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Title: How do you keep a relationship alive?
Post by: bukojob on July 07, 2010, 01:09:05 PM
pag nag start yung isang relationship, excited pa yung dalawang involved... but after all the gifts and dinners and occasional fights and movies and outdoor activities and the out of towns and sex, unti unti, nagiging boring na.... and eventually, parang nagiging chore na yung isang relationship... so how do you keep it fresh? any ideas?

P.S. di ko naman talaga problem to. I just want to see your ideas on "how to keep love alive", ika nga.
Title: Re: How do you keep a relationship alive?
Post by: judE_Law on July 07, 2010, 01:25:52 PM
sometimes, you need to give each other some space.. i mean... iwasan din yung araw-araw kayong nagkikita at nagtatawagan..
its okay that sometimes you make her miss you, but not to the point she'll learn to live without you..
okay din naman kasi minsan yung may mga pag-uusapan kayong bago.
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Post by: pinoybrusko on July 07, 2010, 03:09:17 PM
IMHO, if you really love your partner, you'll not think the relationship as a chore and need to refresh or need new ideas. Other people would see it as a boring lifestyle due to its routinary activities but actually it isn't. Kahit paulit ulit pa iyan hinde nakakaboring kasi kasama mo naman ang mahal mo. Obviously, you haven't experience true love, isn't it?  ;D Like my case, we did already everything as normal lovers would do, travel, eating in fancy restaurants, gimik sa comedy bars or discos, watching movies, calling via phone kahit kakahiwalay lang after the date, sex, etc. but I don't feel any boredom of those routinary activities excited pa nga palagi  ;D

I could say new ideas would mean ibang place naman ang puntahan namin, ibang restaurant naman ang kakainan namin at ibang bars naman ang pupuntahan.  :D
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Post by: pinoybrusko on July 07, 2010, 03:20:55 PM
hahaha fox I know you will also find a partner that you deserve  :)
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Post by: marvinofthefaintsmile on July 07, 2010, 04:42:46 PM
try something na nyo gngwa.. like mountain climbing, scuba diving, punta ibang bansa. try to talk about something else na bihira nyo pag-usapan. You can also write love letters or give gifts kht n wlang ocassion,. surprise her.
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Post by: pinoybrusko on July 07, 2010, 06:10:22 PM
ano pa ba hinde naman nagawa? halos lahat nagawa na namin eh  ;D yung mga hinde namin nagawa e ayaw namin talaga gawin iyon.  ;D
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Post by: Mr.Yos0 on July 07, 2010, 07:16:47 PM
lagyan ng variety ang mga ginagawa nyo..
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Post by: joshgroban on July 07, 2010, 07:56:23 PM
minsan give each other a litttle space.... di naman lagi dapat kasama sya para may times din na mamiss mo sya
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Post by: pinoybrusko on July 07, 2010, 09:37:11 PM
imposible naman na magkasama kayo palagi siyempre may kanya kanya kayong trabaho at activities dun pa lang ubos na oras mo para makipagkita. Ako I see to it once a week nagkikita kami pero that 2 days na magkasama kami e sulit naman  ;D  Sa mga may-asawa ganun din, busy si tatay sa work at busy si nanay sa kids at gawaing bahay  ;D
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Post by: angelo on July 12, 2010, 11:18:26 PM
Quote from: bukojob on July 07, 2010, 01:09:05 PM
pag nag start yung isang relationship, excited pa yung dalawang involved... but after all the gifts and dinners and occasional fights and movies and outdoor activities and the out of towns and sex, unti unti, nagiging boring na.... and eventually, parang nagiging chore na yung isang relationship... so how do you keep it fresh? any ideas?

P.S. di ko naman talaga problem to. I just want to see your ideas on "how to keep love alive", ika nga.

natutuwa ako sa PS note. haha!

ang masasabi ko kasi diyan, unique ang bawat tao. ma-share lang naman natin dito ay generic pieces of advice such as more time, be maalaga, etc..
pero yung specific needs ng bawat isa, yung mga taong in a relationship na talaga ang makakasagot nun.
Title: Re: How do you keep a relationship alive?
Post by: joshgroban on July 13, 2010, 08:09:05 PM
one thing i learned thus far.... keep your sex life always exciting and fulfilling... always ask her kung nag eenjoy sya sa ginagawa nyo
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Post by: mheekowh on July 17, 2010, 01:21:36 PM
Quote from: joshgroban on July 13, 2010, 08:09:05 PM
one thing i learned thus far.... keep your sex life always exciting and fulfilling... always ask her kung nag eenjoy sya sa ginagawa nyo

gud! and not only for the sex.. for all things dapat
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Post by: joshgroban on July 21, 2010, 02:33:30 PM
may mga sacrifices along the way... compromises importante lang nga e di mo babaguhin ang pagkatao para lang masatisfy ka... give and take ika nga... ang nagbibigay kasi out of love ay may nafu fulfill kesa sa laging nasa receiving end... as they say you give without loving but you cannot love without giving
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Post by: pinoybrusko on July 21, 2010, 07:41:25 PM
How do you keep a relationship alive?

it will be alive as long as both of you are still in love with each other. Gaano man kaboring lifestyle niyo bale wala na iyon. Ang payo ko, wag gumawa ng mga bagay na ikasisira ng relasyon niyo kahit maliit na bagay pa iyan
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Post by: Mr.Yos0 on July 21, 2010, 09:16:04 PM
always stay faithful.. nyahaha.
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Post by: joshgroban on July 22, 2010, 07:00:11 AM
e pano nga kaya pag nahuli mong may iba yung mahal mo... ano reacs mo...mahirap yatang i keep ang relationship
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Post by: judE_Law on July 22, 2010, 02:08:55 PM
Quote from: joshgroban on July 22, 2010, 07:00:11 AM
e pano nga kaya pag nahuli mong may iba yung mahal mo... ano reacs mo...mahirap yatang i keep ang relationship

ibang usapan na yan... actually, proof na nga yun na hindi na alive ang relationship niyo eh..
Title: Re: How do you keep a relationship alive?
Post by: joshgroban on July 22, 2010, 02:42:36 PM
E PANO KUNG EYE OPENER YUN... as far as youre concerned okey at alive pa di na pala... going back to the topic...siguro dont be so secure and kampante ika nga .... people are changing so we have to keep up with it.
Title: Re: How do you keep a relationship alive?
Post by: judE_Law on July 22, 2010, 03:51:58 PM
Quote from: joshgroban on July 22, 2010, 02:42:36 PM
E PANO KUNG EYE OPENER YUN... as far as youre concerned okey at alive pa di na pala... going back to the topic...siguro dont be so secure and kampante ika nga .... people are changing so we have to keep up with it.


exactly.. kaya nga ang title ng topic diba eh how to keep a relationship alive?? lol! ;D
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Post by: solomon on July 22, 2010, 05:45:01 PM
how about putting god as the center of your relationship?
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Post by: joshgroban on July 23, 2010, 02:04:15 PM
yap to put God first is the best... but remember also we are created spirt soul and body... ingat lang tayo di mabalance ang mga bagay kasi tao lang tayo... ive known a lot of people christian fotr that matter  but on the verge of divorce and separation... why... may  nakalimutan silang mahalagang aspeto ng pagsasama nila
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Post by: judE_Law on July 23, 2010, 02:08:24 PM
^ take it from joshgroban... matagal na sila ng wife niya untill now, buhay na buhay ang pag-iibigan.. at nakakailang baby na nga ba kayo josh? lol! ;D
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Post by: joshgroban on July 23, 2010, 03:51:19 PM
ya sure...
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Post by: wmondilla on July 31, 2010, 06:54:17 AM
good communication at sapat na oras sa isat isa..
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Post by: joshgroban on August 05, 2010, 12:33:34 AM
always find something to laugh at....doing little things even if you feel its insignificant counts a lot
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Post by: judE_Law on August 07, 2010, 11:51:18 PM
^ minsan.. okay din pala yung may konting tampuhan o mababaw na away.. kasi after nun... tiyak may lambingan.. cheeeeesy!!
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Post by: pinoybrusko on August 08, 2010, 08:51:18 PM
How do you keep a relationship alive?


simple lang, alamin mo yung mga gusto at ayaw niya. Dapat ganun din siya, keen enough to know your likes and dislikes.
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Post by: angelo on August 08, 2010, 10:19:26 PM
^^ sino ba sa inyo ang in a relationship ngayon?

masasabi ko lang, give and take lang yan. kasama talaga ng sarap ang hirap.
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Post by: joshgroban on August 11, 2010, 09:41:22 AM
yap totally agree and also put God in the relationship
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Post by: angelo on August 11, 2010, 01:38:37 PM
ok ba sa mag-asawa ang gawin yung "date night" tulad nung concept nung nasa movie?
not necessarily na umabot sa kapahamakan hehe.
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Post by: joshgroban on August 11, 2010, 07:56:49 PM
date paminsan minsan samin ng wife ko is essential kaso most of the time wala nagbabantay sa mga bata may 2 yrs old pa kami e
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Post by: pinoybrusko on August 16, 2010, 11:42:20 AM
Quote from: joshgroban on August 11, 2010, 07:56:49 PM
date paminsan minsan samin ng wife ko is essential kaso most of the time wala nagbabantay sa mga bata may 2 yrs old pa kami e


tama kahit limited ang budget there's a time to date with your love. Yung ibang couples though they have kids minsan nagpupunta pa sa hotel or motel para maiba naman ang ambiance  ;D
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Post by: joshgroban on August 16, 2010, 08:44:37 PM
regular sex kahit once a week will always make the relationship alive ... agree
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Post by: pinoybrusko on August 17, 2010, 03:29:24 PM
Quote from: joshgroban on August 16, 2010, 08:44:37 PM
regular sex kahit once a week will always make the relationship alive ... agree

normal na lang ang sex sa mag-asawa yung iba pa nga gabi gabi pa  ;D
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Post by: joshgroban on August 18, 2010, 12:42:05 AM
Quote from: pinoybrusko on August 17, 2010, 03:29:24 PM
Quote from: joshgroban on August 16, 2010, 08:44:37 PM
regular sex kahit once a week will always make the relationship alive ... agree

normal na lang ang sex sa mag-asawa yung iba pa nga gabi gabi pa  ;D
yap i know pero  more on quality na ko not just for the sake of having one
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Post by: ram013 on August 18, 2010, 12:50:47 AM
i believe ung mga araw-araw e ung mga newly married ones pero as it goes on medyo ma-lelessen ung dalas ng sex... and thus dapat quality should be there
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Post by: joshgroban on August 18, 2010, 12:57:35 AM
yap tsaka yung level ng orgasm dapat mas intense  pa rin ... i love  watching my wife having hers parang gusto ko pang patagalin kaso after nun tapos na sya
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Post by: ram013 on August 18, 2010, 01:05:30 AM
ako din lalo me gumagaling pag nag--orgasm si misis e...
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Post by: joshgroban on August 18, 2010, 01:08:24 AM
para kasing kaya pa nila agad after ... pero ako kasi parang yun na yun nabigay ko na lahat pag nauna ko pero syempre you find ways pa rin to fulfill her
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Post by: ram013 on August 18, 2010, 01:11:12 AM
oo nga noh, bakit ganun kahit pag tapos na sila they can go for more... is it because they do less work compare to us? hmmmm

ako rin pag nakaisa na medyo takes time for 2nd round to follow not unless sobrang tagal since nung time na nag sex ulit kme.
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Post by: joshgroban on August 18, 2010, 01:12:52 AM
pag nag second round na nga ko parang namamanhid na ko.... haha i think it goes with the sugar intake ko taas kasi minsan sugar ko
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Post by: ram013 on August 18, 2010, 01:16:31 AM
ganun ba un..ako i think being a coffee addict contributes sa performance lvel ko
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Post by: joshgroban on August 18, 2010, 09:28:38 AM
siguro nga coffee din
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Post by: pinoybrusko on August 18, 2010, 11:55:04 AM
kaya pa nila ang next round of course kasi wala naman kailangan tumigas sa mga babae para i-maintain  ;D it's a normal thing. Kaya ung mga lalake na gusto mag second round umiinom muna ng energy drink before making love with their wives  :D
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Post by: angelo on August 18, 2010, 09:15:46 PM
they are naturally capable of multiple orgasms (as long as they "know" how)

ang advantage sa guys, it will always come, unlike sa girls, not always and they might not "know" how.
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Post by: ram013 on August 19, 2010, 01:17:43 AM
Quote from: angelo on August 18, 2010, 09:15:46 PM
they are naturally capable of multiple orgasms (as long as they "know" how)

ang advantage sa guys, it will always come, unlike sa girls, not always and they might not "know" how.

i agree as well...mas madali kc sa guys compared sa mga lalake
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Post by: pinoybrusko on August 19, 2010, 07:07:32 AM
Quote from: ram013 on August 19, 2010, 01:17:43 AM
Quote from: angelo on August 18, 2010, 09:15:46 PM
they are naturally capable of multiple orgasms (as long as they "know" how)

ang advantage sa guys, it will always come, unlike sa girls, not always and they might not "know" how.

i agree as well...mas madali kc sa guys compared sa mga lalake


baka compared sa mga babae  ;D otherwise M2M na iyan  :D
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Post by: judE_Law on August 19, 2010, 07:40:44 PM
enjoy every moment together and surprise each other once in a while.. like buying a concert ticket of her fave artist.
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Post by: ram013 on August 19, 2010, 08:47:19 PM
Quote from: pinoybrusko on August 19, 2010, 07:07:32 AM
Quote from: ram013 on August 19, 2010, 01:17:43 AM
Quote from: angelo on August 18, 2010, 09:15:46 PM
they are naturally capable of multiple orgasms (as long as they "know" how)

ang advantage sa guys, it will always come, unlike sa girls, not always and they might not "know" how.

i agree as well...mas madali kc sa guys compared sa mga lalake


baka compared sa mga babae  ;D otherwise M2M na iyan  :D


hehehehe...sorry nman...replying sa post kc while at work...hahaha
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Post by: joshgroban on August 21, 2010, 12:16:35 AM
forgiven... pero guys should know if the girls are faking it ... i mean their orgasm.... signs kasi ito na napapaligaya natin sila
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Post by: ram013 on August 21, 2010, 01:49:07 AM
so pag wlang orgasm di sila happy?

I am not really sure how to know siguro kung sobrang kilala mo na partner mo then definitely you'll know if the reaction is fake or not.
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Post by: judE_Law on August 21, 2010, 11:11:32 AM
^^ is it okay to ask the girl kung malapit na siya para sa bay kayo?
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Post by: pinoybrusko on August 21, 2010, 12:14:27 PM
Quote from: judE_Law on August 21, 2010, 11:11:32 AM
^^ is it okay to ask the girl kung malapit na siya para sa bay kayo?


uu naman pero usually ang mga lalake hinde nagtatanong  ;D sarili lang nila iniisip nila pag nilabasan na tapos na  :D just watched a movie how to make love to a woman  ;D
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Post by: judE_Law on August 21, 2010, 12:59:02 PM
^^ pornographic ba yun brusko o educational? hehe.. ;D
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Post by: pinoybrusko on August 21, 2010, 02:41:31 PM
Quote from: judE_Law on August 21, 2010, 12:59:02 PM
^^ pornographic ba yun brusko o educational? hehe.. ;D


comedy movie iyon at hinde porn  ;D. it is about a guy who consults colleagues for observing gestures to his gf after their sex. her gf sighs after their sex. Wala kasi silang foreplay at pag natapos si guy tigil na kahit hinde pa tapos si girl  ;D
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Post by: ram013 on August 27, 2010, 06:01:57 AM
Quote from: judE_Law on August 21, 2010, 11:11:32 AM
^^ is it okay to ask the girl kung malapit na siya para sa bay kayo?

I guess at that moment malalaman mo kung sasabay kayo ng putok

sa amin, minsan ako nauuna minsan nman sya muna tpos ako

nhihirapan na din me pag-nauna na me e.

pero the trick is discover the G-spot and the position kc definitely pag nkuha mo n yun, u'll have her come always
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Post by: judE_Law on August 28, 2010, 10:48:18 PM
Quote from: ram013 on August 27, 2010, 06:01:57 AM
Quote from: judE_Law on August 21, 2010, 11:11:32 AM
^^ is it okay to ask the girl kung malapit na siya para sa bay kayo?

I guess at that moment malalaman mo kung sasabay kayo ng putok

sa amin, minsan ako nauuna minsan nman sya muna tpos ako

nhihirapan na din me pag-nauna na me e.

pero the trick is discover the G-spot and the position kc definitely pag nkuha mo n yun, u'll have her come always

discover G-spot?? why? iba-iba bang lugar ang g-spot ng girls?
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Post by: pinoybrusko on August 30, 2010, 09:46:05 PM
hahaha hinde. isa lang ang location ng G-spot pero ang problema kung malocate ng organ mo  ;D
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Post by: ram013 on August 30, 2010, 11:12:46 PM
Quote from: pinoybrusko on August 30, 2010, 09:46:05 PM
hahaha hinde. isa lang ang location ng G-spot pero ang problema kung malocate ng organ mo  ;D

un nga ang ibig kong sbhin..hehehe
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Post by: joshgroban on August 31, 2010, 12:03:18 AM
i think gen rule pa rin ang foreplay... pag nauna ka at di pa tapos si misis just used your tongue or fingers hehe at least di ka naging selfish
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Post by: ram013 on August 31, 2010, 12:05:09 AM
panu kung ayaw nya ng both
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Post by: joshgroban on August 31, 2010, 12:06:37 AM
thats impossible... pag nabitin sila mas delikado specially pag frequent  na nangyayari
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Post by: ram013 on August 31, 2010, 12:10:23 AM
bakit delikado pag nabitin?
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Post by: joshgroban on August 31, 2010, 12:13:13 AM
ibig sabihin di mo nasasatisfy yung sexual needs nya... kung ikaw big deal ang makaraos ganun din sila...cmon... usually kasi ko at this point ... lagi ko sya pinapauna  pero talagang mahirap kontrolin minsan pero di excuse yun
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Post by: ram013 on August 31, 2010, 12:18:58 AM
Ahh... I see....

ako rin naguguilty pag di ny nararating ung peak kayo ngayon gusto ko una sya..

ung sabay kme medyo challenging e
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Post by: joshgroban on August 31, 2010, 12:21:54 AM
sarap talaga sabay... try nyo rin yung nag sasalita kayo para matimingan nyo pareho...
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Post by: ram013 on August 31, 2010, 12:24:48 AM
mga dirty talks ba to?

nawawala me sa concentration pag maingay e  ;D
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Post by: joshgroban on August 31, 2010, 12:33:13 AM
not really dirty talks things like sarap mo... and questions about how she feels gusto mo ba to sarap ba... even i love yous and things na nakadfagdag ng thrill ...walang mura o bad words just feel good lang
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Post by: ram013 on August 31, 2010, 12:34:42 AM
ahhhh... i see..

Question: Anyone has tried to purchase a sex book na may mga illustration o instruction ng position

Ok ba to?
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Post by: joshgroban on August 31, 2010, 12:36:31 AM
okey lang ciguro pero sex kasi is something personal... it may not be applicabble sa iba pero swak sa inyo... basta as long as both of you enjoys it no prob
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Post by: pinoybrusko on August 31, 2010, 01:08:57 PM
meron niyan kama sutra na book  ;D ibat ibang positions
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Post by: joshgroban on September 01, 2010, 12:23:04 AM
books are good pero  try mo rin ang nadidiscover nyo together
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Post by: ram013 on September 01, 2010, 12:27:49 AM
Sige I'll try to discover other post

pero pag pregnant ba may presscribed na position lng?
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Post by: joshgroban on September 01, 2010, 12:30:07 AM
haha wag ka na muna magdiscover pag preggy... hirap nyan... basta enjoy okey na yun... i remember nung kami ni esmi pag nagsesex nung time nya nagbibiro pa ko while having it... kako kapit anak baka mahila kita hahaha
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Post by: ctan on September 01, 2010, 12:31:50 AM
hmmmm.... ang ejaculate ng lalaki contains prostaglandins that hastens the delivery of the baby. :-) wag masyado magsex or control yung ejaculation especially kapag hindi pa kabuwanan ni misis. :-)
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Post by: joshgroban on September 01, 2010, 12:36:12 AM
iba iba naman suggestions nyo ... i think as long as okey pa at comfortable no problem... pero siguro moderation na lang tsaka di harsh hehe
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Post by: angelo on September 01, 2010, 06:49:18 AM
Quote from: ctan on September 01, 2010, 12:31:50 AM
hmmmm.... ang ejaculate ng lalaki contains prostaglandins that hastens the delivery of the baby. :-) wag masyado magsex or control yung ejaculation especially kapag hindi pa kabuwanan ni misis. :-)

this is a new POV. from the last time i heard from a medical practitioner, okay lang daw basta no ejaculation done "inside" as the semen damages the linings where the baby is housed.


Quote from: joshgroban on September 01, 2010, 12:30:07 AM
haha wag ka na muna magdiscover pag preggy... hirap nyan... basta enjoy okey na yun... i remember nung kami ni esmi pag nagsesex nung time nya nagbibiro pa ko while having it... kako kapit anak baka mahila kita hahaha

natawa ako. dun din kasi sa isang joke, yun daw yung reason kung bakit nagkaka-dimple yung bata.
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Post by: ram013 on September 01, 2010, 10:27:35 PM
Quote from: joshgroban on September 01, 2010, 12:30:07 AM
haha wag ka na muna magdiscover pag preggy... hirap nyan... basta enjoy okey na yun... i remember nung kami ni esmi pag nagsesex nung time nya nagbibiro pa ko while having it... kako kapit anak baka mahila kita hahaha

hahaha ako sbi ko nman magpapakilala lng si daddy tpos mag-aalign kme sa finger nya  ;D
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Post by: ram013 on September 01, 2010, 10:28:11 PM
Quote from: ctan on September 01, 2010, 12:31:50 AM
hmmmm.... ang ejaculate ng lalaki contains prostaglandins that hastens the delivery of the baby. :-) wag masyado magsex or control yung ejaculation especially kapag hindi pa kabuwanan ni misis. :-)

ahhh...I think better na abstain n lng kaya...first baby ito so I wanna make sure na magiging ok ang lahat

nakaktakot din ksi
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Post by: joshgroban on September 01, 2010, 11:48:11 PM
abstain okey lang ... ako kasi di kaya hehe
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Post by: ram013 on September 02, 2010, 12:53:38 AM
well sna kayanin ko ok kya tawagin si MARIA hahaha  ;D
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Post by: ctan on September 02, 2010, 01:28:36 AM
Prostaglandins kasi induces labor. So kapag premature pa ang baby, better na control muna yung pagejaculate sa loob ni misis. :-)
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Post by: pinoybrusko on September 05, 2010, 02:07:15 PM
Quote from: joshgroban on September 01, 2010, 11:48:11 PM
abstain okey lang ... ako kasi di kaya hehe


dami club dyan pag di pede si misis. just wear kapote  ;D
Title: Re: How do you keep a relationship alive?
Post by: mossimo on September 07, 2010, 09:10:45 AM
pano nga ba ang tamang paraan ng pagmamahal?

kung kulang, maghahanap ng iba.
kung sobra, they will take advantage of you......
Title: Re: How do you keep a relationship alive?
Post by: jaguar05 on September 13, 2010, 09:37:36 PM
I think to make it for lifetime, it's solid companionship between couples...this is more than sex...of course doing sex between legitimate couple is always a pleasure. But time will come...tatanda rin kayo and both will find out they had endured everything because of that special bond ..that never ending love bond..though love can be blown away kung magpapabaya ang bawat isa.   8)
Title: Re: How do you keep a relationship alive?
Post by: joshgroban on September 14, 2010, 04:33:06 PM
agree ako dyan sabi nga ng kanta... kahit maputi na ang buhok ko...siguro basta may nagpapangiti pa rin sa inyo pag magkasama kayo sign na yun na alive pa rin ang relationship ninyo
Title: Re: How do you keep a relationship alive?
Post by: pinoybrusko on September 14, 2010, 09:52:48 PM
I love to see old couples still date in malls/restaurants na silang dalawa lang. Ang sweet nilang pagmasdan. Hinde lahat ganyan in old age.
Title: Re: How do you keep a relationship alive?
Post by: bukojob on September 14, 2010, 10:33:34 PM
^ ako din! sa powerplant, may old couple dun akong nakita playing the piano. And you cans ee in their faces na nageenjoy lang sila. hanggang sa dumami na yung spectators na natutuwa din. ang sweet
Title: Re: How do you keep a relationship alive?
Post by: angelo on September 14, 2010, 10:40:17 PM
Quote from: bukojob on September 14, 2010, 10:33:34 PM
^ ako din! sa powerplant, may old couple dun akong nakita playing the piano. And you cans ee in their faces na nageenjoy lang sila. hanggang sa dumami na yung spectators na natutuwa din. ang sweet

OT: lagi silang tumutugtog doon. minsan sinasabayan sila nung violin.
Title: Re: How do you keep a relationship alive?
Post by: bukojob on September 14, 2010, 10:49:52 PM
^ pansin ko nga rin. parang every weekend yata nandun sila. But still... kahit di valentine's day, nakaka in-love sila panoorin
Title: Re: How do you keep a relationship alive?
Post by: angelo on September 14, 2010, 10:52:51 PM
^ there is also an old lady who plays romantic sounds. nakakabuhay ng relationship or makes you fall in love.. hihihi
Title: Re: How do you keep a relationship alive?
Post by: ram013 on September 14, 2010, 11:54:43 PM
Even though you are married already make sure that you will have time na as if magBF-GF pa rin... take time to go out, jsut the two of you
Title: Re: How do you keep a relationship alive?
Post by: joshgroban on September 14, 2010, 11:57:08 PM
Quote from: ram013 on September 14, 2010, 11:54:43 PM
Even though you are married already make sure that you will have time na as if magBF-GF pa rin... take time to go out, jsut the two of you
sakto... kahit may mga kontrabidang byenan na mga kj hehe
Title: Re: How do you keep a relationship alive?
Post by: bukojob on September 15, 2010, 12:15:06 AM
napapansin ko sa parents ko...

-they always hug and kiss each other every time na aalis yung isa sa kanila...
-and they wait for the other half before having dinner (not unless it's really really late)
-and pag may umalis sa kanila for more than a month and naiwan yung isa, super holding hands sila sa sasakyan pag nagsundo na kami

so maybe these are advice for the married men out there

my parents are married for almost 30 years now... ;D
Title: Re: How do you keep a relationship alive?
Post by: joshgroban on September 15, 2010, 12:17:30 AM
sweet ng parents mo bukojob
Title: Re: How do you keep a relationship alive?
Post by: pinoybrusko on September 15, 2010, 12:01:01 PM
Quote from: bukojob on September 15, 2010, 12:15:06 AM
napapansin ko sa parents ko...

-they always hug and kiss each other every time na aalis yung isa sa kanila...
-and they wait for the other half before having dinner (not unless it's really really late)
-and pag may umalis sa kanila for more than a month and naiwan yung isa, super holding hands sila sa sasakyan pag nagsundo na kami

so maybe these are advice for the married men out there

my parents are married for almost 30 years now... ;D


ilan kayo magkapatid buko?
Title: Re: How do you keep a relationship alive?
Post by: bukojob on September 15, 2010, 12:12:36 PM
<OT>
thanks josh...

3 kami brusko, ako pinakabata
</OT>

another tip... a fight once in a long while is healthy for a relationship...
Title: Re: How do you keep a relationship alive?
Post by: pinoybrusko on September 15, 2010, 05:48:24 PM
Quote from: bukojob on September 15, 2010, 12:12:36 PM
<OT>
thanks josh...

3 kami brusko, ako pinakabata
</OT>

another tip... a fight once in a long while is healthy for a relationship...


I was expecting mga 5 or 6 siblings kayo kasi ang sweet ng parents mo hehehe

baka pag nag-away hiwalay na ang kasunod, wag ito hinde maganda ito  ;D
Title: Re: How do you keep a relationship alive?
Post by: bukojob on September 15, 2010, 10:45:43 PM
^ I don't think ganun sila. I remember, they had a major fight one time. I' will not go into details. All I can say is that they fought about something that may shatter our family. pero ayun, tapos na. let go, move on.
Title: Re: How do you keep a relationship alive?
Post by: angelo on September 15, 2010, 11:13:05 PM
Quote from: pinoybrusko on September 15, 2010, 05:48:24 PM
Quote from: bukojob on September 15, 2010, 12:12:36 PM
<OT>
thanks josh...

3 kami brusko, ako pinakabata
</OT>

another tip... a fight once in a long while is healthy for a relationship...


I was expecting mga 5 or 6 siblings kayo kasi ang sweet ng parents mo hehehe

baka pag nag-away hiwalay na ang kasunod, wag ito hinde maganda ito  ;D

sa pamilya namin at sa ibang mga kaibigan ko, kapag nag-aaway, bata ang kapalit nun. hehe
napansin niyo ba? haha
Title: Re: How do you keep a relationship alive?
Post by: ram013 on September 16, 2010, 02:53:33 AM
Quote from: angelo on September 15, 2010, 11:13:05 PM
Quote from: pinoybrusko on September 15, 2010, 05:48:24 PM
Quote from: bukojob on September 15, 2010, 12:12:36 PM
<OT>
thanks josh...

3 kami brusko, ako pinakabata
</OT>

another tip... a fight once in a long while is healthy for a relationship...


I was expecting mga 5 or 6 siblings kayo kasi ang sweet ng parents mo hehehe

baka pag nag-away hiwalay na ang kasunod, wag ito hinde maganda ito  ;D

sa pamilya namin at sa ibang mga kaibigan ko, kapag nag-aaway, bata ang kapalit nun. hehe
napansin niyo ba? haha


Same here... I agree
Title: Re: How do you keep a relationship alive?
Post by: caicomonster on May 01, 2013, 10:54:13 AM
thanks sa topic na'to =) marami nanaman ako natutunan bwahahaha
Title: Re: How do you keep a relationship alive?
Post by: Lanchie on May 02, 2013, 06:35:09 AM
Couples should know how to take out complacency in the relationship.
Title: Re: How do you keep a relationship alive?
Post by: jelo kid on May 02, 2013, 09:35:52 AM
communication plays a vital role.
Title: Re: How do you keep a relationship alive?
Post by: marvinofthefaintsmile on May 20, 2013, 03:11:46 PM
you called me off again last night.
Title: Re: How do you keep a relationship alive?
Post by: joshgroban on May 22, 2013, 07:43:51 PM
always have the sense of humor ..laugh even on little things
Title: Re: How do you keep a relationship alive?
Post by: marvinofthefaintsmile on May 23, 2013, 10:09:52 AM
^naimagine ko..

daddy monch: ui! may maliit na langgam oh! HAHAHAHAHAHAHAHHAHAHAHAHAHAHA!!
wife: HAHAHAHAHAHAHHAHAHAHAHAHAHA!!!
Title: Re: How do you keep a relationship alive?
Post by: joshgroban on January 28, 2014, 08:27:23 AM
haha balik ka na marvin pag may time... 

nothing can beat God as we put Him always in the center of our relationship
Title: Re: How do you keep a relationship alive?
Post by: incognito on January 30, 2014, 12:51:21 AM
ang tanong, how do you get into a relationship anyway? hahahaha.
Title: Re: How do you keep a relationship alive?
Post by: Aero13 on January 30, 2014, 05:02:04 AM
By making your partner happy. That goes the same to your partner.
Title: Re: How do you keep a relationship alive?
Post by: Lanchie on February 04, 2014, 04:59:30 AM
pay attention to details.
Title: Re: How do you keep a relationship alive?
Post by: sayonara on February 26, 2014, 08:14:40 AM
Embrace what is coming, together.
Title: Re: How do you keep a relationship alive?
Post by: Lanchie on February 26, 2014, 10:12:58 PM
Communication pa rin.
Title: Re: How do you keep a relationship alive?
Post by: joshgroban on March 24, 2014, 07:39:04 PM
veru much aggree kahit puyatan na still talk everything under the sun and even laugh together
Title: Re: How do you keep a relationship alive?
Post by: makati_boy on March 25, 2014, 11:45:04 AM
Always try something new.
minsan ang mahirap sa matagal nang magkarelasyon is nagiging boring. sobrang comfortable nila, they fall into nothingness. pag laging may bago, exciting! maiiwasan yun sawa factor.
Title: Re: How do you keep a relationship alive?
Post by: Lanchie on March 26, 2014, 02:15:45 AM
Being open to try out your partner's quirks and hobbies. Pero dapat mutual ha. ;-)
Title: Re: How do you keep a relationship alive?
Post by: meztizo14 on April 20, 2014, 08:32:54 PM
Walang tatalo sa bonding at lambingan.
Title: Re: How do you keep a relationship alive?
Post by: cslsyzner on May 22, 2014, 04:08:13 PM
Kami, we make sure that we have time kahit once a week. We go to Church, have dinner and go malling. Tapos we talk a lot, yun mga plans namin and dreams namin together.
Title: Re: How do you keep a relationship alive?
Post by: SeanJulian on May 27, 2014, 10:42:22 PM
Siguro, trust, loyalty and secrecy. Yun lang
Title: Re: How do you keep a relationship alive?
Post by: marvinofthefaintsmile on October 21, 2015, 01:30:53 AM
So... itong meaningless thread sa akin ay biglang naging meaningful.. kea binabasa ko sya ulet since from the start.

Nagkakaron ako ng mahabang diskusyon sa isipan dahil magpapakasal na ako baka next year...

Sex.. I had so much sex at parang hindi na siya appealing sa akin. Mas-prefer ko yung babaeng ma-aasahan ko kesa free loader.

Money.. Meron syang P3,000,000 utang.

Tapos minsan nung nakipagkita ako sa mga friends ko maglaro at nakitag-along sya. Since hindi sya interesado sa computer games, nagpa-alam sya sa akin na manood ng sine.. Tpos tinext ako at galit sya. Pag sya naman ang makikipagkita sa mga kaibigan nya, ayos lang sa akin. No drama sa panig ko.

Hindi sya marunong ng kahit anung gawaing bahay. Hindi marunong magluto, maglaba, magalaga ng bata. Tapos yung tirang pagkain tinatapon nya sa alababo para magbara imbes na sa basurahan.

Ayaw nya munang magkaron ng anak sa kabila ng matanda na sya (30 turning 31).

Winaldas nya yung huling pera nya para pumunta sa Portugal tapos ako ang magbabayad ng flight nya pabalik sa Pilipinas. Tuloy hindi ko maiwasang isipin na sarili nya lang ang iniisip nya.

Kailangan kong bantayan ang mga sinasabi ko kapag kausap ko sya kasi pag namali ako ng sabi, katakot takot na drama na naman.

Kaso.. lahat naman ng relationship hindi perfectly match to begin with parang kamatis at patatas.. Kailangan mong mag-adjust, mag-compromise para magwork out ang relationship.. ang kamatis magiging tomato ketchup at ang patatas magiging french frise, eh di match na..

Or.. itong mga iniisip ko ay bunga lang ng fear of the unknown.. Alam kong hindi ito parang kaning mainit na iluluwa kapag napaso ka..

So.. any advice for me?
Title: Re: How do you keep a relationship alive?
Post by: marvinofthefaintsmile on October 21, 2015, 02:29:25 AM
in the mean time.. ang ginagawa ko ay hinahanapan ko ng positive quality ang SO ko. At least isa araw-araw. to counter yung mga negative thoughts.

Isa sa mga bagay na itinuro sa akin ng panahon ay hindi mo pwedeng makuwa ang lahat. Meron at merong hindi maganda. Bilang tao, imperfect tayo.. kaya asahan mo na meron at merong maling mangyayari.
Title: Re: How do you keep a relationship alive?
Post by: nikodelacruz on November 01, 2015, 02:49:04 PM
Quote from: marvinofthefaintsmile on October 21, 2015, 02:29:25 AM
in the mean time.. ang ginagawa ko ay hinahanapan ko ng positive quality ang SO ko. At least isa araw-araw. to counter yung mga negative thoughts.

Isa sa mga bagay na itinuro sa akin ng panahon ay hindi mo pwedeng makuwa ang lahat. Meron at merong hindi maganda. Bilang tao, imperfect tayo.. kaya asahan mo na meron at merong maling mangyayari.

'Di porke't gusto mo, makukuha mo. :)