I mean, I like talking to people. But there are these days (which is quite rare) when I just don't feel like talking.
anyone experiencing this? yun bang tipong umiiwas ka may makasabay na kakilala mo because you just don't want to talk and you want to be alone. hehe.
yap i think we all experienced that and we just have to be careful na wag magmukang suplado pag nangyari yun..
Hmm.. I think merong kang pinagdadaanan at masgusto mong magmuni-muni na lang..
Lagi nangyayari sakin yan.. Nasasabihan na tuloy ako na suplado pero may hood points naman sya minsan.. Ang dating ko kasi suplado pero mahiyain lang talaga ako.. Kaya tingin ng mga girls sa ofis eh tahimik, di gagawa ng kalokohan saka misteryoso kaya kahit di kapogian eh nalalapitan parin ng girls.. Hehe ;p
Quote from: mafiaboy22 on July 02, 2013, 09:05:10 AM
Lagi nangyayari sakin yan.. Nasasabihan na tuloy ako na suplado pero may hood points naman sya minsan.. Ang dating ko kasi suplado pero mahiyain lang talaga ako.. Kaya tingin ng mga girls sa ofis eh tahimik, di gagawa ng kalokohan saka misteryoso kaya kahit di kapogian eh nalalapitan parin ng girls.. Hehe ;p
kaw nah!
Quote from: Chris on July 02, 2013, 12:18:11 AM
I mean, I like talking to people. But there are these days (which is quite rare) when I just don't feel like talking.
anyone experiencing this? yun bang tipong umiiwas ka may makasabay na kakilala mo because you just don't want to talk and you want to be alone. hehe.
I wouldn't use the term anti-social though.
http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Anti-social_behaviour
It is completely normal to be reserved and withdrawn at times and it is usually a defense mechanism on a stressor. You just need space.
Quote from: marvinofthefaintsmile on July 02, 2013, 10:28:31 AM
Quote from: mafiaboy22 on July 02, 2013, 09:05:10 AM
Lagi nangyayari sakin yan.. Nasasabihan na tuloy ako na suplado pero may hood points naman sya minsan.. Ang dating ko kasi suplado pero mahiyain lang talaga ako.. Kaya tingin ng mga girls sa ofis eh tahimik, di gagawa ng kalokohan saka misteryoso kaya kahit di kapogian eh nalalapitan parin ng girls.. Hehe ;p
kaw nah!
Naman!! Hehe.. Baka assuming lang ako.. Di masama mangarap! Lol.. Normal ata sa tao yung minsan eh gusto mong mapag-isa lang.
It's quite normal.... Sa akin bihira nalang iyan.... FRIENDLY NA AKO AS MUCH AS POSSIBLE.... Kaso nakakatakot daw ako kausap....
Quote from: SuperBazor on July 05, 2013, 08:22:10 PM
It's quite normal.... Sa akin bihira nalang iyan.... FRIENDLY NA AKO AS MUCH AS POSSIBLE.... Kaso nakakatakot daw ako kausap....
hmm... mukha ka bang snatcher?
No I don't. Medyo suplado lang talaga ako kausap... Smart mouthed kasi ako. Defense mechanism ko na siguro dahil sa past experiences.
lol what some days? ganto ko palagi! 8)
Quote from: SuperBazor on July 08, 2013, 08:49:31 AM
No I don't. Medyo suplado lang talaga ako kausap... Smart mouthed kasi ako. Defense mechanism ko na siguro dahil sa past experiences.
hmm.. mahilig kang mang-okray?
I'm usually like this kapag nasa mall. And then I evaluate people... I do not judge them ah. Tapos gagawa ako ng isang movie sa mind ko about dun sa inivaluate ko. Pag sinipag I draw...
Quote from: marvinofthefaintsmile on July 08, 2013, 10:46:42 AM
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No I don't. Medyo suplado lang talaga ako kausap... Smart mouthed kasi ako. Defense mechanism ko na siguro dahil sa past experiences.
hmm.. mahilig kang mang-okray?
You could say that... hehe
Quote from: sayonara on July 08, 2013, 08:59:43 AM
lol what some days? ganto ko palagi! 8)
do u have a best friend or any close friend ever?
Alam ko na ang term na magdedescribe sa ganitong feeling...
Iyon ay... SOLITUDE.
Correct me if I'm wrong.
Quote from: SuperBazor on July 08, 2013, 09:27:32 PM
Alam ko na ang term na magdedescribe sa ganitong feeling...
Iyon ay... SOLITUDE.
Correct me if I'm wrong.
at dahil jan,. kakantahan kita.
"There was a man
A lonely man
Who lost his love
Through his indifference
A heart that cared
That went unshared
Until it died
Within his silence
(*) And solitude's the only game in town
And every road that takes him
Takes him down
And by himself it's easy to pretend
He'll never love again"
Quote from: marvinofthefaintsmile on July 08, 2013, 12:55:48 PM
Quote from: sayonara on July 08, 2013, 08:59:43 AM
lol what some days? ganto ko palagi! 8)
do u have a best friend or any close friend ever?
sympre meron. pero i keep distance pa rin. mas gusto ko talagang mag-isa.
Others are just not comfortable in talking to someone else.
It happens to me most of the time.
May nagsasabi tuloy sa akin na moody daw ako or suplado. hahaha...may times na wala lang ako sa mood makipag-usap tapos dumadating ang times na gusto ko lang mapag-isa...Solitude ba...hahaha
Quote from: sayonara on July 09, 2013, 08:35:37 AM
Quote from: marvinofthefaintsmile on July 08, 2013, 12:55:48 PM
Quote from: sayonara on July 08, 2013, 08:59:43 AM
lol what some days? ganto ko palagi! 8)
do u have a best friend or any close friend ever?
sympre meron. pero i keep distance pa rin. mas gusto ko talagang mag-isa.
don't tell me, pag nagiisa ka.. panay ang kanta mo ng "cool off" ni Yeng Constantino? LOL!
Ganito ako kapag pagod. Kaya as much as possible I don't sched two lakads in a single day (lunch or dinner) kasi most likely antisocial na ako pag gabi. Kung may lakad man sa gabi there better be alcohol to pump me up. I always keep a pack of coffee in my bag though just in case.
To each his own but for me it pays to be social in your 20's. Unlike at school, you don't meet new people regularly. If you're not making new friends you're actually diminishing your social circle instead of maintaining it since old friends move, have families etc.
This usually happens to me. Don't know why. Pero there are times naman na gusto ko makipag-usap hehe
i think it happens to everyone... may time naman sa alaht ng bagay... time to be silent and time to speak...
antisocial tlga ako, pero andaming nangyaring pangit sa pagiging antisocial ko, madaming umiwas sakin at ngalit, madaming opportunities na nawala, at maraming lovelife na nasira
ngayong matanda na ako, napagtanto ko na lahat yun, kya nga ako may lakas ng loob magpost ng ganto e
andun parion ung feeling n gusto kong mapag isa, pero alam ko sa sarili ko na wlang patutunguhan yun
Being anti social really does make your life feel monotonous.... I can't even do my home work.....
I think normal lang mafeel maging anti-social once in a while.
Ganito ako last friday. haha ayaw ko lumabas ng bahay, gusto ko lang manood ng movies sa laptop buong araw.
baka umaatake lan9 an9 asper9er's syndrome.
kelangan din ng silence...
Emo ka pla minsan sir Chris. :P
I have these days. Lalo na kapag sobrang stressed out sa work. Kaso ang hirap din eh.
ay nako mahirap gawin to pag wala kang pera. hahaha!
i go to the beach alone...
I love being alone! It makes you appreciate life more :)
Quote from: Klutz on January 08, 2015, 08:47:59 PM
I love being alone! It makes you appreciate life more :)
May point ka. Hehe
Quote from: Klutz on January 08, 2015, 08:47:59 PM
I love being alone! It makes you appreciate life more :)
parang ako rin. mas gusto ko magkulong sa isang library. ok na sakin un basta makapag basa -basa ng libro
madalas ganun ako eh :D di mo makakausap pag may pinagkakaabaalahan :D
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Ako halos araw araw, grabe kasi feeling ko palagi akong may maling nagagawa.
Quote from: Chris on July 02, 2013, 12:18:11 AM
I mean, I like talking to people. But there are these days (which is quite rare) when I just don't feel like talking.
anyone experiencing this? yun bang tipong umiiwas ka may makasabay na kakilala mo because you just don't want to talk and you want to be alone. hehe.
Sobrang akong ako 'to. Outgoing naman akong tao pero may mga gantong moments talaga ako. Kadalasan 'to kapag may iniisip ako or during does nagpapaka-melodramatic senti-sentihan moments. Haha. ;D
^^ hahaha at least may mga nakakarelate sakin!
dati pa nga, after a long socialization event, I hibernate for 1 full day alone. Kakapagod kasi minsan! LOL.
^ Yeah ganun din. Nood muna ng film or basa ng books. Walk alone... I even rode a provincial bus without knowing the destination. Next thing I knoe, nasa mga buhanginan na 'ko ng Bolinao. Haha.
^^^ hahaha. ang layo! taga san ka ba at nakarating ka ng Bolinao? lol
^^^ Marikina! Haha. Pero gawain ko talaga yun yung bigla akong pupunta sa kahit anong lugar. The less I know about the place, the better.
Quote from: radz on December 19, 2014, 02:27:26 PM
i go to the beach alone...
Eto madalas ko ginagawa. May kakaibang hatak saken ang dagat. Pakiramdam ko ipinanganak ako para sa dagat. Ay wow.
meditate alone...
Ako halos araw araw. minsan nga ako nalang nahihiya sa mga tao sa paligid ko kasi na susungitan ko or na hihindian ko ung mga aya nila ganun. Pero sa awa naman ng dyos pinag tyatyagaan padin nila ako. Maraming salamat lord.
This usually happens to me when something went wrong with something I do and would want a personal time out to think about it
ganito ako minsan.
Haha... i am an antisocial... in a sociopathologic kindda ways.... i am a defiant... thats what i like to thnk about myself...sounds kinda coool... hehe..
When you wake up feeling good and you feel like listening to your fave jams on your music player on your way to work. Then suddenly you bump into someone you know and you know that person doesn't stop talking. And since you are having a good day, you don't want to be rude and snob this person. So what you did is turn off the music, earphones off and say goodbye to your feel-good-day. And since you are a genius, you find a way to get out of the conversation. "Ay shoot. May nakalimutan ako. Sige una ka na." And the moment, he says "sure...", you feel like "YEAAAAAH, IM BACK!!!". - true story. Haha.
I feel you. Most of the time ako yung madaldal sa grupo pero may mga times na nananahimik ako. Ayoko lang ng kausap. Madalas iniiwan ko sila HAHAH.
Quote from: Junjun on May 11, 2017, 10:33:43 AM
I feel you. Most of the time ako yung madaldal sa grupo pero may mga times na nananahimik ako. Ayoko lang ng kausap. Madalas iniiwan ko sila HAHAH.
Lahat naman tayo may waxing and waning moments bro hehe
nakakatuwa ang thread na ito. gusto kong sabihin, in some days I feel like I want to socialize. :D :D
depende to sa kinalalagyan mo sa introversion extraversion scale.
si chris malamang introverted yan nagpapanggap lang na extraverted.
^yep, introverted ata talaga ako hahaha! totoo yan. lol. nahila lang ako sa social events dahil sa blogging.
Quote from: Chris on September 30, 2017, 02:21:08 PM
^yep, introverted ata talaga ako hahaha! totoo yan. lol. nahila lang ako sa social events dahil sa blogging.
Oh really? Hehe.
Anyway, I do sometimes feel anti-social, pero this is just because I want some me time. Hihi. ;D
Quote from: Chris on September 30, 2017, 02:21:08 PM
^yep, introverted ata talaga ako hahaha! totoo yan. lol. nahila lang ako sa social events dahil sa blogging.
I knew it. ;D ;D ;D Those that are looking for "me time". :D :D :D
For some reason, whenever I am in a crowd, be it MRT, a concert, or an office, I feel suffocated like I have to breathe. ;D ;D ;D
In any case, sobrang biased against introverts ang mundo. Imagine, so you can get hired and promoted you have to like
talk and
socialize. In fact, for you to have friends and a girlfriend or someone special, you really have to socialize. Haaaaaaaay
Quotesobrang biased against introverts ang mundo
Sir, biased din ang mundo sa mga taong extroverts. Either asyado silang maharot, flirt, malandi, feeling close, epal... eh nakikipagkaibigan lang naman. :(
^not really. extroverts have an innate desire to talk or socialize whatever. unfortunately, introverts don't. and it will be a disaster if an extrovert tries to talk with an introvert.
May tatawag, kahit free ka, hindi mo sasagutin hahaha dahil ayaw mo lang.
May nagtext, nangangamusta. Pero bukas mo na rireplyan kasi di mo pa trip hahaha
May nakita ka sa mall or somewhere na kakilala, aalis ka na bago pa sila ang makakita sayo hahaha
Quote from: arjay on October 05, 2017, 10:34:38 AM
May tatawag, kahit free ka, hindi mo sasagutin hahaha dahil ayaw mo lang.
May nagtext, nangangamusta. Pero bukas mo na rireplyan kasi di mo pa trip hahaha
May nakita ka sa mall or somewhere na kakilala, aalis ka na bago pa sila ang makakita sayo hahaha
Oo! Hahaha. Mga araw na tamad na tamad lang makisama at mag-interact sa iba. Pero generally naman ay extrovert talaga ako. May mga topak days lang talaga.
Pinakamalala yung wala kang maisip na dahilan kung bakit ayaw mong kausapin yung tao, tamad lang takaga at wala sa mood. Haha
Quote from: arjay on October 05, 2017, 10:34:38 AM
May tatawag, kahit free ka, hindi mo sasagutin hahaha dahil ayaw mo lang.
May nagtext, nangangamusta. Pero bukas mo na rireplyan kasi di mo pa trip hahaha
May nakita ka sa mall or somewhere na kakilala, aalis ka na bago pa sila ang makakita sayo hahaha
dayuuum this is so meeee. I'm like the total seen zone. Hindi dahil I don't like you, but I am not yet ready to talk? Or I am so drained to talk right now. Parang ganun.
In fact, pag may tumatawag, nagpa-panic ako. :D :D :D
Yung mall thing. Ako literally umiiwas ako: lumiliko ng daan, biglang mag-about face, or pag walang choice: yuko, kunin ang phone kunwari may nag-text lel.