First thing na ginawa mo?
Have you cried over that situation?
syempre magagalit din ako sa umpisa pero matatanggap ko rin yun eventually, pero di gagawin ng dad ko yun,, wala syang means lolz..
sure na di nagloloko or it is done discreetly?
Pro may iba kasi na magaling magtago and knows how to handle...
@ kilo 1000: you're lucky!
@kilo 1000: how do you make them suffer, in what ways?
@ junjaporms: what if maging bisyo na...
d naman pweding pabayaan na gawin nya nang paulit ulit dba... parang sobra na ata yun!
we should be vigilant, do the right move, protect our family!
@junjaporms:
I thought you're lucky, to have a committed father around you!
Good Bless!
MARAMI NA RING NAGING KABET TATAY KO(2) PATI RIN NANAY KO(4)...
HAHAHAHA......
OKAY LANG, BUHAY NILA YUN EH....
MERONG TIMES NA NALULUNGKOT AKO DAHIL SA BUYSIT NA TO....
PERO NUON YUN.....
NGAUN DINADAAN KO NALANG SA TAWA.....
AND CLOSE NAMAN AKO SA MADRASTA KO.....
BASTA GANUN...... BAHALA SILA KUNG ANU MANG GAWIN NILA....
SABI NGA NILA "WALANG BASAGAN NG TRIP"
;D ;D ;D ;D ;D ;D ;D ;D ;D ;D
@ deathmike:
interesting ung story mo...still its their game not ours, pro nakaka badtrip! hehehe
been there... wala na tatay ko, patay na.
anyway, to make the long story short... meron xa 2 kabits... at meron mga anak sa each kabit. i didn't cry over the situation, but it sure made me ask why. never ko pa na-meet mga "half siblings" ko... and i don't know what to do if i get the chance to... i don't even have plans of meeting them or crossing paths with them. not being bitter or anything, it's just that para saan pa?
i, thank you.
Quote from: mangkulas03 on January 10, 2010, 12:56:12 AM
been there... wala na tatay ko, patay na.
anyway, to make the long story short... meron xa 2 kabits... at meron mga anak sa each kabit. i didn't cry over the situation, but it sure made me ask why. never ko pa na-meet mga "half siblings" ko... and i don't know what to do if i get the chance to... i don't even have plans of meeting them or crossing paths with them. not being bitter or anything, it's just that para saan pa?
i, thank you.
pareha tayo ng situation, masama lng ang loob ko sa tatay ko!
^@jeku
alam mo? hindi dapat. pero i know that it would also take time to forgive or to not be bitter about it. although meron xa iba, it doesn't change the fact na tatay mo siya at siya ang dahilan kung bakit ka nasa mundo. try to forgive as early as now. hindi naman mahirap. believe me. when i learned to forgive, it was already too late.
ang tatay ko may kabit noon pero i really dont care. hindi cya naging tatay ko since elemtary ako. gusto ko nga maghiwalay na sila ng mama ko until at gusto din ng mama ko maghiwalay na sila at ang kapatid ko din. >:(
@mangkulas03:
sabi ng tito ko ganyan daw ang gagawin ko, e hanggang ngaun e meron pa cyang kabit ... papaano hahantong sa pagpapatawad if kung ginagawa nya pa rin ang pagkakaroon ng kabit, dba? Open naman ako sa possibilities e, im not closing my doors to this ... pro d ko lng matangap ang situation.
sad naman nito.
hindi ko alam. baka meron pero pag sinusukat ko naman tatay ko, mukhang hindi na mahilig kasi bihira na lumabas di gaya dati madalas lumabas tapos amoy alkohol pag-uwi.
Quote from: jeku on January 11, 2010, 06:00:57 PM
@mangkulas03:
sabi ng tito ko ganyan daw ang gagawin ko, e hanggang ngaun e meron pa cyang kabit ... papaano hahantong sa pagpapatawad if kung ginagawa nya pa rin ang pagkakaroon ng kabit, dba? Open naman ako sa possibilities e, im not closing my doors to this ... pro d ko lng matangap ang situation.
well, ang akin lang... kung papatawarin mo xa at ganun pa din xa, sa tingin mo ba nasayo pa ang problema? at kung ganun sya, may magagawa ka pa ba? lastly, (knock on wood) hihintayin mo pa ba na mamatay xa bago magpatawad?
yun lang ay aking opinyon lamang... :)
KAWAWA NAMAN TAYO MGA TSONG....
HAHAHAHA.....
PERO AYOS DIN YUN KASE MARAME KAME MAGKAKAPATID...
;D ;D ;D ;D ;D
Quote from: mangkulas03 on January 11, 2010, 11:47:02 PM
Quote from: jeku on January 11, 2010, 06:00:57 PM
@mangkulas03:
sabi ng tito ko ganyan daw ang gagawin ko, e hanggang ngaun e meron pa cyang kabit ... papaano hahantong sa pagpapatawad if kung ginagawa nya pa rin ang pagkakaroon ng kabit, dba? Open naman ako sa possibilities e, im not closing my doors to this ... pro d ko lng matangap ang situation.
well, ang akin lang... kung papatawarin mo xa at ganun pa din xa, sa tingin mo ba nasayo pa ang problema? at kung ganun sya, may magagawa ka pa ba? lastly, (knock on wood) hihintayin mo pa ba na mamatay xa bago magpatawad?
yun lang ay aking opinyon lamang... :)
Bago ko lng nalaman yung mga extra marital affairs nya... then medyo d ko pa tanggap ang situation, ok sana pag isa lng, mapapalampas ko pa, kaso excessive na yung mga ginagawa nya. Tpos d ko matanggap na meron siyang anak sa labas, yun lng!
dear charo ( ba ito? ) peace!
seriousness noted:
if more than two thats too much already.
^^ darkstar, it's ok to confess...,
hmm... i think wala namang kabit si tatay..,
merong kabit si lolo.. pero ok nmn kame ng mistress nya.,
me kabit c tito.. pero yoko xa pautangin. kapal muks.
me kabit c tita. pero don't care aq sa kaniya.,
^^I can relate.
My dad had a mistress. He was kicked out of the house for like 2 years, and I was still in high school then.
I brought the role of being the "man" of the house to myself at 14 years old. After all, I was the eldest guy that remained at home.
But to cut the story short, my mom welcomed him back. They have sort of reconciled. But they never slept in the same room again. And they never had the same "trusting" relationship again. But they're civil.
Pero sa akin? di pa. I've never brought it up with him. And I'm seeing my behavior towards him is not very nice.
I am aware of this, and how biased my treatment to him is. After all, galit talaga ako sa kanya nuon. Pero I just have to forgive him, and forget the past. There's no use crying over spilled milk. After all, parang alam naman niya maling ginawa niya.
i remember.. dati prang me ganitong away ang mga parents ko.., and that my father was jealous about someone.. then after all that shouting.. they had sex.., Duh?! weird parents..
Quote from: Luc on February 21, 2011, 11:02:25 AM
^^I can relate.
My dad had a mistress. He was kicked out of the house for like 2 years, and I was still in high school then.
I brought the role of being the "man" of the house to myself at 14 years old. After all, I was the eldest guy that remained at home.
But to cut the story short, my mom welcomed him back. They have sort of reconciled. But they never slept in the same room again. And they never had the same "trusting" relationship again. But they're civil.
Pero sa akin? di pa. I've never brought it up with him. And I'm seeing my behavior towards him is not very nice.
I am aware of this, and how biased my treatment to him is. After all, galit talaga ako sa kanya nuon. Pero I just have to forgive him, and forget the past. There's no use crying over spilled milk. After all, parang alam naman niya maling ginawa niya.
sad naman Luc.. Well, perhaps I couldn't really blame you of having some tensions with your father..,
Quote from: marvinofthefaintsmile on February 21, 2011, 11:32:03 AM
sad naman Luc.. Well, perhaps I couldn't really blame you of having some tensions with your father..,
Oo kahit alam ko dapat din ako mag-iba ... mag-adjust ... pero mahirap.
Bago siya pinabalik sa amin, may sinama siya na 1year old isang araw sa bahay. Ipinakilala niya ito sa akin as - my brother... -_-
^^^I know it's tempting to run away from situations. Pero I'm old enough to deal with this. Not old enough to deal with myself, though.
^^ well.. we are talking about life in here.. be happy n lng na u have a new brother..,
nice share darkstar. Thanks. I just felt lucky I did not experience that.
Ako, if meron man kabit ang tatay, I don't care. As long as he comes home with my mom and with the same amount of money given to her every month nung wala pang kabit ;D no issue for me hehehe
d mo naman masasabi na "I dont care" youre in that situation...seeing youre mother cry in front of you...digesting the situation...etc...mahirap at first...
Quote from: marvinofthefaintsmile on February 21, 2011, 11:29:01 AM
i remember.. dati prang me ganitong away ang mga parents ko.., and that my father was jealous about someone.. then after all that shouting.. they had sex.., Duh?! weird parents..
that's not really strange.
oh. and my mom IS the kabit.
deep breath muna... hehe... there are things na nangyayari sa buhay natin ... sa parents natin na di natin totally naiintindihan... bakit nambabae ang tatay or may iba ang nanay... kids talaga ang nag su suffer but at the end of the day .we have our own life to live...we just have to extend our forgiveness sa kanila and learn from theor mistakes... bitterness and anger will not help specially pag pinatatagal natin...tayo rin ang mahihirapan...lets just hope and pray na di tayo makagawa ng ganung pagkakamali balang araw o kung makagawa man matutunan din nating patawarin mang ating mga sarili
^may pinaghuhugutan?
di naman.. malawak lang ang pang unawa ko dito hehe
I remember a friend telling me, kahit anak ka nila wala ka pa ring karapatan kwestyunin kung anong mga nangyari noon. You weren't there and you aren't them. Live your own life.