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Title: Horrible Bosses
Post by: nike12 on April 26, 2016, 09:46:39 PM
How do you deal with your horrible bosses/colleagues?

I can't just simply ignore them because I'm closely working with them.

I know that most people can relate to this. I need your thoughts and opinions regarding this matter. Thanks :)
Title: Re: Horrible Bosses
Post by: chris_davao on April 27, 2016, 06:05:54 AM
wag mo na lng sila pansinin basta do your job lang.
Title: Re: Horrible Bosses
Post by: brian on April 27, 2016, 01:33:23 PM
ignoring ay hindi option. kasi kawork nga. natry mo na kausapin one-on-one? labasan lang ng sama ng loob pero syempre "professional way" na paguusap.
Title: Re: Horrible Bosses
Post by: nike12 on April 28, 2016, 05:20:34 PM
Quote from: chris_davao on April 27, 2016, 06:05:54 AM
wag mo na lng sila pansinin basta do your job lang.

may times na kaya kong hindi pansinin pero kasama ko sa department kaya no choice.
Title: Re: Horrible Bosses
Post by: nike12 on April 28, 2016, 05:22:42 PM
Quote from: brian on April 27, 2016, 01:33:23 PM
ignoring ay hindi option. kasi kawork nga. natry mo na kausapin one-on-one? labasan lang ng sama ng loob pero syempre "professional way" na paguusap.

hindi ko pa na-confront kasi mas mataas position niya sakin so baka i-bully pa ko sa office.
Title: Re: Horrible Bosses
Post by: dhie221 on May 02, 2016, 09:39:40 AM
weird officemate meron dito hahaha. actually hindi ko nalang sya pinapansin e kasi ikaw lang ang maiinis.
Title: Re: Horrible Bosses
Post by: nike12 on May 02, 2016, 11:45:25 PM
Quote from: dhie221 on May 02, 2016, 09:39:40 AM
weird officemate meron dito hahaha. actually hindi ko nalang sya pinapansin e kasi ikaw lang ang maiinis.

sa office namin maraming ganyan. hahaha kaya nakakainis talaga
Title: Re: Horrible Bosses
Post by: bar_rister on May 03, 2016, 09:56:04 AM
Yung nagmumura harap-harapan, grabe mamahiya. Though di ko pa naman na experience.
Title: Re: Horrible Bosses
Post by: chris_davao on May 03, 2016, 01:48:59 PM
'nung nagwowork pa ako sa LGU, I was assigned sa IT office. and then, lahat sila, di nila ako kinakausap, if may mga lakad2x, sila lang. ano ang ginawa ko? nkipagkaibigan ako dun sa kabilang office, City Planning and Dev't Office, ayun, kaibigan ko sila lahat pati boss nila. hahahahaaahha
Title: Re: Horrible Bosses
Post by: dhie221 on May 04, 2016, 12:16:36 PM
Quote from: bar_rister on May 03, 2016, 09:56:04 AM
Yung nagmumura harap-harapan, grabe mamahiya. Though di ko pa naman na experience.
Na experience kona yan, meron akong kaopisina na parang wala sa office kung makapag mura ang lutong.
Title: Re: Horrible Bosses
Post by: nike12 on May 05, 2016, 08:38:08 PM
Quote from: bar_rister on May 03, 2016, 09:56:04 AM
Yung nagmumura harap-harapan, grabe mamahiya. Though di ko pa naman na experience.

so far di ko pa naman na-experience yan lol
Title: Re: Horrible Bosses
Post by: nike12 on May 05, 2016, 08:39:11 PM
Quote from: chris_davao on May 03, 2016, 01:48:59 PM
'nung nagwowork pa ako sa LGU, I was assigned sa IT office. and then, lahat sila, di nila ako kinakausap, if may mga lakad2x, sila lang. ano ang ginawa ko? nkipagkaibigan ako dun sa kabilang office, City Planning and Dev't Office, ayun, kaibigan ko sila lahat pati boss nila. hahahahaaahha

ayos. so lumipat ka na din doon sa isang department? hahaha
Title: Re: Horrible Bosses
Post by: nike12 on May 05, 2016, 08:41:29 PM
Quote from: dhie221 on May 04, 2016, 12:16:36 PM
Quote from: bar_rister on May 03, 2016, 09:56:04 AM
Yung nagmumura harap-harapan, grabe mamahiya. Though di ko pa naman na experience.
Na experience kona yan, meron akong kaopisina na parang wala sa office kung makapag mura ang lutong.

may mga ganyan din ako na officemate na seniors pero casual na lang sakanila yun. But still, it is inappropriate.
Title: Re: Horrible Bosses
Post by: Peps on May 05, 2016, 10:40:49 PM
Meron kami dati sa company HR head grabe pagpapahiya dun sa aplikante,  nagkaroon kasi ng mix up sa mga resume tapos yung nag aapply ng office assistant/ messenger napahalo yung papers nya sa mga resume ng mga nag aapply ng engineer sa kumpanya kaya nung interview gulat sya pano nakapasa sa first screening yung nag aapply ng office assistant eh 1st year or 2nd year college lang yata natapos, di naman kasalanan nung tao napasama resume nya dun pero talagang pinahiya sya lakas ng boses ng HR head rinig sa buong office  "di ka man nga naka graduate tapos nag aapply ka ng engineer dito?" Basta dami sinabi nung HR head di na nakapagsalita yung tao, umalis nalang bigla, nakakaawa talaga.
Title: Re: Horrible Bosses
Post by: chris_davao on May 05, 2016, 10:42:27 PM
Quote from: nike12 on May 05, 2016, 08:39:11 PM
Quote from: chris_davao on May 03, 2016, 01:48:59 PM
'nung nagwowork pa ako sa LGU, I was assigned sa IT office. and then, lahat sila, di nila ako kinakausap, if may mga lakad2x, sila lang. ano ang ginawa ko? nkipagkaibigan ako dun sa kabilang office, City Planning and Dev't Office, ayun, kaibigan ko sila lahat pati boss nila. hahahahaaahha

ayos. so lumipat ka na din doon sa isang department? hahaha

hindi din. pag-vacant time ko, pumupunta ako kanila, even working hours na na-bobored ako, pumupunta ako. hahahaha
Title: Re: Horrible Bosses
Post by: nike12 on May 07, 2016, 07:27:17 AM
Quote from: chris_davao on May 05, 2016, 10:42:27 PM
Quote from: nike12 on May 05, 2016, 08:39:11 PM
Quote from: chris_davao on May 03, 2016, 01:48:59 PM
'nung nagwowork pa ako sa LGU, I was assigned sa IT office. and then, lahat sila, di nila ako kinakausap, if may mga lakad2x, sila lang. ano ang ginawa ko? nkipagkaibigan ako dun sa kabilang office, City Planning and Dev't Office, ayun, kaibigan ko sila lahat pati boss nila. hahahahaaahha

ayos. so lumipat ka na din doon sa isang department? hahaha

hindi din. pag-vacant time ko, pumupunta ako kanila, even working hours na na-bobored ako, pumupunta ako. hahahaha

Actually close din ako sa ibang department/team kaya pati lunch sakanila ako sumasama. Haha ok lang kasi magkalapit lng working areas namin eh
Title: Re: Horrible Bosses
Post by: jovitpaul on May 08, 2016, 03:59:51 PM
Quote from: nike12 on April 26, 2016, 09:46:39 PM
How do you deal with your horrible bosses/colleagues?

I can't just simply ignore them because I'm closely working with them.

I know that most people can relate to this. I need your thoughts and opinions regarding this matter. Thanks :)
GAIN THE TRUST OF YOUR BOSS, BY SHOWING HIM THAT YOU ARE NOT A COMPETITION BUT AN ALLY!
THAT'S WHAT I DID..
Title: Re: Horrible Bosses
Post by: chris_davao on May 10, 2016, 02:14:44 PM
Quote from: nike12 on May 07, 2016, 07:27:17 AM
Quote from: chris_davao on May 05, 2016, 10:42:27 PM
Quote from: nike12 on May 05, 2016, 08:39:11 PM
Quote from: chris_davao on May 03, 2016, 01:48:59 PM
'nung nagwowork pa ako sa LGU, I was assigned sa IT office. and then, lahat sila, di nila ako kinakausap, if may mga lakad2x, sila lang. ano ang ginawa ko? nkipagkaibigan ako dun sa kabilang office, City Planning and Dev't Office, ayun, kaibigan ko sila lahat pati boss nila. hahahahaaahha

ayos. so lumipat ka na din doon sa isang department? hahaha

hindi din. pag-vacant time ko, pumupunta ako kanila, even working hours na na-bobored ako, pumupunta ako. hahahaha

Actually close din ako sa ibang department/team kaya pati lunch sakanila ako sumasama. Haha ok lang kasi magkalapit lng working areas namin eh


HAHAHAHA
Title: Re: Horrible Bosses
Post by: nike12 on May 10, 2016, 06:46:34 PM
Quote from: jovitpaul on May 08, 2016, 03:59:51 PM
Quote from: nike12 on April 26, 2016, 09:46:39 PM
How do you deal with your horrible bosses/colleagues?

I can't just simply ignore them because I'm closely working with them.

I know that most people can relate to this. I need your thoughts and opinions regarding this matter. Thanks :)
GAIN THE TRUST OF YOUR BOSS, BY SHOWING HIM THAT YOU ARE NOT A COMPETITION BUT AN ALLY!
THAT'S WHAT I DID..

Ok to ah. But what if you don't like your boss?
Title: Re: Horrible Bosses
Post by: chris_davao on May 10, 2016, 08:16:31 PM
Quote from: nike12 on May 10, 2016, 06:46:34 PM
Quote from: jovitpaul on May 08, 2016, 03:59:51 PM
Quote from: nike12 on April 26, 2016, 09:46:39 PM
How do you deal with your horrible bosses/colleagues?

I can't just simply ignore them because I'm closely working with them.

I know that most people can relate to this. I need your thoughts and opinions regarding this matter. Thanks :)
GAIN THE TRUST OF YOUR BOSS, BY SHOWING HIM THAT YOU ARE NOT A COMPETITION BUT AN ALLY!
THAT'S WHAT I DID..

Ok to ah. But what if you don't like your boss?

no choice. haha
Title: Re: Horrible Bosses
Post by: nike12 on May 10, 2016, 08:39:13 PM
Quote from: chris_davao on May 10, 2016, 08:16:31 PM
Quote from: nike12 on May 10, 2016, 06:46:34 PM
Quote from: jovitpaul on May 08, 2016, 03:59:51 PM
Quote from: nike12 on April 26, 2016, 09:46:39 PM
How do you deal with your horrible bosses/colleagues?

I can't just simply ignore them because I'm closely working with them.

I know that most people can relate to this. I need your thoughts and opinions regarding this matter. Thanks :)
GAIN THE TRUST OF YOUR BOSS, BY SHOWING HIM THAT YOU ARE NOT A COMPETITION BUT AN ALLY!
THAT'S WHAT I DID..

Ok to ah. But what if you don't like your boss?

no choice. haha

"If you can't beat them, join them" hahaha
Title: Re: Horrible Bosses
Post by: chris_davao on May 11, 2016, 05:10:49 PM
Quote from: nike12 on May 10, 2016, 08:39:13 PM
Quote from: chris_davao on May 10, 2016, 08:16:31 PM
Quote from: nike12 on May 10, 2016, 06:46:34 PM
Quote from: jovitpaul on May 08, 2016, 03:59:51 PM
Quote from: nike12 on April 26, 2016, 09:46:39 PM
How do you deal with your horrible bosses/colleagues?

I can't just simply ignore them because I'm closely working with them.

I know that most people can relate to this. I need your thoughts and opinions regarding this matter. Thanks :)
GAIN THE TRUST OF YOUR BOSS, BY SHOWING HIM THAT YOU ARE NOT A COMPETITION BUT AN ALLY!
THAT'S WHAT I DID..

Ok to ah. But what if you don't like your boss?

no choice. haha

"If you can't beat them, join them" hahaha

that's my point! haha
Title: Re: Horrible Bosses
Post by: amazingguy on May 15, 2016, 05:30:12 PM
I had this before and I just escalated my boss to our next full senior. After that I saw an improvement on how she treats me in the office. It became better for the two of us :D
Title: Re: Horrible Bosses
Post by: chris_davao on May 17, 2016, 03:37:50 PM
Quote from: amazingguy on May 15, 2016, 05:30:12 PM
I had this before and I just escalated my boss to our next full senior. After that I saw an improvement on how she treats me in the office. It became better for the two of us :D

friends na kayo? hehe
Title: Re: Horrible Bosses
Post by: napolespaloma on October 27, 2016, 06:43:33 PM
Ito yung isa sa mga dahilan kaya gusto ko magfreelance na lang e ;)
Title: Re: Horrible Bosses
Post by: cire on January 04, 2017, 09:59:54 PM
Meron bang thread for Horrible Workmates?Haha
Title: Re: Horrible Bosses
Post by: jackxtwist on September 24, 2017, 09:03:28 PM
Quote from: dhie221 on May 04, 2016, 12:16:36 PM
Quote from: bar_rister on May 03, 2016, 09:56:04 AM
Yung nagmumura harap-harapan, grabe mamahiya. Though di ko pa naman na experience.
Na experience kona yan, meron akong kaopisina na parang wala sa office kung makapag mura ang lutong.
Depends in the industry though. If you work in finance, dayumm, swearing is as normal as saying hi.

My first boss is a micromanager. He would literally sit beside you looking at your screen on whatever the hell you're doing. Kapag merong routine tasks, like data gathering (aka pasting to Excel), he would even time you and tell you how long you should complete that task.

My last boss is a b*tch. She's very very formal and wanted everyone in her team to follow her. She would only talk to me during meetings. Hallway encounters had become my outlet of passive-aggression. Emails became my preferred tool of messing up with her. AHh those days  ;D ;D ;D
Title: Re: Horrible Bosses
Post by: chris_davao on October 15, 2017, 08:16:44 AM
Quote from: jackxtwist on September 24, 2017, 09:03:28 PM
Quote from: dhie221 on May 04, 2016, 12:16:36 PM
Quote from: bar_rister on May 03, 2016, 09:56:04 AM
Yung nagmumura harap-harapan, grabe mamahiya. Though di ko pa naman na experience.
Na experience kona yan, meron akong kaopisina na parang wala sa office kung makapag mura ang lutong.
Depends in the industry though. If you work in finance, dayumm, swearing is as normal as saying hi.

My first boss is a micromanager. He would literally sit beside you looking at your screen on whatever the hell you're doing. Kapag merong routine tasks, like data gathering (aka pasting to Excel), he would even time you and tell you how long you should complete that task.

My last boss is a b*tch. She's very very formal and wanted everyone in her team to follow her. She would only talk to me during meetings. Hallway encounters had become my outlet of passive-aggression. Emails became my preferred tool of messing up with her. AHh those days  ;D ;D ;D

don't you like bitches? HAHA
Title: Re: Horrible Bosses
Post by: jackxtwist on October 17, 2017, 12:17:58 PM
^office b*tch sir. like a b*tch b*tch  :D :D :D :D :D