Is it possible na ang isang lalake ay maduwag manligaw for the rest of his life pag lagi siyang inasar na bakla nung bata?
Quote from: SuperBazor on April 28, 2013, 08:01:41 PM
Is it possible na ang isang lalake ay maduwag manligaw for the rest of his life pag lagi siyang inasar na bakla nung bata?
hmm.. possible iyan.. And worse magkaron siya ng "identity crisis" which might end up in a pagbibinakla, depende pa din sa choice nya. Since, nakakasama ng loob na tawagin kang "bakla". Possible din na magkaron ka ng sense of "rejection" bago ka palang manligaw.. So, baka aatras ka na lang sa huli..
So paano makawala sa sumpang ito? Simple lang, labanan mo ito. Isipin mo na kung masasaktan ka din lang, might as well ituloy mo na ang panliligaw.. Only a love of a girl can break the curse..
That's sounds difficult na gawin ng mga victims.... But I think they just need friends to support them.
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^i will recommend that u should "reset" yourself.. i can see that u r a timid guy (remember that zombie that bite andrea in walking dead, lol)
ganito, stop mo muna ang pakiki-girl bond.. nakaka-impluwensya ang mga "girlie moves" nila sa personality mo at nagagaya mo ito nang hindi sinasadya kya mpagkakamalan kang bakla.. instead, mkibond ka na sa mga guys.. kahit 3 lang keo, ok na yun.. humnp k ng mga guys na at least malapit sa ugali mo, else ibubuly ka nila. dun ka mag-start, iabsorb mo ang "boy moves" nila then when u feel ur man enough.. dun ka lang magstart mangligaw..
this will not take overnight.. this will take months to years, so take your time. di mo pa naman kaedad si daddy monch para mathreaten ka sa luv lyf mo..
sa panliligaw, parang nagsusugal ka.. di ka dapat matakot na masaktan o i-reject ng babae (kahit ako, nagrereject din ng babae).. based on experience, masmasakit ung "imaginative pain" na hindi mo pinursue ang panliligaw kesa sa "actual pain" na naramdaman mo nung nabasted ka.
Quote from: coxxxz on May 20, 2013, 12:26:13 PM
Thanks for that advice
but being in a highest section straight guy is rarely competitive so almost of the guys are gay...
ahh Quote from: marvinofthefaintsmile on May 20, 2013, 10:57:02 AM
^i will recommend that u should "reset" yourself.. i can see that u r a timid guy (remember that zombie that bite andrea in walking dead, lol)
hindi po ako mahiyain masyado..cguro walang brother-like-image.... seldom lang kc umuuwi mga kuya ko...
then make friends outside of your section.. back when i was in high school from section 1 to section 10, almost everybody knows me. just smile and wave..
Social Life_ Timid na nga ako... hindi ako naghuhang out puro net,, fb blahblahblah
Friends sa Other Section... try natin...
Quote from: coxxxz on May 20, 2013, 10:45:34 PM
Social Life_ Timid na nga ako... hindi ako naghuhang out puro net,, fb blahblahblah
Friends sa Other Section... try natin...
yan ang problema ng mga kabataan ngayong computer age na.. puro computer na lang at less interaction sa mga tunay na tao sa labas.
Bakit ganun? Mas maganda kasi kasama ang computer most of the time kesa tao.... Medyo mahirap na rin kasi maghanap ng matino tinong friends... Pero sabi nga.... Finding a perfect GF or BF and you won't have a relationship at all... Finding the perfect job and you won't be hired at all.... Naiintindihan ko si coxxxz.... Since teacher magulang niya, may pagkaperfectionist na siya SUBCONSCIOUSLY... Once a perfectionist, you will rarely or never find what you want at all....
In my experience, sa girls din ako medyo malapit... Kaso medyo magastos sila.... Sa boys naman... Masyadong magulo.... I learned DOTA from them... Pero hanggang dun lang ako. Di ako marunong mAgbasketball or mag CS...
I did have one super tino na friend at naging best friends kami... For 9 years. Kaso after namin magkahiwalay... Medyo.. Naging grumpy uli ako. Haha
^magalaga ka ng pusa.
We have 6 cats, 1 dog and 2 chickens at home... hahaha
Quote from: SuperBazor on May 21, 2013, 01:56:58 PM
We have 6 cats, 1 dog and 2 chickens at home... hahaha
and where's the goat?
The goat? That's me..... Cause I'm a Capricorn. Hahaha.
Quote from: SuperBazor on May 21, 2013, 07:14:22 PM
The goat? That's me..... Cause I'm a Capricorn. Hahaha.
mehehehehhehehehe..
SuperBazor,,, hindi naman sa perfectionist ahh people pleaser aq....
That's nearly the same when it comes to social life... Since sinabi mo you are finding acceptance, you can find it anywhere. Usually you will find it in the most unexpected place. I assume iba rin ang iyong hobbies kung bakit hirap ka makahanap ng acceptance right? Kasi, ang mga tao ay laging hirap tumanggap.... Maybe they find you're hobbies too weird or boring. Nevertheless, meron paring tao na medyo kapareho mo in terms of hobbies. Kaya nga laging advice diba? "Join class where you are interested so you would meet some people with the same interest as you."
Or you can still find your own ways to deal with it... After all, humans are born to survive.... We survive wars, ice age, economic recession and so on. Nasa dugo ng lahat yan... Kaya.... GO GO!
naalala ko na "approval-seeker" din ako nung mejo bata-bata pa ako..
gustong-gusto ko yung naghihiyawan yung mga nanonood sa akin sa entablado. yun kasi yung indication na "pwede pa ako"...
but eventually, i had to leave...