wala ako masyadong close na lalake sa college. puro dota kasi laro nila tuwing lunch, tuwing breaktime.
di ako masyadong magaling dun. tska close na lahat mga kaklase ko. bago lang kasi ako sa section na to. buti nalang dami kong friends na chicks ngayon.
^ as in lahat ng lalake sa section mo dota ang inaatupag?hehehe... kung ganun, try to blend in...o kaya hanap ka muna ng 1 na makakaclose tapos tuloy tuloy na yun.. :D
anyway, dito makakahanap ka rin ng friends.. :)
tama... just be friendly ...be open ... wag mo namang pilitin it will just come naturally... di naman kailangan marami...mas maganda ang few pero close kayo kasi you learn to accept and understand yung mga trip nyo... marami ko friends na di ko naman trip yung mga hobby and interest nila but i dont see it as negative.... just take it easy and true friends will come in handy.... adjustments lang yan justinboom
you can befriend joshgroban
Quote from: joshgroban on October 07, 2011, 09:00:26 AM
tama... just be friendly ...be open ... wag mo namang pilitin it will just come naturally... di naman kailangan marami...mas maganda ang few pero close kayo kasi you learn to accept and understand yung mga trip nyo... marami ko friends na di ko naman trip yung mga hobby and interest nila but i dont see it as negative.... just take it easy and true friends will come in handy.... adjustments lang yan justinboom
i totally agree... :D
mag-frat ka para dumami kaibigan mo
Quote from: hahajustinboom on October 07, 2011, 01:28:36 AM
wala ako masyadong close na lalake sa college. puro dota kasi laro nila tuwing lunch, tuwing breaktime.
di ako masyadong magaling dun. tska close na lahat mga kaklase ko. bago lang kasi ako sa section na to. buti nalang dami kong friends na chicks ngayon.
dota ba kamo? hmm mukhang magiging kaibigan ko yang mga kaklase mong lalaki ha hehe :D
I'm sure kahit isang grupo diyan may makaka close ka lalo na pag nag start na mga groupings sa klase dun ka nila makikilala talaga
Quote from: talakitok88 on October 07, 2011, 04:17:43 PM
mag-frat ka para dumami kaibigan mo
pwede...tapos pag member ka na,pwede nang may ipagulpi....wahaha..
Quote from: hahajustinboom on October 07, 2011, 01:28:36 AM
wala ako masyadong close na lalake sa college. puro dota kasi laro nila tuwing lunch, tuwing breaktime.
di ako masyadong magaling dun. tska close na lahat mga kaklase ko. bago lang kasi ako sa section na to. buti nalang dami kong friends na chicks ngayon.
sometimes you need to adjust din sa environment, if you find na lahat ng kaklase mo e, dota lang inaatupag but still you want to blend with them, I guess try to find out why they are hooked in playing dota. Then if you find it interesting also, its time para magpaturo ka na 8) sa forum na ito e madaming DOTA masters...... ehem...... ^^ andyan si Boss Otipeps
All you have to do is makisama. Maging mabait ka lang, magsmile ka and lagin maghello. Hehe. Find out what they are good at, then ask them to help you based on their talents. Vice versa din. Pag nkikipagkwentuhan ka, always look like you're very interested in what they're saying. Some times, pakapalan na rin, invite yourself to their hang-outs, cguro naman they won't mind. Also, find out your similar interests, di lang naman siguro puro dota lang alam nila di ba.
Basta remebr two things: First, be confident. Pag nkita nila confident ka, they would subconciously feel that you are a person worth knowing. Second, never ever try to pretend or forcefully change who you really are. Real friends will like you for the real you. Take it from me, sobrang different ko sa mga guys sa school namin. Parang oddball na nga ko. Pero halos lahat kaclose ko, especially un mga pinakapopular guys. Even un mga bullies and varsity players at school president, naging tropa ko. Kaya mu yan. :)
korek....sakto
Quote from: joshgroban on October 07, 2011, 11:41:46 PM
Quote from: marvinofthefaintsmile on October 07, 2011, 09:50:01 AM
you can befriend joshgroban
haha bat ako lang..tayo lahat dapat
eh kaw kgad ang nagpop up sa isip ko eh. wide ang range ng friendshp mo. (para naqng Monch endorser)
Ganito na lang.. para di mo makalimutan ang goal mo to win guy friends..
Sabayan mo ko ah..
"Teach me how to DOTA
Teach me, Teach me how to DOTA
Teach me how to DOTA
Teach me, Teach me how to DOTA
All my classmates love me
All my, All my classmates love me
All my classmates love me
You aint fuckin' with my hero"
Quote from: hahajustinboom on October 07, 2011, 01:28:36 AM
wala ako masyadong close na lalake sa college. puro dota kasi laro nila tuwing lunch, tuwing breaktime.
di ako masyadong magaling dun. tska close na lahat mga kaklase ko. bago lang kasi ako sa section na to. buti nalang dami kong friends na chicks ngayon.
It does not matter na kung ang Friends mo ay puro girls or puro boys, mahalaga true friends sila. Just keep on being friendly and accomodating. Ako rin ilan lang ang friends ko na Guys eh, kasi most of them brusko ang trip. Eh hindi ako ganun. hahaha...joke
You dont need to be friends with them. Just be casual. =)
hahajustinboom, how old r u?
To topic starter,
Hello, wala ka naman masyadong dapat gawin para makahanap ng kaibigan. Kahit san pwede ka magkaron ng kaibigan.. Hindi mo dapat alalahanin or problemahin kung paano makipagkaibigan, bagkus kung paano ka magiging kaibigan sa magiging kaibigan mo.
Sana nakatulong ako. Have a nice day! ;)
siguro wag mo lagi isipin na ma op.... be a listener first
guy friends or boy friend? :D
haha dami na suggestions dito.... just make it clear lang kung ano gusto mo dude
Quote from: talakitok88 on October 07, 2011, 04:17:43 PM
mag-frat ka para dumami kaibigan mo
BAD advise.
- sumali ka sa school org niya like english clud, glee club basta yun club na bagay sa hilig mo.
dun dami kang maging kaibigan dun.
the search is over..andito ang PGG..bat ka pa lalayo.. ;)
kung hirap ka sa classmates mo pwede naman sa ibang section ka makipag friends
mahirap ipilit sarili mo baka mapilitan kang maging ibang tao para lang ma tanggap ka nila
ako pwede naman hehee.....sila ....at lhat dito hehehe :-*
Quote from: arthur_allen30 on November 02, 2011, 01:06:09 PM
ako pwede naman hehee.....sila ....at lhat dito hehehe :-*
tama! kaya shot shot na yan 8)
naks nagseseryoso si bajuy hindi bagay wahahaha :D
suggest ko always smile...
Quote from: angelo on October 11, 2011, 11:05:48 PM
You dont need to be friends with them. Just be casual. =)
sa tingin ko tama 'to....
i felt the same nung nag shift ako ng course tapos yung mga classmates ko parang hindi willing to meet other people kasi may sari sarili na silang barkada.... after some time, i got to know some of them and we became friends. just be yourself young man! ;)
Befriend your professors :D Get their attention. Always be punctual to your classes and dont skip lectures.
makisama lang.
sa mga maliliit lang na conversations nagsisimula yan.
you dont need to be friends with them, but having friends will definitely be a big help-especially during tests. 8)
Quote from: Mr.Yos0 on December 21, 2011, 08:51:49 PM
makisama lang.
sa mga maliliit lang na conversations nagsisimula yan.
you dont need to be friends with them, but having friends will definitely be a big help-especially during tests. 8)
i remember back then in college, pag me exam eh ang daming ka-textmate. hahaha!!
maging open lang wag mahiya maging confident pero di mayabang matutong makinig wag makipagsapawan give and take lang magpakatotoo at wag maging judgmental at higit sa lahat makisama ng tunay yun walang hidden agenda
tama...just be a friend first...kahit di sa marami ... di naman maganda yung maraming best friend dapat a handful lang..
Ba natural lang bro. Kung talagang magkakaroon ka ng lalaking kaibigan, mangyayari yun. Siguro sa ngayon, hindi pa lang dumadating yung pagkakataon.
start with small talks kasi dun ka magkakaron ng idea sa personality ng tao sa paligid mo, dun ka rin magkakaron ng hint kung gusto ka nila maging kaibigan. small talks leads to long conversations and eventually, friendship :D
yap minsan nga kahit listening lang malaking bagay na....
KAMI PWEDE MO NAMN LAHAT MAGING FRIENDS KAYA NGA MAY PGG TO KNOW THE IDEAS AND KNOW EACH OTHER :))
THUMBS UP
Cheers!
Quote from: Isamu on June 28, 2012, 04:46:47 PM
KAMI PWEDE MO NAMN LAHAT MAGING FRIENDS KAYA NGA MAY PGG TO KNOW THE IDEAS AND KNOW EACH OTHER :))
THUMBS UP
Cheers!
Pwede!
pero sabi dun sa isang thread,imposible daw magkaruon ng kaibigan dito..
pero sabi dun sa isang thread,imposible daw magkaruon ng kaibigan dito..
hmm.. ganito kase yan.. me mga nagiging magkakaaibigan dito.. pero iilan o wala ang nagtatagal.
ahh..
tama nga naman.
weh dami na kaya namin magkakaibigan dito sa PGG naka book na nga flight namin para sa bakasyon eh, pero honestly ganyan din ako dati medyo may pag aalinlangan din ako pumunta sa mga eb, I don't know what to expect kasi pero once you meet them ok sila kasama.
pwede naman ako chong.
pwede rin ako :)) pd ding text mate bwahahaha pag may vacant time ngalang kasi most of the time busy sa study
ako diN pwedeng ka'txtmate.. pag weekends nga lang
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nung nasa capones island kami with Jude_law and incognito
^ may pictures???
problema q din 2... prang indi kc aq mkarelate s iba especially kung computer games and sports n ung pinaguusapan... hirap din kc aq mkpag conversation s ibang tao... prang npakalaking task skin un n ptuloy qng iniisip ung dapat qng sbhin at gwin mas lalo n kpag indi q kilala...
ang hirap talaga pag baguhan pre!,edi makipag usap ka sa kanila lalo sa katabi mo,kung okay mag open ka ng something's weird haha!,oyan kung saan saan na mapupunta ang kwentuhan nyo ng katabi mo,Dota? di rin ako mahilig dyan,ahmm.... try mong sumama paturo ka?or kahit anong social sites,basta kasama ka sa kanila pag nag ne-net,pag niyaya sama agad! (basta good) hehe ayun lang be friendly lang pre,ako kasi pumipili ng kakausapin ko
Quote from: dansantos44 on July 06, 2012, 12:56:03 PM
problema q din 2... prang indi kc aq mkarelate s iba especially kung computer games and sports n ung pinaguusapan... hirap din kc aq mkpag conversation s ibang tao... prang npakalaking task skin un n ptuloy qng iniisip ung dapat qng sbhin at gwin mas lalo n kpag indi q kilala...
i think may mga personalities tayo that makes us distinct to others so di naman kailangang baguhin ..just be honest and sincere and maappreciate naman tayo ng mga taong nakakakilala sa atin ng lubos
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nung nasa capones island kami with Jude_law and incognito
nice!! nature tripping hehehe
nc ah ang linis
tweet me then...
mahirap talagang makisama lalo na pag puro love life pinaguusapan, o kaya dota, online games, o kaya inuman. try to be open and show your true self. siguro yun puwede na. i actually prefer female friends, they really care. :P
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nung nasa capones island kami with Jude_law and incognito
nice!! nature tripping hehehe
ang ganda nmn jn.. kelan yn? my gnyn b activity d2 sa pgg? kelan ult? pasama kmi hehe
oh... Zambales.
Pwede bang sa Nora's magstay? harhar
Inom lang ng Tetrahydrocannabinol.
SAGADA!
anong sagada.... ot lang hehe
Quote from: marvinofthefaintsmile on October 08, 2012, 10:44:04 AM
Inom lang ng Tetrahydrocannabinol.
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sagada!
Quote from: jamapi on August 25, 2012, 11:50:05 AM
mahirap talagang makisama lalo na pag puro love life pinaguusapan, o kaya dota, online games, o kaya inuman. try to be open and show your true self. siguro yun puwede na. i actually prefer female friends, they really care. :P
weee? nagsalita oh bakit di nyo ba pinaguusapan ang dota imposible namn mahirapan kapang pag usapan ang dota eh adik ka dyan LOL
nakakarelate ako dito, wala din akong close na kaibigang lalaki kaya minsan pag im in the group di ako makasabay sa usapan nila.
Try to blend. Makisama ka sa una. Habang lalo mo silang nakakasama mas makakakita ka ng common interest nyo at makakakita ka ng connection aside from dota. Kelangan mo lang maging open. :)
Yun nga e,minsan kasi mapride ako pag di na ako kinakausap d na din ako kikibo..pero anyway, tama kelangn ko nga mag bigay ng time para makasama sila para makaconnect ako.
isang pagpapala ang makakita ng mga kaibigang tapat at totoo! nawa matanggap natin ito!
yeah!!
lets make guy friends! PM me :D
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Gusto ko ding mag karoon ng friends na lalake, kakasawas kasi kapag puro kayo babae puro plastikan at issue XD Sana makahanap ako dito sa Pinoy Guy Guide forum kahit ka kwentuhan lang.
I'm just a pm away :)
Quote from: jamapi on August 25, 2012, 11:50:05 AM
mahirap talagang makisama lalo na pag puro love life pinaguusapan, o kaya dota, online games, o kaya inuman. try to be open and show your true self. siguro yun puwede na. i actually prefer female friends, they really care. :P
Dota, love life, online games at chaka usapang basketball lalu na yung napanuod sa tv naku out of place ako nganga parati tangu lang ng tangu. Pero atleast sa COC at inuman nakakasabay ako. :) :) :)
if you want a friendly naughty posh guy friend, oh yes - PM me.
I want!
After reading this, I got inspired to write a PGG blog post. :)
Here you go.
http://www.pinoyguyguide.com/2016/03/why-it-is-hard-for-guys-to-make-new-male-friends-and-what-to-do-about-it.html#comments
I feel the same way bro. Tho may kaibigan din naman akong mga lalaki. Most of my guy classmates puro dota/lol pinaguusapan pag free time. Wala akong maintindihan dun hahahaha
Most of the people admires more of the personality than the attitude of one particular person. This is not just applicable when looking for a partner but also when looking for a relationship (e.g. Friends). To make it short, just be true to youself and to other people.
Hindi mo kailangang gumawa ng bagay para magustuhan ka ng iba.
Kindness, sincerity and honesty are enough to established a good relationship to others. Maybe you woudn't know, hindi lang pala barkada at tropa ang makikilala mo baka makakilala ka din ng bestfriend
Sama ako! Let us be guy friends for keeps!
Wensha na ba yan? Haha