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marami yang ganyan
katulong nmin kung umasta anak cya ng amo or kamaganak nmin kapal ng muka.
wait.. anong identity ba ang tinutukoy mo kya J?
gender identity crisis...
kasi may nabasa ko sa isang article sa newspaper kanina...
ok lang yan... sabi nga ng psychiatrist ng kakilala ko lahat ng tao may possibility na magka.identity crisis..
sa tingin ko lahat ng tao meron..
Quote from: gslide on November 14, 2008, 07:46:19 PM
marami yang ganyan
katulong nmin kung umasta anak cya ng amo or kamaganak nmin kapal ng muka.
wicked!
back in Tigger woods.. Me isa aqng naging closest friend whom is taga-victory din.. Then on one of our thousand talks eh na-admit nya n nagkaron xa ng "Identity Crisis".. However, dq natanong kung anu ba ito? gender or position..
Kyo guys, anu b unang pumapsok sa icp nyo pag sinabing identity crisis?
ang pumapasok sa isip ko eh gender agad. haha.
pero sabi nga sa theory ni Erik Erikson may mga developmental tasks (conflicts) ang tao na kelangan masolve every stage ng buhay nya. sa adolescent stage, identity versus role confusion. identity crisis is the failure to achieve ego identity during adolescence.
During this stage of adolescence, we are faced with physical growth, sexual maturation, and integrating our ideas of ourselves and about what others think of us. We form our self-image and endure the task of resolving the crisis of our basic ego identity. Successful resolution of the crisis depends on one's progress through previous developmental stages, centering on issues such as trust, autonomy, and initiative.
anyway. this friend of mine has a gf nman (although siya ang sumagot sa girl). Nung pa-start p lng ang pagkkibigan nmin eh me mga "hints" aq n npnsin bout him..
- Nakwento siya na natukso siyang bakla nung high school or elementary xa dahil sa kaputian niya.
- Minsan nung asa elevator kame ng CG eh napansin qng hinihimas nya ang braso q at naka-smile xa. Agad q xang sinuway at nagbehave nman siya ever since.
- Malihim siya. Prang kabaliktaran q. Hinde siya makwento bout his life.
- Volleyball lng ang hobby nya.
- Prang hinde siya comfy to change clothes with me pag mag-ggym attire kme. For me eh its really nothing. Not a big deal
- Wala siyang mabigay sakin na matinong sagot pag meron aqng mga topics na nireraise sa knya.
ok nmn xa sakn.. pero nahiwagaan lng aq sa personality nya..
Quote from: marvinofthefaintsmile on November 17, 2010, 02:38:34 PM
anyway. this friend of mine has a gf nman (although siya ang sumagot sa girl). Nung pa-start p lng ang pagkkibigan nmin eh me mga "hints" aq n npnsin bout him..
- Nakwento siya na natukso siyang bakla nung high school or elementary xa dahil sa kaputian niya.
- Minsan nung asa elevator kame ng CG eh napansin qng hinihimas nya ang braso q at naka-smile xa. Agad q xang sinuway at nagbehave nman siya ever since.
- Malihim siya. Prang kabaliktaran q. Hinde siya makwento bout his life.
- Volleyball lng ang hobby nya.
- Prang hinde siya comfy to change clothes with me pag mag-ggym attire kme. For me eh its really nothing. Not a big deal
- Wala siyang mabigay sakin na matinong sagot pag meron aqng mga topics na nireraise sa knya.
ok nmn xa sakn.. pero nahiwagaan lng aq sa personality nya..
- Malihim siya. Prang kabaliktaran q. Hinde siya makwento bout his life.
- Volleyball lng ang hobby nya.
- Prang hinde siya comfy to change clothes with me pag mag-ggym attire kme. For me eh its really nothing. Not a big deal
so kung may mga ganitong situation, what are you trying to tell about the person???
^^ I'm trying to understand the way he thinks using yor feedback. At least I have a hint.
hint na?
Wat r ur inputs to it? What can u say bout it? So ram, nu mssabe mo?
i think base dun sa instances na ni-list ko, it doesn't define the person of who he is. I need to know the person first before I can say anything.
I have a lot of experiences with my people wherein they tend to judge people first at a first glance and I always advise them not to build a person's reputation/personality based on your first impressions coz a lot of times its not what we think.
Benefit of the doubt palagi and let them prove themselves na what you think of them is not true
Hmm.. Ganito sobrng malihim Nya na parang generic type ang personality Nya. Pero xa ung naig close q sa work because we share the same church. Pero prang kbaliktaran xa ni fox kc sobrng me
laman ay precise ung mga reply nya.. Dq nmn magets ung reply ng close friend q n un. Ewan qb bka off topic na2. Uwe naq.
Naderail ung thread..
So back on topic..
So pag sinbing "Identity Crisis" eh generally eh gender related ito?
yup. alone lng kame sa elevator at gnwa nya un out of nowhere.. Hmm.. honestly, I dont feel violated.. Prang I was like "Quit it out." lng. He didnt say something.. Mejo naweirdohan lng aq sa mga approach nya kc xa lng gumawa nun sakn.
binuhay ang katawang lupa ang topic na ito.
this IDENTITY CRISIS talks about the SEXUALITY of a person.
;D
I see. Satisfy naq sa reply mo Jon.
Maraming may identity crisi pag sexuality ang pinag uusapan. Kaso ung iba, alam na talaga nila, hindi lang nila mataggap or alam na nila kaso ayaw ipaalam sa iba.
Hi Zhuchiko
Welcome to PGG! 8)
salamat po kuya ram. :D
newbie na newbie lang ako dito. hehehe.
Quote from: Zhuchiko on November 18, 2010, 10:25:10 PM
salamat po kuya ram. :D
newbie na newbie lang ako dito. hehehe.
welcome ka dito sa PGG! :)
Quote from: MaRfZ on November 18, 2010, 10:26:10 PM
Quote from: Zhuchiko on November 18, 2010, 10:25:10 PM
salamat po kuya ram. :D
newbie na newbie lang ako dito. hehehe.
welcome ka dito sa PGG! :)
Thanks po ng marami.. :)
Quote from: Zhuchiko on November 18, 2010, 09:38:55 PM
Maraming may identity crisi pag sexuality ang pinag uusapan. Kaso ung iba, alam na talaga nila, hindi lang nila mataggap or alam na nila kaso ayaw ipaalam sa iba.
Hmm, make sense.. hmm..
ala ai-ai na line yan fox.
pag ang tingin ng isang tao sa isang tao ay parang higit pa sa aso...
ayan! nahanap ko yung favorite topic ni ram!
Quote from: marvinofthefaintsmile on November 18, 2010, 11:51:58 AM
yup. alone lng kame sa elevator at gnwa nya un out of nowhere.. Hmm.. honestly, I dont feel violated.. Prang I was like "Quit it out." lng. He didnt say something.. Mejo naweirdohan lng aq sa mga approach nya kc xa lng gumawa nun sakn.
Ano yung ginawa n'ya out of nowhere? :)
Quote from: elmer0224 on July 18, 2013, 10:38:31 AM
Quote from: marvinofthefaintsmile on November 18, 2010, 11:51:58 AM
yup. alone lng kame sa elevator at gnwa nya un out of nowhere.. Hmm.. honestly, I dont feel violated.. Prang I was like "Quit it out." lng. He didnt say something.. Mejo naweirdohan lng aq sa mga approach nya kc xa lng gumawa nun sakn.
Ano yung ginawa n'ya out of nowhere? :)
hinimas-himas nya ang braso ko while looking straight into my eyes with a smile on his face. wala akong naramdaman sa ganung instance at sinuway ko na lang sya. last year i think, he got married na with his long time girlfriend (10 yrs+).
wow.
ang binuhay nyo ang topic nato.
salamat.
ngayon nasa singapore na sya.. i wonder kung meron syang "hinihimas-himas" dun at baka nagsisimula na din na magmatyag ang kanyang asawa..
anu ba yen.
sinetch?