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Title: Paano ba dapat gawin pag nalaman mong my bf na pala ung gusto mong babae
Post by: torpepo on October 21, 2014, 11:02:34 AM
Paano ba dapat gawin pag nalaman mong my bf na pala ung gusto mong babae kaso gusto mo siya ligawan kumbaga na love at first sight ka gustong gusto mo talaga :) :(

salamat sa tutulong godbless po
Title: Re: Paano ba dapat gawin pag nalaman mong my bf na pala ung gusto mong babae
Post by: marvinofthefaintsmile on October 21, 2014, 08:11:51 PM
eh di i-ligwak na yan.

I've been there.. and that's what I did.
Title: Re: Paano ba dapat gawin pag nalaman mong my bf na pala ung gusto mong babae
Post by: torpepo on October 21, 2014, 09:47:52 PM
anong ilig wak sir pls help nmn  sa advice po

tlagang gustong gusto ko siya... :(
Title: Re: Paano ba dapat gawin pag nalaman mong my bf na pala ung gusto mong babae
Post by: Peps on October 21, 2014, 10:34:42 PM
kahit na gusto mo siya kung may bf na yung tao wala ka na magagawa unless maghiwalay sila, pero kung sisingit ka pa, di yata maganda yung ganun.

May ka clan ako dati sa online game nang agaw ng gf, tuwang tuwa pa siya kahit 5 years na relasyon nung dalawa. Tapos hayun kinarma siya, kasi after a year nila nung babae iniwan din siya sumama sa ibang lalaki, iyak siya ng iyak dahil mahal na mahal daw niya yung babae. Sabi ko sa kanya " at least alam mo na ngayon kung ano yung naramdaman nung lalaking inagawan mo din ng gf"
Title: Re: Paano ba dapat gawin pag nalaman mong my bf na pala ung gusto mong babae
Post by: marvinofthefaintsmile on October 22, 2014, 01:48:17 AM
ang babaeng iniwan ang current bf para sa ibang lalaki ay kaya nya ding iwan ang current na lalaki kapag may masjuicy na lalaki syang na-encounter.
Title: Re: Paano ba dapat gawin pag nalaman mong my bf na pala ung gusto mong babae
Post by: marvinofthefaintsmile on October 22, 2014, 01:49:23 AM
ligwak means.. i-hinto mo na yung ganung idea. "Magtigil ka!" in short kundi ii-spank ka ni kua otipeps.
Title: Re: Paano ba dapat gawin pag nalaman mong my bf na pala ung gusto mong babae
Post by: toperyo on October 22, 2014, 07:57:34 PM
Aw! we're on the same way, what i'm doing is that i just keep my mouth shut, malay mo mag break, ayun na yung cue! Hahahah
Title: Re: Paano ba dapat gawin pag nalaman mong my bf na pala ung gusto mong babae
Post by: marvinofthefaintsmile on October 22, 2014, 08:28:19 PM
Quote from: toperyo on October 22, 2014, 07:57:34 PM
Aw! we're on the same way, what i'm doing is that i just keep my mouth shut, malay mo mag break, ayun na yung cue! Hahahah
papayag kang maging rebound boy?
Title: Re: Paano ba dapat gawin pag nalaman mong my bf na pala ung gusto mong babae
Post by: saucko on October 23, 2014, 09:14:13 AM
move on xD HAHA
Title: Re: Paano ba dapat gawin pag nalaman mong my bf na pala ung gusto mong babae
Post by: torpepo on October 25, 2014, 10:44:29 AM
sir penge pa po  ng advice pls
Title: Re: Paano ba dapat gawin pag nalaman mong my bf na pala ung gusto mong babae
Post by: toperyo on October 26, 2014, 11:30:58 PM
Tama, move on muna saglit, then focus to something that will catch your attention, like playing games, studying and more, kasi it's between you and your feelings eh, like whati have said kung mag break, pormahan mo step by step, pero dyahe kasi may BF na, focus muna sa iba hehe
It's not pleasing kasi when you make some moves tapos the girl you're really into has her boyfriend tapos ano she will busted you after? Hehe, pero ikaw it's still your decision, as for me now, i have decided to keep my feelings on silent kasi may sabit pa, kung sila edi sila, kung kami edi ayos! XD
Title: Re: Paano ba dapat gawin pag nalaman mong my bf na pala ung gusto mong babae
Post by: marvinofthefaintsmile on October 27, 2014, 08:05:10 PM
Quote from: tom on October 25, 2014, 03:50:32 PM
Pakainin mo ng hopia hanggang sa mabulunan.. HAHAHA XD

I suggest pakainin mo ng polvoron hanggang sa mabulunan.. tapos itago mo yung basong tubig.
Title: Re: Paano ba dapat gawin pag nalaman mong my bf na pala ung gusto mong babae
Post by: Chris on October 29, 2014, 02:21:06 PM
torpepo - ito tanong ko sayo. gusto ka din ba nya?
Title: Re: Paano ba dapat gawin pag nalaman mong my bf na pala ung gusto mong babae
Post by: marvinofthefaintsmile on October 29, 2014, 07:49:30 PM
Quote from: Chris on October 29, 2014, 02:21:06 PM
torpepo - ito tanong ko sayo. gusto ka din ba nya?

wag ipilit kung di gusto.. masasaktan ka lang.
Title: Re: Paano ba dapat gawin pag nalaman mong my bf na pala ung gusto mong babae
Post by: torpepo on October 30, 2014, 03:57:04 PM
@ chris

un lng ang diko alam sir. basta ako bgay lng ako ng bgay nang gifts ni hnd ko pa nga natatanong kun my bf siya e

pero di nya alam na nakita ko na.
Title: Re: Paano ba dapat gawin pag nalaman mong my bf na pala ung gusto mong babae
Post by: marvinofthefaintsmile on October 31, 2014, 03:04:30 AM
Quote from: torpepo on October 30, 2014, 03:57:04 PM
@ chris

un lng ang diko alam sir. basta ako bgay lng ako ng bgay nang gifts ni hnd ko pa nga natatanong kun my bf siya e

pero di nya alam na nakita ko na.

parang pumulot ka ng bato na ipupukpok mo sa ulo mo.. wag kang magbibigay ng gifts dahil aasa ka dun at tiyak na masasaktan ka lang. kaw din..

suggest ko, magjakol ka muna. pag nilabasan ka na. pag-isipan mo ulet ang sitwasyon mo at kung anu ang tamang gawin.
Title: Re: Paano ba dapat gawin pag nalaman mong my bf na pala ung gusto mong babae
Post by: josephbr on April 28, 2015, 01:25:52 PM
ahasin na yan  >:D
Title: Re: Paano ba dapat gawin pag nalaman mong my bf na pala ung gusto mong babae
Post by: Carsnow on September 14, 2015, 02:52:37 PM
Quote from: toperyo on October 26, 2014, 11:30:58 PM
Tama, move on muna saglit, then focus to something that will catch your attention, like playing games, studying and more, kasi it's between you and your feelings eh, like whati have said kung mag break, pormahan mo step by step, pero dyahe kasi may BF na, focus muna sa iba hehe
It's not pleasing kasi when you make some moves tapos the girl you're really into has her boyfriend tapos ano she will busted you after? Hehe, pero ikaw it's still your decision, as for me now, i have decided to keep my feelings on silent kasi may sabit pa, kung sila edi sila, kung kami edi ayos! XD

Tama. In short wag kang epal tol mai bf na yung tao sisingit kapa. nang aanu ka eh. isip munalang if pag mai girlfriend ka tapos malaman mung mai ng liligaw sa kanya anung mafefeel mu.  sundin munalang yung advice sa taas!
Title: Re: Paano ba dapat gawin pag nalaman mong my bf na pala ung gusto mong babae
Post by: chris_davao on September 14, 2015, 05:37:36 PM
Quote from: josephbr on April 28, 2015, 01:25:52 PM
ahasin na yan  >:D

masama! haha
Title: Re: Paano ba dapat gawin pag nalaman mong my bf na pala ung gusto mong babae
Post by: bembmd on March 11, 2018, 05:40:31 PM
Next na yan, wag mo na guluhin
Title: Re: Paano ba dapat gawin pag nalaman mong my bf na pala ung gusto mong babae
Post by: bugnutin99 on April 28, 2018, 12:41:55 PM
Simple lang. Iwasan mo. Pangit manira ng relasyon ng iba. Sayo din ang balik niyan.


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Title: Re: Paano ba dapat gawin pag nalaman mong my bf na pala ung gusto mong babae
Post by: miggymontenegro on April 28, 2018, 09:51:18 PM
Move on. There is plenty of fish in the sea. Make urself busy and dont think about the person. U follow sa fb and ig. Dont think about viewing their post. U can move on. Naniniwala ako sayo! If i can u can din! Ano sabi ni jolibee?. Kaya mo kid!
Title: Re: Paano ba dapat gawin pag nalaman mong my bf na pala ung gusto mong babae
Post by: siradri11 on June 28, 2018, 01:38:05 PM
Quote from: torpepo on October 21, 2014, 11:02:34 AM
Paano ba dapat gawin pag nalaman mong my bf na pala ung gusto mong babae kaso gusto mo siya ligawan kumbaga na love at first sight ka gustong gusto mo talaga :) :(

salamat sa tutulong godbless po

Been there. And I did what you want to do, continue to pursue that girl. Its not good pare. Morality wise, pwede kang makasira ng relasyon at hindi mo gugustuhin na gawin sayo yun. Kaya sundin mo nalang yung advice ng karamhan na andito and stop.
Title: Re: Paano ba dapat gawin pag nalaman mong my bf na pala ung gusto mong babae
Post by: jackxtwist on July 11, 2018, 03:52:50 AM
At dahil maraming nagsasabi na move on na. Let me play the devil's advocate.  I value your happiness and if you're gonna be happy getting that girl read on.

Meron ba kayong mutual friends? Or mutual activity (running, hiking)? If so, use it to your advantage. Go out with the group. Sobrang obvious pag nag-message ka sa kanya tapos wala kayong mutual. Unless bebentahan  mo sya ng pampaputi. I dunno. Actually pwede rin. Haha.


Quote from: siradri11 on June 28, 2018, 01:38:05 PM
Quote from: torpepo on October 21, 2014, 11:02:34 AM

Been there. And I did what you want to do, continue to pursue that girl. Its not good pare. Morality wise, pwede kang makasira ng relasyon at hindi mo gugustuhin na gawin sayo yun. Kaya sundin mo nalang yung advice ng karamhan na andito and stop.
Pursue is not the right term. It's too aggressive. It will clearly raise the girl's guards. Basta just hang around. Be friendly but not too friendly. Huwag mo syang sosolohin. What I mean is, never put yourself in a position and location where it's only the two of you. Hindi ka pa nya jowa so huwag mag boyfriend duties. friends lang muna. There are a lot of things that friends don't do that boyfriends do. Your goal is to be the good friend. Her go to guy pag di available ang jowa o girl friends nya.


Forget karma. We can only connect the dots going backwards. We only see things that we want to see. We can only see the karma stories but not the success stories.

Let me leave you with this quote: Mas madaling hulihin ang manok pag nakatali na.
Title: Re: Paano ba dapat gawin pag nalaman mong my bf na pala ung gusto mong babae
Post by: pepegagasusu on August 20, 2018, 01:29:43 AM
as a married man, dont be selfish. mag wait ka
Title: Re: Paano ba dapat gawin pag nalaman mong my bf na pala ung gusto mong babae
Post by: bugnutin99 on August 23, 2018, 10:20:21 PM
Quote from: bugnutin99 on April 28, 2018, 12:41:55 PM
Simple lang. Iwasan mo. Pangit manira ng relasyon ng iba. Sayo din ang balik niyan.


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Parang na-contradict ko tong sinabi kong to.
May gusto akong tao - as in, gustong gusto. Nalaman ko na in a relationship na siya pero sige pa rin ako kahit na alam kong nagseselos na yun bf nya.  ::) 


Pakiramdam ko ang sama ko tuloy.  :-[
Title: Re: Paano ba dapat gawin pag nalaman mong my bf na pala ung gusto mong babae
Post by: mrgagoman on September 05, 2018, 07:21:23 PM
Kumilala ka ng iba.
Nanghihinayang ka sa isang magandang chic kase wala kang ibang choice eh.
Thats scarcity mindset. Daming isda sa dagat.