Re: Why do people come and go?
Post by: geo on January 20, 2012, 02:09:11 PM
di ko kaya gawin yun... :)
Title: Re: Why do people come and go?
Post by: pong on January 20, 2012, 02:13:32 PM
^yabangan na ito!
Title: Re: Why do people come and go?
Post by: geo on January 20, 2012, 02:16:11 PM
^oi di kaya ako nagyayabang... ako kaya pinagti tripan nila.... :P
Title: Re: Why do people come and go?
Post by: soulseeker27 on January 20, 2012, 02:18:24 PM
hahaha! kulet nyo ah.. :)
Title: Re: Why do people come and go?
Post by: enzoafterdark on January 20, 2012, 02:20:29 PM
pekpek bounce? yun chest?

hanep sa talent pang contest ah

 ;D
Title: Re: Why do people come and go?
Post by: soulseeker27 on January 20, 2012, 02:27:04 PM
pekpek bounce? yun chest?

hanep sa talent pang contest ah

 ;D

hahahahahah!
Title: Re: Why do people come and go?
Post by: pong on January 20, 2012, 02:27:45 PM
pwes sumali kayo sa Pilipinas Got Talent at baka murahin kayo ni FMG
"is that talent? pecs-flexing?!"

LOL
Title: Re: Why do people come and go?
Post by: enzoafterdark on January 20, 2012, 02:30:22 PM
pero makukuha nyo naman un boto ni ai-ai at kris

pasok pa din hahaha

next is pec flexing synchronization with your buddy <geo at jaz>
Title: Re: Why do people come and go?
Post by: jazaustria on January 20, 2012, 02:31:36 PM
tae, nasusuka na ko dito haha
Title: Re: Why do people come and go?
Post by: geo on January 20, 2012, 02:34:39 PM
anu sa tingin mo ako? hinde?
Title: Re: Why do people come and go?
Post by: jazaustria on January 20, 2012, 02:37:23 PM
wala naman ako sinabe.... mga tripo kasi nitong si enzo eh... mangungurot pala! haha!

ang alam ko name ng topic nato, why do people come and go?
hindi kurutan ng utong! haha!

dapat mga emo dito! lol!
Title: Re: Why do people come and go?
Post by: enzoafterdark on January 20, 2012, 02:42:30 PM
honga hahahahaha

kingkinang shit! napunta sa utong basta alam ko sumasagot lang ako passive lang hahahaha


..haaaay nakakamiss yun mga taong naging close mo tapos lumayo sa malayong lugar <sige san may malapit na malayong lugar>
Title: Re: Why do people come and go?
Post by: geo on January 20, 2012, 02:44:31 PM
wala naman ako sinabe.... mga tripo kasi nitong si enzo eh... mangungurot pala! haha!

ang alam ko name ng topic nato, why do people come and go?
hindi kurutan ng utong! haha!

dapat mga emo dito! lol!

isa ka dapat sa top poster dito? hahahaha peace!
Title: Re: Why do people come and go?
Post by: jazaustria on January 20, 2012, 02:45:09 PM
kaya nga ako author diba? hahaha
Title: Re: Why do people come and go?
Post by: geo on January 20, 2012, 02:46:19 PM
^nakikigulo lang tol.... :P
Title: Re: Why do people come and go?
Post by: enzoafterdark on January 20, 2012, 02:53:44 PM
at nagkakagulo na nga hahaha

mukhang lahat ng puntahan natin thread puro out of topic

lagot nakamonitor pa naman ata si boss chris nyahaha  :o
Title: Re: Why do people come and go?
Post by: soulseeker27 on January 20, 2012, 03:25:26 PM
OT - kaya naman may mga taong umaalis sa buhay natin dahil na rin sa minsan tayo ang nagiging dahilan ng pag alis nila.

di ba?
Title: Re: Why do people come and go?
Post by: enzoafterdark on January 20, 2012, 03:29:16 PM
hard to accept pero tama ka dre


Title: Re: Why do people come and go?
Post by: joshgroban on January 20, 2012, 06:58:09 PM
parang kanta lang yan...why do people cry when they hear the word goodbye in a love song... wahahaha
Title: Re: Why do people come and go?
Post by: incognito on January 21, 2012, 03:45:41 PM
tinatanong lang naman usually tanong na to pag yung taong dumating at umalis (or nawala) sayo ay gusto mo or mahalaga sayo. tanungin kita ngayon, tingin mo ba sapat ang ginawa mo or pinakita mo sa mga taong umalis na sa buhay mo  para manatili sila sayo?  ugh. drama lang. pota!
Title: Re: Why do people come and go?
Post by: Peps on January 21, 2012, 04:42:28 PM
Shet pinariringgan moko kap  :P nyahahaha
Title: Re: Why do people come and go?
Post by: incognito on January 21, 2012, 04:51:04 PM
^isa ka sa dahilan kaya nawala ako ng matagal sa pgg. sisirain mo pa pagbabalik ko. manahimik ka nga. lol.
Title: Re: Why do people come and go?
Post by: Peps on January 21, 2012, 05:01:16 PM
Grabe may negative karma na agad ako :(
Title: Re: Why do people come and go?
Post by: jazaustria on January 21, 2012, 08:22:01 PM
totoo ba itong nakikita ko? nagbabalik si kap sa forum? hehehe! inapplaud kita! lol!

let's smite peps! lol!
Title: Re: Why do people come and go?
Post by: vir on January 22, 2012, 06:01:31 AM
hanggang dito pla sa social lounge may kurutan din..hahaha..

tingin ko most of the time, it's up to us if we will let a person go..minsan kasi di naman nila intensyon umalis at baka tayo yung di nakikipagcommunicate o hindi gumagawa ng effort  to see them..maliban nlng kung despite all your efforts to keep in touch eh dedma lng sila..pero nasa atin pa rin yun,kasi pwede natin silang intindihin at pagbigyan na magfocus muna sa kani kanilang buhay at maghintay ng tamang panahon kung kelan kayo magkikita uli..

or take it in a positive way..mawala man sila,it's an opportunity for us to meet new friends..kasi diba kung sila sila lng rin ang kasama mo everytime,less chances na may makilala ka pang iba..

"flames to dust
lovers to friends
why do all good things come to an end?"
Title: Re: Why do people come and go?
Post by: mangkulas03 on January 22, 2012, 12:15:54 PM
i wish i could say the same. :(

yes, people go... but it doesn't mean the friendship ends as well. there are friendships that stand the test of time and distance. and that is what i hope and pray for someone who left. it's not that he left without a reason, priorities changed. i was just used to being with that person day in and day out. that's why i'm still longing. btw, this was just recent.
Title: Re: Why do people come and go?
Post by: pong on January 22, 2012, 01:01:41 PM
it's not that he left without a reason, priorities changed.

ditto. likewise, let us enjoy the fun while the priorities between us are still with each other.
Title: Re: Why do people come and go?
Post by: ctan on January 22, 2012, 02:49:22 PM
Indeed, everything happens for a reason. People whom you have had good encounters as well as those with bad ones, are there to make you who you are now. People will always come and you cannot hold them forever. Even your future spouse or the one who you've exchanged vows with to stay for better or for worse. It's either you die first or she dies first. As the vow end, til death do us part. People will always come and go. As Mahatma Gandhi said, "live as if you were to die tomorrow..." Carpe diem! Carpe smilem! :-)
Title: Re: Why do people come and go?
Post by: jazaustria on January 22, 2012, 09:17:22 PM
Indeed, everything happens for a reason. People whom you have had good encounters as well as those with bad ones, are there to make you who you are now. People will always come and you cannot hold them forever. Even your future spouse or the one who you've exchanged vows with to stay for better or for worse. It's either you die first or she dies first. As the vow end, til death do us part. People will always come and go. As Mahatma Gandhi said, "live as if you were to die tomorrow..." Carpe diem! Carpe smilem! :-)

LIKE! ^
Title: Re: Why do people come and go?
Post by: maykel on January 23, 2012, 10:07:28 PM
sakin kasi yung physical presence come and go pero yung relationship andun pa rin...at pag nagkita kayo  you just talk of the good things you shared together... somehow we changed from glory to glory...

I agree on the bolded part.:) Hindi man ramdam yung physical presence ng isang friend, but the moment na nagkaroon ulit ng communication, maibabalik ulit ang friendship na naputol.
Title: Re: Why do people come and go?
Post by: marvinofthefaintsmile on January 24, 2012, 09:30:27 AM
basta ako eh tapon na iyon.. depende pa din xempre after kong timbangin yung mahihita ko at mawawala sa akin pag pinagpatuloy ko ang ganung relationship..

pag more on nega., tapon na yun..
pag more on posi,. re-accept ulet!
Title: Re: Why do people come and go?
Post by: enzoafterdark on January 26, 2012, 01:27:49 AM
group hug!  ;D

lets all hit the showers naked!!!  :o
 
hahaha sweet naman ng mga pgg friends ko  ;)
Title: Re: Why do people come and go?
Post by: marvinofthefaintsmile on January 26, 2012, 08:33:11 AM
^we used to do that with my team mates during my athletic days.
Title: Re: Why do people come and go?
Post by: soulseeker27 on January 26, 2012, 11:21:03 AM
why do people come and go?

minsan nirerequire mo na silang umalis sa buhay mo, lalo na kung di na sila nagdudulot ng maganda sayo. Like kung naapektuhan na ang physical and emotional aspects ng buhay mo. Even though it hurts so much to see that someone is walking away from your life, siguro mas maganda na yung ganun kesa magkasakitan pa kayo. Di na rin naman kayo magkakaintindihan pa eh. Kung may chance pa, why not? pero hindi pa siguro ngayon yun.
Title: Re: Why do people come and go?
Post by: maykel on January 26, 2012, 11:25:54 AM
Eto lang ang nilalagay ko sa isip ko everytime may umaalis...

Kasi they need to do it. Hindi naman sila sa atin lang para manatili sa ating tabi. May buhay din sila na kailangan nilang pagtuunan ng pansin.

and what matters to me is the relationship that has been created between the two of us. So that just in case that we meet again, there is no awkward moments between the two of us.
Title: Re: Why do people come and go?
Post by: raider on January 27, 2012, 10:49:07 PM
by chance they come, by choice they go. :'(
Title: Re: Why do people come and go?
Post by: enzoafterdark on January 28, 2012, 12:16:02 AM
is there really a 'acceptable' reason why they go?
Title: Re: Why do people come and go?
Post by: ctan on January 29, 2012, 05:39:00 PM
is there really a 'acceptable' reason why they go?

of course. Most of the time it's acceptable. If it's for the progress or for th good of the two of you...
Title: Re: Why do people come and go?
Post by: maykel on January 30, 2012, 08:50:51 AM
is there really a 'acceptable' reason why they go?

Yes. It is acceptable to them but not to us.:)
Title: Re: Why do people come and go?
Post by: mangkulas03 on January 31, 2012, 12:31:59 AM
is there really a 'acceptable' reason why they go?

of course. Most of the time it's acceptable. If it's for the progress or for th good of the two of you...

i concur. it is acceptable. knowing when and how to accept it is a different story.
Title: Re: Why do people come and go?
Post by: enzoafterdark on January 31, 2012, 12:35:26 AM
gets ko na  ;)

every reason is acceptable since the two of you are friends but <as said by mang kulas> knowing when and how to accept it is a different story.

right  ;)
Title: Re: Why do people come and go?
Post by: mangkulas03 on January 31, 2012, 12:57:57 AM
hehe. pero, honestly, isa sa mga major issues ko sa buhay ay ang aking separation anxiety. :-/
Title: Re: Why do people come and go?
Post by: enzoafterdark on January 31, 2012, 02:19:32 AM
mahirap naman talaga kasi yun nakasanayan mo na tapos bigla na lang mawawala or nagpaparamdam na mawawala  :(
Title: Re: Why do people come and go?
Post by: asul on January 31, 2012, 01:52:49 PM
hehe. pero, honestly, isa sa mga major issues ko sa buhay ay ang aking separation anxiety. :-/


mangkulas- kontakin mo lang ako kung kelangan mo ng psychologist..lol haha


@topic: Well, ako rin eh. I sometimes ask this question to myself and then for me kamag-anak nitong question na to yung tanong na
"Bakit kaya sila nagbabago?"
ayun..
Title: Re: Why do people come and go?
Post by: mangkulas03 on February 09, 2012, 01:58:28 AM
^ haha. hindi ko pa naman kailangan ng psychologist/psychiatrist. but thanks for the offer. :) palagi naman kami naguusap ni Lord.
Title: Re: Why do people come and go?
Post by: vir on February 12, 2012, 05:40:15 AM
ganun talaga..sabi nga ni heraclitus - "the only constant is change"
Title: Re: Why do people come and go?
Post by: marvinofthefaintsmile on February 14, 2012, 09:05:03 AM
^ haha. hindi ko pa naman kailangan ng psychologist/psychiatrist. but thanks for the offer. :) palagi naman kami naguusap ni Lord.

anung sabi Lord?
Title: Re: Why do people come and go?
Post by: asul on February 14, 2012, 03:00:36 PM
^ haha. hindi ko pa naman kailangan ng psychologist/psychiatrist. but thanks for the offer. :) palagi naman kami naguusap ni Lord.

anung sabi Lord?


pareng marvs: literal?haha lol
Title: Re: Why do people come and go?
Post by: marvinofthefaintsmile on February 14, 2012, 04:18:22 PM
^hmm.. nothing.. i just got curious.
Title: Re: Why do people come and go?
Post by: darkstar13 on August 16, 2012, 07:01:41 PM
because no one waits forever.
Title: Re: Why do people come and go?
Post by: Klutz on August 16, 2012, 07:21:21 PM
it's just part of life.. there will always be a time that someone will leave us or we leave them..

it's inevitable
Title: Re: Why do people come and go?
Post by: joshgroban on August 17, 2012, 12:20:35 AM
physical absence doesnt mean theyre gone... as long as theyre in our hearts ... we will forever felt their presence....
Title: Re: Why do people come and go?
Post by: kaloy on August 17, 2012, 10:27:22 AM
it's just part of life.. there will always be a time that someone will leave us or we leave them..

it's inevitable
Ditto!
Title: Re: Why do people come and go?
Post by: noyskie on August 17, 2012, 03:24:46 PM
People come to our lives to teach us something, usually not directly but sometimes it is. It is for us to maximize the time they are with us.
People leave our lives probably because they already shared with us what they ought to share. It is for us to accept and be happy on whatever purpose they’ll have next.

Just my thoughts…
Title: Re: Why do people come and go?
Post by: Klutz on August 17, 2012, 03:31:50 PM
out of topic: the posts here are getting lonelier and lonelier and lonelierrrrrr.... >.<
Title: Re: Why do people come and go?
Post by: jelo kid on August 17, 2012, 04:06:22 PM
Why do people come and go?
kasi nga may pupuntahan sya..haha lol
Title: Re: Why do people come and go?
Post by: kaloy on August 17, 2012, 04:13:23 PM
I've heard it said
That people come into our lives for a reason
Bringing something we must learn
And we are led
To those who help us most to grow
If we let them
And we help them in return

It well may be
That we will never meet again
In this lifetime
So let me say before we part
So much of me
Is made of what I learned from you
You'll be with me
Like a handprint on my heart
And now whatever way our stories end
I know you have re-written mine
By being my friend...

From Wicked Soundtrack :(
Title: Re: Why do people come and go?
Post by: jelo kid on August 17, 2012, 04:16:31 PM
nothing lasts forever daw..
Title: Re: Why do people come and go?
Post by: jelo kid on August 17, 2012, 04:16:56 PM
nothing is permanent daw..
Title: Re: Why do people come and go?
Post by: marvinofthefaintsmile on August 17, 2012, 07:12:31 PM
yung post ni noyskie bout "teaching us something.."

parang case ng "teach me how to douggie.. teach me, teach me how to douggie"
Title: Re: Why do people come and go?
Post by: joshgroban on September 01, 2012, 05:27:31 AM
changes is inevitable..
Title: Re: Why do people come and go?
Post by: Klutz on September 01, 2012, 05:01:26 PM
i hope if someone will leave me, they tell me first.. hirap maging attached.. yung everyday nasa system mo na.. tapos yun..  haha oh well.. >.<
Title: Re: Why do people come and go?
Post by: jelo kid on September 01, 2012, 06:08:22 PM
i hope if someone will leave me, they tell me first.. hirap maging attached.. yung everyday nasa system mo na.. tapos yun..  haha oh well.. >.<
reminds me of my ex.... argh!
Title: Re: Why do people come and go?
Post by: darkstar13 on September 02, 2012, 07:48:44 AM
People come and go so we can learn on our own.
They have served their purpose in our life.
Title: Re: Why do people come and go?
Post by: SuperBazor on October 16, 2012, 06:04:58 PM
parang basic laws of life ang pagdating at pag-alis ng tao sa buhay natin. Parang Light and Dark, Life and Death, Happiness and Sadness. Lahat ay magkapartner na positibo at negatibo. Pag nawala ang isa ay masisira ang balanse. Pero lagi kong iniisip... umalis man ang tao sa buhay mo... The memory lives on....
Title: Re: Why do people come and go?
Post by: carpediem on October 16, 2012, 09:45:55 PM
because nothing is permanent
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Post by: Lanchie on October 17, 2012, 03:38:39 AM
bored.
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Post by: joshgroban on January 04, 2013, 08:46:30 AM
theyre just there to get and not to give
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Post by: marvinofthefaintsmile on January 07, 2013, 10:39:12 AM
the only constant is change
Title: Re: Why do people come and go?
Post by: solomon on April 12, 2013, 12:46:35 PM
Why?? Because they feel you don't want him/her kaya gora na sya
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Post by: Jon on April 16, 2013, 07:22:30 PM
change is constant.

people come and go.

deal and live with it!
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Post by: caicomonster on April 21, 2013, 05:46:07 AM
nothing last forever
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Post by: marvinofthefaintsmile on April 22, 2013, 10:46:12 AM
friends they come.. and friends they go..
nothing really last forever.. ever..

dayk ladu ladu dey. dayk ladu du dey.
dayk ladu ladu dey. du la da du da da dayk!
Title: Re: Why do people come and go?
Post by: joshgroban on May 24, 2013, 06:45:06 AM
we grow as a person...
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Post by: marvinofthefaintsmile on May 24, 2013, 08:18:30 AM
^masyadong vague ang explantn.
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Post by: joshgroban on August 12, 2013, 01:25:39 PM
marami kasing explanation talaga...wala namang mali o tama
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Post by: solomon on August 16, 2013, 07:18:35 PM
Why do people come and go?

Because it is meant to end.
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Post by: joshgroban on August 19, 2013, 11:48:22 PM
people grow and change is inevitable
Title: Re: Why do people come and go?
Post by: vortex on August 20, 2013, 06:17:36 PM
Isa sa pinaka malungkot na katotohanan. Ako takot din ako maiwan ng kahit sinong mahal ko. Pero ganun talaga. Ang masakit kapag may nakilala silang bago at nag-click sila, I am out of their picture na unless they'll need me or may problem sila.
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Post by: mang juan on August 20, 2013, 06:22:19 PM
^ Medyo possessive pero takot din ako sa ganun  :'(
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Post by: vortex on August 20, 2013, 08:07:31 PM
^ Medyo possessive pero takot din ako sa ganun  :'(
So true.
Title: Re: Why do people come and go?
Post by: superosmdummi on August 20, 2013, 09:31:23 PM
Minsan kasi kapag nag cross paths ang dalawang tao... There will be a time na maghihiwalay din sila. Pero that's the most hurtful and the most difficult to bear. Ako, I'm always there if someone needs me and willing din akong ma iwan if they'll decide to leave me.
Title: Re: Why do people come and go?
Post by: vortex on August 21, 2013, 09:10:07 AM
Minsan kasi kapag nag cross paths ang dalawang tao... There will be a time na maghihiwalay din sila. Pero that's the most hurtful and the most difficult to bear. Ako, I'm always there if someone needs me and willing din akong ma iwan if they'll decide to leave me.
Hahaha. same here. I remember, may 2 akong friends, ngayon may tampuhan sila, yung isa nag-o-open up sa akin ng problems nila ngayon, tapos yung isa naman nakakasama ko na, although di nya pa nakukwento ang pinag-awayan nila. But sinabi ko sa kanila, masaya ako kasi napapansin nila ako. And yung sinabi mo na ito, sinabi ko rin iyon sa isa kong friend kasi pakiramdam ko kapag may bago siyang nakakasama I am out of their picture na and nararamdaman ko ang pagka-ilang kapag kasama ko sila ng iba kong friends kasi parang nale-left out ako. Sabi ko masakit, pero tanggap ko iyon and willing naman ako maghintay at nandito ako lagi kapag kailangan nila ako. Just like kung ano ang nangyayari dun sa dalawa kong friends ngayon. hahaha. arti lang. Pero Emo talaga ako pagdating sa ganyan. Ayoko ng iniiwan ako, maski iwanan lang ako sa lunch break or sa uwian nagtatampo nga ako eh. hahaha.
Title: Re: Why do people come and go?
Post by: Chris on August 21, 2013, 09:13:04 AM
napansin ko a lot of friends come and go especially right after college.

you meet new people and you lose contact with your highschool/college friends.

the weird thing about it, is kapag nag reunion kayo, you'd realize that magkakaiba na kayo ng interest. they changed, and so did you.
Title: Re: Why do people come and go?
Post by: vortex on August 21, 2013, 09:43:12 AM
napansin ko a lot of friends come and go especially right after college.

you meet new people and you lose contact with your highschool/college friends.

the weird thing about it, is kapag nag reunion kayo, you'd realize that magkakaiba na kayo ng interest. they changed, and so did you.
tama...hahaha
Title: Re: Why do people come and go?
Post by: stingRAY on August 21, 2013, 10:30:53 AM
napansin ko a lot of friends come and go especially right after college.

you meet new people and you lose contact with your highschool/college friends.

the weird thing about it, is kapag nag reunion kayo, you'd realize that magkakaiba na kayo ng interest. they changed, and so did you.

I agree.. but flipping the coin, there are a few friends though that really stick around. those are your really true friends. i have a few good friends back in grade school, and we are still connected though we are now living in different places due to our work. we rarely meet but we take time each year to catch-up... we may now have different interests and priorities, but when we meet, i guess the bond that we have shared and developed trumps over the years that we were off the grid with each other.

so people really do come and go, but there are some who remain.  :)
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Post by: vortex on August 21, 2013, 02:03:54 PM
napansin ko a lot of friends come and go especially right after college.

you meet new people and you lose contact with your highschool/college friends.

the weird thing about it, is kapag nag reunion kayo, you'd realize that magkakaiba na kayo ng interest. they changed, and so did you.

I agree.. but flipping the coin, there are a few friends though that really stick around. those are your really true friends. i have a few good friends back in grade school, and we are still connected though we are now living in different places due to our work. we rarely meet but we take time each year to catch-up... we may now have different interests and priorities, but when we meet, i guess the bond that we have shared and developed trumps over the years that we were off the grid with each other.

so people really do come and go, but there are some who remain.  :)
so true. I agree with that.
Title: Re: Why do people come and go?
Post by: vortex on August 22, 2013, 08:45:59 AM
Nagkita kami ng isa kong friend last night (We watched "The Conjuring").
And napag-usapan namin ang bagay na related sa thread na ito.
Sabi nga nya, people come and go, at may dadating at dadating na kapalit ng mga umalis sa buhay mo. Ginawa pa nyang example yung pagkakakilala namin, sabi nga nya, di naman kami magkakilala nung una pero naging friends kami. He inculcated into my mind na wag mabahala kapag may mga taong nawawala sa buhay natin, be sad, pero move on din pag may time, kasi may bagong tao na dadating at pupunan nila yung space na na-vacate ng mga umalis. hahaha...
Title: Re: Why do people come and go?
Post by: darkstar13 on August 22, 2013, 10:45:28 AM
People come and go because we come and we go.

If all people stay where they are, then, in a near absolute sense, no one will come and no one will go.
That is not only in the literal sense. There is so much movement in our lives, and we can't help but move on, be it from our current job to a better one, from high school to college, college to work, from being single to getting married, and the list could go for miles. As we venture into new things, new people will come, and the people we left behind will see us as the 'person who goes'.

One can argue that there are people who we leave behind, or who left us behind , but the bond still stays. Yes, those situations exist, but they are rare, even from people who we have been very close with. Moving on is a natural progression of life, and with this are the people we leave, or the new people we come across with.
Title: Re: Why do people come and go?
Post by: marvinofthefaintsmile on August 27, 2013, 03:25:19 PM
Nagkita kami ng isa kong friend last night (We watched "The Conjuring").
And napag-usapan namin ang bagay na related sa thread na ito.
Sabi nga nya, people come and go, at may dadating at dadating na kapalit ng mga umalis sa buhay mo. Ginawa pa nyang example yung pagkakakilala namin, sabi nga nya, di naman kami magkakilala nung una pero naging friends kami. He inculcated into my mind na wag mabahala kapag may mga taong nawawala sa buhay natin, be sad, pero move on din pag may time, kasi may bagong tao na dadating at pupunan nila yung space na na-vacate ng mga umalis. hahaha...

You can always find a demon or spirit to latch into you. they wont leave like we humans do..
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Post by: joshgroban on September 13, 2013, 08:05:17 AM
demon talaga... sakin since change is inevitable ...kasama talaga dyan ang pag come and go ng mga tao sa paligid... but sabi nga nung iba ... life goes on and always be the better person after ech separation...minsan naman distance lang din ang naglalayo satin...
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Post by: vortex on September 13, 2013, 08:38:50 AM
demon talaga... sakin since change is inevitable ...kasama talaga dyan ang pag come and go ng mga tao sa paligid... but sabi nga nung iba ... life goes on and always be the better person after ech separation...minsan naman distance lang din ang naglalayo satin...
Tomoh!
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Post by: Jon on September 13, 2013, 11:45:25 AM
Why do people come and go?

thats life!
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Post by: sybil02 on February 03, 2014, 09:53:27 PM
People come and go because we come and we go.

If all people stay where they are, then, in a near absolute sense, no one will come and no one will go.
That is not only in the literal sense. There is so much movement in our lives, and we can't help but move on, be it from our current job to a better one, from high school to college, college to work, from being single to getting married, and the list could go for miles. As we venture into new things, new people will come, and the people we left behind will see us as the 'person who goes'.

One can argue that there are people who we leave behind, or who left us behind , but the bond still stays. Yes, those situations exist, but they are rare, even from people who we have been very close with. Moving on is a natural progression of life, and with this are the people we leave, or the new people we come across with.

Intellectually said.. approved  :)
Title: Re: Why do people come and go?
Post by: chris_davao on December 10, 2014, 12:54:49 PM
Pahabol lang: Nung nabasa ko ito, nalungkot ako bigla.  :(
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Post by: TAP02 on December 10, 2014, 01:09:50 PM
... suddenly all the memories came rushing back.. :( they come and go indeed...
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Post by: chris_davao on December 10, 2014, 02:52:05 PM
... suddenly all the memories came rushing back.. :( they come and go indeed...

Sorry to say this, ngte-teary eyes ako sa mga sinabi nila. Haha
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Post by: marvinofthefaintsmile on December 11, 2014, 08:40:42 PM
meron lang ninja na naghihiwa ng sibuyas sa tabi mo.
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Post by: Peps on December 11, 2014, 08:54:25 PM
"If there ever comes a day when we can't be together, keep me in your heart, I'll stay there forever" - winnie the pooh

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=qVx3mH2G1_s
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Post by: chris_davao on December 12, 2014, 01:48:16 PM
"If there ever comes a day when we can't be together, keep me in your heart, I'll stay there forever" - winnie the pooh

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=qVx3mH2G1_s

 :(
Title: Re: Why do people come and go?
Post by: radz on December 19, 2014, 02:00:15 PM
people change...
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Post by: rye273896 on December 22, 2014, 06:40:02 AM
They just have to. Either to find their own happiness or to make you realize it's for your own good.
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Post by: kscaps2014 on December 23, 2014, 03:05:44 PM
They just have to. Either to find their own happiness or to make you realize it's for your own good.

:(

Sad but true.
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Post by: Handsomebrut on December 30, 2014, 04:14:53 AM
people change...

we don't, our preferences do... :-)
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Post by: chris_davao on December 30, 2014, 06:47:04 PM
people change...

we don't, our preferences do... :-)

Parang tama.
Title: Re: Why do people come and go?
Post by: Flying Ninja on January 06, 2015, 05:35:06 PM
It is always our choice if we are gonna stay or just let go. Meron mga bagay na umaalis na lang sa buhay natin kahit ayaw natin hindi dahil may ginawa tayun gmali kung hindi dahil hindi nila kayang umintindi sa kung anung dapat intindihin. Madalas nagiging one sided lang ung story kaya ayun, even if we really wanted to fight for something or someone eeeh wala nang reason kasi umpisa pa lang eeh alam mo nang wala nang dahilan ung paglaban mo. :P

But be sure to treasure and cherish all the memories na meron kayo. And never ever magtanim ng galit kasi habang buhay kang mahihirapan kung gagawin mo yun. Let go and forgive but never forget.

Darating yung time na maiitindihan mo rin kung bakit sila andyan sa tabi mo or kung bakit sila umalis. :P
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Post by: moimoi on January 07, 2015, 10:25:25 AM
Ako minsan, tanggap ko naman... iniwanan ako kasi sa ugali ko..napaka isip bata ko kasi! hehehe
Pero dahil sa personality ko rin nato, marami rin akong nagiging bagong kaibigan..
Iniwanan kasi baka wala ka lang silbi sa kanila hahaha..Pwede din kasi inaabuso mo kabaitan nila..Tinitake for granted or sinaktan mo sila..Kaya ako, sa mga ex friends ko, I'M SO SORRY!  :P
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Post by: Flying Ninja on January 08, 2015, 04:09:09 PM
Ako minsan, tanggap ko naman... iniwanan ako kasi sa ugali ko..napaka isip bata ko kasi! hehehe
Pero dahil sa personality ko rin nato, marami rin akong nagiging bagong kaibigan..
Iniwanan kasi baka wala ka lang silbi sa kanila hahaha..Pwede din kasi inaabuso mo kabaitan nila..Tinitake for granted or sinaktan mo sila..Kaya ako, sa mga ex friends ko, I'M SO SORRY!  :P

ZORRY not SORRY ahahah lol
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Post by: dhie221 on March 12, 2015, 11:27:24 AM
normal na yun... di kase sa lahat ng oras magkakasama mo sila lagi,,, pero mahalaga yun friendship di naman nakakalimutan kahit di na kayo nagkikita
Title: Re: Why do people come and go?
Post by: AkosiJoven on November 14, 2019, 12:59:55 AM


There are things that will just be a part of you for some time but not in the latter part. There are some who will remain. What's important is the mark that they left. It will help you choose who you are meant to be.
Title: Re: Why do people come and go?
Post by: outcastblueboy on November 14, 2019, 03:35:14 AM


There are things that will just be a part of you for some time but not in the latter part. There are some who will remain. What's important is the mark that they left. It will help you choose who you are meant to be.

Well said, bro