Should you always listen to your parents? Are they always right?
nope.
my parents told not to invite friends at home because they will steal things sa bahay.. I dont belive them..
YES, listen lang naman, hindi mo naman sinabing follow.
Listening to your parents will not only make them feel important, it will also provide you with good insights at times, all of which are brought about by experience.
hmm. mejo exception yata ng parents mo marvin ;)
^^I remember my father got pissed off kase kinorek q xa.. Hehehehe.. Well, kung sa bgay parent xa and parents are absolute correct. Ikaw ba namn eh punahin ng anak mo eh.. xempre mag-iinarte ang pride mo..
@E: Yeah.. pero nung nakilala ko ung mga parents ni K.. I said to myself.. my parents are a lot better.. Hehehehe!
naku, kawawa naman pala si K mo. at ang best friend mo kung ganun.. tsk tsk..
mejo paranoid lang ang mga parents q.. plus pakialamero/mera at selfish. Pero mabubuti nman sila.. Its jsut that they dont care about anybody else except ung family friends nila. (the family of my mom's best friend. <-- Sila lang ung nakakapasok sa bahay..)
@E: Pero mahal nmn nila xempre c Nanay <--nakiki-Nanay aq. Sinabi nmn nila iyon sa kin ('Si Mama, mahal ko').. Kasabay ng daing na 'puro problema dito' at 'gusto ko na ngang magbigte eh'. Yung mga ganung banat. Kya its gud n dn n ng pakasal ung best friend q kc masmasaya xa dun. Its beter na magkayakap kyo ng asawa mo habang nanonood ng tv kesa dun sa bahay nila na pinaggalitan xa ng mom nya. Pingalitan xa ulet nung umuwe xa s bhay kase birthday ni Tatay <--nakikitatay aq. Ngyn eh me tampuhan ang nanay at tatay.. pero hopefully, ayus n n un ngyon.
Hinde dn kc nagpipigil c Nanay kahit na andun aq.. Like sinisigawan c K at sinasampal.. At wala aqng magawa.. Hinde ko pwedeng awayin ang Nanay ni K.. Patay aq pag ganun..
nakakatakot nga ang nanay nila kung ganun ;(
kahit sino naman siguro walang magagawa, maybe yung tatay na lang nila
mahirap ngang panuorin na sinasampal si K sa harap mo ;(
o well. ganun talaga ang buhay.
On topic:
For me it is still yes. As a sign of respect.:)
makikinig ka lang naman, nasa sa iyo pa din naman yun kung susundin mo or hindi kung ano man ang sasabihin nila.
I agree...
walang mawawala sa iyo if
you listen to them....
but if it's about making
decisions..depende..
try mo din na
i-consider your point of
view nila....pero sa huli
kaw pa rin ang magdedesisyon...
;D ;D ;D
yap listening is different from obeying
yes.. dahil mas alam nila kesa sa atin.
mahirap naman mag marunong kasi di mo pa naman na experience eh
so makinig na lang sa kanila since they know the best for their kids
Quote from: darkstar13 on May 31, 2011, 12:42:48 PM
YES, listen lang naman, hindi mo naman sinabing follow.
Listening to your parents will not only make them feel important, it will also provide you with good insights at times, all of which are brought about by experience.
natuwa ako sa sagot na ito, medyo pilosopo but it makes sense. Ganito rin ang sagot ko.hehehe.
^^ hehe. ;) mukhang mejo magkaugali siguro tayo. pareho rin tayo sa random things eh
^^^siguro nga...hahah...
nakaka-apek sakn ung childhood history ko kaya mejo hinde aq nakikinig sa mga parents q.. though it happened long ago pero still.. pwede pa dn xang maging basehan.. Pero recently.. mom becomes kinder to me.. Siguro dahil her favorite son.. my kuya impregnated his gf and it is now on live-in. they now have a daughter with abs. However.. it seems I dont need that extra kindness my mom is giving me... I need it when I was young.. I dont need it now.. Pero it is still considered as ' good to have'.
ang alam ko kasi if you honor your parents...it adds long life... ito lang ang commandment na may promise
hindi lagi
"Children, obey your parents in
everything, for this pleases the Lord.."
...ako pasaway madalas pero narealize ko na tama yun mga advices sakin ng dad ko ng nawala na sya.
yes.. :D;D
uhmm..sige na nga.. 80% yes... :D;D
clarify ko lang listening doesnt mean always obeying... pag malaki ka na advice na lang talaga marereceive mo sa kanila kasi mas alam mo na ang situation mo ...importante you honor them...kahit ayaw mo silang sundin sa payo nila....wag mo silang sagutin ng pabalang... i learned it from experience....
Quote from: joshgroban on September 22, 2011, 08:21:23 AM
clarify ko lang listening doesnt mean always obeying... pag malaki ka na advice na lang talaga marereceive mo sa kanila kasi mas alam mo na ang situation mo ...importante you honor them...kahit ayaw mo silang sundin sa payo nila....wag mo silang sagutin ng pabalang... i learned it from experience....
agree!!
Should you always listen to your parents? Are they always right?
depende yan sa age ng taong sasagot. Usually pag bata ka pa you always do since you don't have someone to teach you things that are good and bad but only parents.
But as you grow up, nagkakaisip ka na and you decide on your own. It means, you already know what is right and not for you. Your decision depends on how you are molded in those early years. Kaya minsan may maeencounter ka baluktot ang principles and paniniwala dahil mali ang pagpapalaki sa kanila.
root cause ng problem will bring back to the parents, sad to say :(
If you are confident with yourself and you trust your guts, I think you shouldn't always obey your parents. Otherwise, their advice most probably will benefit you rather than give an adverse outcome.
yes! pero nasa sayo pa rin ang desisyon, at pag nagdesisyon ka..wag mo kalimutan iconsider ang payo ng parents mo..
ikaw na bahala magtimbang sa sarili mo kung susundin mo ba parents mo o hindi..at kung sinunod mo man ang parents mo at nagkamali ka in the end dapat wag rin natin isisisi sa parents kung di man naging maganda ang resulta dahil wala naman makakapagsabi kung ano ang kahihinatnan ng mga pangyayari.
it never hurts to listen :D
napanood nyo na ba yun diary of a wimpy kid? <related yun sa topic>
ikaw ang titimbang ng sasabihin ng mga parents mo. kung sa tingin mo, mas alam nila ang sinasabi nila, at mas tama sila sa pananaw mo: pakinggan mo. wag mo na lang sagutin nang pabalang kasi kabastos-bastos yun. (ako, sinusuwag ko lang pero hindi ibig sabihin nun hindi ko pinakinggan)
this is a sensitive issue... I will just reserve my comment... :p
Parents are also human. So they can't be always right.
Quote from: geo on January 20, 2012, 02:22:12 PM
this is a sensitive issue... I will just reserve my comment... :p
hmmm... napaisip tuloy ako sa kung ano ang icocomment ni geo...
listen to what they have to say. bilang respeto sa kanila. pero kaw gumawa ng desisyon na sa tingin mo ay tama para sayo.
it never hurts to listen plus you made the other person feel good ;)
naalala q 2loy nung nanligaw ako sa isang poor girl..
disagree ang parents ko kase dapat daw eh humanap ako ng kalevel ko..
and i guess, eh they were right.. pag poor girl kase eh hinde maayos kumilos.. nanlalalake, nagsisinungaling, tamad, magaling maglaba, cheap ang ingredients na gingamit sa pagluluto, inutil, at walang silbe. mahilig pang makinig ng mga pinoy rap songs.. ok lang sana kung andrew e songs..
^big time talaga si marvin. pero di naman lahat ng mahirap marvin ganyan. madaming mayaman na ganyan din ugali. di maayos kumilos, nagsisinungaling, tamad, magaling maglaba.... madaming mayaman na ugaling iskwater. may mga kilala ako na di galing sa buena familia, mahirap, pero mas maayos pa ang social graces nila kesa sa mga ibang mayayaman na nakadaupang palad ko na. sabi nga nila, money can't buy you class. :)
^ tama din nagkataon lang siguro yun marv and nakakagulat hikahos na sa buhay tamad pa ang alam ko yun mga may less yun ang nagsusumikap eh
panalo ata talaga yun chick kaya tyinaga ni marv eh ;)
Quote from: enzoafterdark on February 09, 2012, 02:41:15 PM
^ tama din nagkataon lang siguro yun marv and nakakagulat hikahos na sa buhay tamad pa ang alam ko yun mga may less yun ang nagsusumikap eh
panalo ata talaga yun chick kaya tyinaga ni marv eh ;)
aba'y panalong-panalo! palong-palo pa!! hinde ako papasok sa isang relasyon na alam kong talo ako.. Hinde kase sakin importante kung matalino ka o mayaman.. (i already have those). basta maganda at seksi, that's enough. anyway, ako nmn ang mag-gguide along the way eh..
Just posting para hindi madivert yung usapan sa ibang topic (which I assume na mangyayari)...
I still stand on my first post here. We should always listen to our parents to pay respect but the decision is still up to us. I don't want naman kasi na mag end up na yung mga magiging anak ko eh hindi marunong mag pay ng respect sa parents nila.
Absolutely. You should always listen. No matter how young or old you are. Hindi mo sila maiintindihan kung hindi mo sila pakikinggan. Pero, it doesn't mean na you will follow lahat ng sasabihin nila. You have to listen, understand and then tsaka mo timbangin yung sinasabi nila. Pero kung medyo bata ka pa, let say high school, as much as possible makining ka muna and sumunod sa kanila. Pag college ka na, that's the right time siguro na medyo matutuo ka rin magdecide para sa sarili mo basta huwag mawawala ng respect sa parents.
yap listening naman is different sa obeying right?
Quote from: joshgroban on June 27, 2012, 11:55:33 PM
yap listening naman is different sa obeying right?
Correct brader!
makinig kayo kay monch.... siya ang makakasagot nito being a parent.
Quote from: marvinofthefaintsmile on February 09, 2012, 09:20:44 AM
naalala q 2loy nung nanligaw ako sa isang poor girl..
disagree ang parents ko kase dapat daw eh humanap ako ng kalevel ko..
and i guess, eh they were right.. pag poor girl kase eh hinde maayos kumilos.. nanlalalake, nagsisinungaling, tamad, magaling maglaba, cheap ang ingredients na gingamit sa pagluluto, inutil, at walang silbe. mahilig pang makinig ng mga pinoy rap songs.. ok lang sana kung andrew e songs..
Quote from: incognito on February 09, 2012, 11:43:24 AM
^big time talaga si marvin. pero di naman lahat ng mahirap marvin ganyan. madaming mayaman na ganyan din ugali. di maayos kumilos, nagsisinungaling, tamad, magaling maglaba.... madaming mayaman na ugaling iskwater. may mga kilala ako na di galing sa buena familia, mahirap, pero mas maayos pa ang social graces nila kesa sa mga ibang mayayaman na nakadaupang palad ko na. sabi nga nila, money can't buy you class. :)
Quote from: maykel on February 10, 2012, 12:44:23 PM
Just posting para hindi madivert yung usapan sa ibang topic (which I assume na mangyayari)...
I still stand on my first post here. We should always listen to our parents to pay respect but the decision is still up to us. I don't want naman kasi na mag end up na yung mga magiging anak ko eh hindi marunong mag pay ng respect sa parents nila.
ngayon ko lang nabasa mga post nyo ahh, di bagay ni maykel seryoso lol
^kea ngayon eh empleyado na from Finance ang nililigawan ko. So far, click naman kame.. kase ka-level...
well that doesn't mean na mayaman na siya porke empleyado siya sa finance
Quote from: geo on June 29, 2012, 09:25:24 AM
makinig kayo kay monch.... siya ang makakasagot nito being a parent.
hahah kapal mo geo... dami ko pa dapat matutunan
SUMUSUNOD MINSAN NALNG KASI PARA SA AKIN NASA TAMANG EDAD NA AKO AT ALAM KO NA ANG TAMA AT MALI PERO HINDI LAHAT SYEMPRE MINSAN SUMUSUNOD PARIN AKO SA MAGULANG KO KASI ALAM KO NA FOR MY SAFETY NAMN KASI :D
mnsn s buhy, u need 2 mke mistkes just to learn hu u r..
Quote from: marvinofthefaintsmile on August 23, 2012, 07:38:19 PM
mnsn s buhy, u need 2 mke mistkes just to learn hu u r..
kaya nga pero di namn nangangahulugan na di mo na need ng advice
yes.
Siempre naman. Listening doesn't mean following.
Hindi rin ibig sabihin, pasok sa left ear, labas sa kanan. You need to understand whatever they are saying.
almost always, like 95% of the time. I agree with bobbylost above.
minsan namn kasi need ko parin ang advice nila kahit na nasa tamang edad na ako para mag desisyon sa sarili ko
Of course i should,parents ko sila....
Tsaka papunta palang ako,pero sila nakaraan na,
Quote from: toperyo on September 26, 2012, 05:19:56 PM
Of course i should,parents ko sila....
Tsaka papunta palang ako,pero sila nakaraan na,
AHAHAHA!! TAMA YUN ANG ADVANTAGE NILA SA ATIN EH
listening doesnt mean you obey them. kasi may mga parents na feeling nila alam nila lahat.... just be sensitive siguro
I remember a quote saying to honor what your parents say not because they are right but because they have already made mistakes in the past.
I would say yes, gagawin ko most ng sinasabi except kung may ituturo ako sa kapatid kong bata(tuturuan mo nalang dami pa niya reklamo) at kung may kukunin sa baba tapos wala ng tao at nakapatay lahat ng ilaw--> takot ako sa dilim eh
Most ng sinasabi sakin : "mag-ingat ka"(di ako sinasabihan umuwi ng maaga >.<) "mag-aral ng mabuti"
good son...
Amen.
listen lang naman so why not? hahaha
HAHAHAHAHA NOPE.
Listen, yes. Pero sundin lahat? Nope. Lalo kung nasa edad ka na, decide on your own. Mas ija-judge ko ang magulang mo kung pinalaki ka nilang walang backbone.
^triggered si koya ;D ;D ;D
^sakto I'm in that situation now eh. Sarap manermon ng matatanda. Hahahaha
Hahahahaha!
Boss Den, hahahaha!
Hahahaha!
puro tawa lang.
hmm this made me think. gaano kadalas at kalala ka pag sumagot sa parents mo?
Both parents were always the mahinahon kind, sa case ko. I did make face and answer back noong teenage years ko pero mabibilang lang sa daliri ng isang kamay ko. I guess mabait lang kasi talaga sila. Tsaka may edad ata talaga na nagdadabog at nagrerebelde ang tao. After nun, okay na kami. We were always treated as mature individuals, lumaki kami respecting them and at the same time close enough to share things with them that other kids won't normally share.
Example: mom sent a photo of mangoes na pinamitas nila, I replied with a photo of sisig and beer because nag iinom ako that time. She just said hinay hinay and was just cool with it. So wala akong rason talaga to rebel. Hahaha
awww your parents are so nice.
well in my case, combative kasi ako I always have to get what I want. Eh ganun din mama ko. Hahahahaha. I started talking back when my sister came back to our house. Tapos palagi ko sila naririnig ni mama. Hahaha. I have an excuse. Tapos sobrang sumasagot talaga ako kapag alam kong may mali sya o alam kong tama ako at kaya kong gawin yung sinasabi ko. Looking back, I would love to think na na-underestimate ng mama ko ang strong desire for independence ko. At nakita nya sarili nya sa akin at ayaw nyang gumaya ako sa kanya something like that.
Nung college ako, we rarely talk. Well I almost did not talk to anyone in the family naman that time kasi rebel mode. So yeah.
For me, Yes.
According to the commandments.. we must honor our parents.
Good or bad. Honor your parents.
You are not doing it for your own, u r doing it fo the Lord.
Learn to trust in his plans because God is in control. =)