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Title: Should you always listen to your parents?
Post by: david on May 31, 2011, 10:30:58 AM
Should you always listen to your parents? Are they always right?
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Post by: marvinofthefaintsmile on May 31, 2011, 10:35:06 AM
nope.

my parents told not to invite friends at home because they will steal things sa bahay.. I dont belive them..
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Post by: darkstar13 on May 31, 2011, 12:42:48 PM
YES, listen lang naman, hindi mo naman sinabing follow.

Listening to your parents will not only make them feel important, it will also provide you with good insights at times, all of which are brought about by experience.
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Post by: darkstar13 on May 31, 2011, 12:52:29 PM
hmm. mejo exception yata ng parents mo marvin ;)
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Post by: marvinofthefaintsmile on May 31, 2011, 12:54:30 PM
^^I remember my father got pissed off kase kinorek q xa.. Hehehehe.. Well, kung sa bgay parent xa and parents are absolute correct. Ikaw ba namn eh punahin ng anak mo eh.. xempre mag-iinarte ang pride mo..

@E: Yeah.. pero nung nakilala ko ung mga parents ni K.. I said to myself.. my parents are a lot better.. Hehehehe!
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Post by: darkstar13 on May 31, 2011, 12:57:00 PM
naku, kawawa naman pala si K mo. at ang best friend mo kung ganun.. tsk tsk..
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Post by: marvinofthefaintsmile on May 31, 2011, 01:02:48 PM
mejo paranoid lang ang mga parents q.. plus pakialamero/mera at selfish. Pero mabubuti nman sila.. Its jsut that they dont care about anybody else except ung family friends nila. (the family of my mom's best friend. <-- Sila lang ung nakakapasok sa bahay..)

@E: Pero mahal nmn nila xempre c Nanay <--nakiki-Nanay aq. Sinabi nmn nila iyon sa kin ('Si Mama, mahal ko').. Kasabay ng daing na 'puro problema dito' at 'gusto ko na ngang magbigte eh'. Yung mga ganung banat. Kya its gud n dn n ng pakasal ung best friend q kc masmasaya xa dun. Its beter na magkayakap kyo ng asawa mo habang nanonood ng tv kesa dun sa bahay nila na pinaggalitan xa ng mom nya. Pingalitan xa ulet nung umuwe xa s bhay kase birthday ni Tatay <--nakikitatay aq. Ngyn eh me tampuhan ang nanay at tatay.. pero hopefully, ayus n n un ngyon.

Hinde dn kc nagpipigil c Nanay kahit na andun aq.. Like sinisigawan c K at sinasampal.. At wala aqng magawa.. Hinde ko pwedeng awayin ang Nanay ni K.. Patay aq pag ganun..
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Post by: darkstar13 on May 31, 2011, 01:11:22 PM
nakakatakot nga ang nanay nila kung ganun ;(
kahit sino naman siguro walang magagawa, maybe yung tatay na lang nila
mahirap ngang panuorin na sinasampal si K sa harap mo ;(

o well. ganun talaga ang buhay.
Title: Re: Should you always listen to your parents?
Post by: maykel on May 31, 2011, 02:25:20 PM
On topic:

For me it is still yes. As a sign of respect.:)
makikinig ka lang naman, nasa sa iyo pa din naman yun kung susundin mo or hindi kung ano man ang sasabihin nila.
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Post by: arthur_allen30 on May 31, 2011, 02:40:13 PM
I agree...
walang mawawala sa iyo if
you listen to them....
but if it's about making
decisions..depende..
try mo din na
i-consider your point of
view nila....pero sa huli
kaw pa rin ang magdedesisyon...

 ;D ;D ;D
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Post by: joshgroban on May 31, 2011, 10:20:59 PM
yap listening is different from obeying
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Post by: bajuy on May 31, 2011, 10:26:12 PM
yes.. dahil mas alam nila kesa sa atin.

mahirap naman mag marunong kasi di mo pa naman na experience eh
so makinig na lang sa kanila since they know the best for their kids
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Post by: vortex on June 01, 2011, 06:50:12 AM
YES, listen lang naman, hindi mo naman sinabing follow.

Listening to your parents will not only make them feel important, it will also provide you with good insights at times, all of which are brought about by experience.
natuwa ako sa sagot na ito, medyo pilosopo but it makes sense. Ganito rin ang sagot ko.hehehe.
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Post by: darkstar13 on June 01, 2011, 07:23:11 AM
^^ hehe. ;) mukhang mejo magkaugali siguro tayo. pareho rin tayo sa random things eh
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Post by: vortex on June 01, 2011, 07:53:12 AM
^^^siguro nga...hahah...
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Post by: marvinofthefaintsmile on June 01, 2011, 07:54:21 AM
nakaka-apek sakn ung childhood history ko kaya mejo hinde aq nakikinig sa mga parents q.. though it happened long ago pero still.. pwede pa dn xang maging basehan.. Pero recently.. mom becomes kinder to me.. Siguro dahil her favorite son.. my kuya impregnated his gf and it is now on live-in. they now have a daughter with abs. However.. it seems I dont need that extra kindness my mom is giving me... I need it when I was young.. I dont need it now.. Pero it is still considered as ' good to have'.
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Post by: joshgroban on August 04, 2011, 03:34:33 PM
ang alam ko kasi if you honor your parents...it adds long life... ito lang ang commandment na may promise
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Post by: talakitok88 on August 11, 2011, 08:36:34 PM
hindi lagi
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Post by: MaRfZ on September 01, 2011, 12:51:45 AM
"Children, obey your parents in
everything, for this pleases the Lord.."

...ako pasaway madalas pero narealize ko na tama yun mga advices sakin ng dad ko ng nawala na sya.
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Post by: alternative09 on September 01, 2011, 12:53:58 AM
yes.. :D;D

uhmm..sige na nga.. 80% yes... :D;D
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Post by: joshgroban on September 22, 2011, 08:21:23 AM
clarify ko lang listening doesnt mean always obeying... pag malaki ka na advice na lang talaga marereceive mo sa kanila kasi mas alam mo na ang situation mo ...importante you honor them...kahit ayaw mo silang sundin sa payo nila....wag mo silang sagutin ng pabalang... i learned it from experience....
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Post by: judE_Law on September 22, 2011, 12:55:25 PM
clarify ko lang listening doesnt mean always obeying... pag malaki ka na advice na lang talaga marereceive mo sa kanila kasi mas alam mo na ang situation mo ...importante you honor them...kahit ayaw mo silang sundin sa payo nila....wag mo silang sagutin ng pabalang... i learned it from experience....

agree!!
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Post by: pinoybrusko on December 18, 2011, 08:54:23 PM
Should you always listen to your parents? Are they always right?

depende yan sa age ng taong sasagot. Usually pag bata ka pa you always do since you don't have someone to teach you things that are good and bad but only parents.

But as you grow up, nagkakaisip ka na and you decide on your own. It means, you already know what is right and not for you. Your decision depends on how you are molded in those early years. Kaya minsan may maeencounter ka baluktot ang principles and paniniwala dahil mali ang pagpapalaki sa kanila.

root cause ng problem will bring back to the parents, sad to say  :(
Title: Re: Should you always listen to your parents?
Post by: masarapangspaghetti on December 18, 2011, 11:34:17 PM
If you are confident with yourself and you trust your guts, I think you shouldn't always obey your parents. Otherwise, their advice most probably will benefit you rather than give an adverse outcome.
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Post by: vir on January 16, 2012, 01:34:38 AM
yes! pero nasa sayo pa rin ang desisyon, at pag nagdesisyon ka..wag mo kalimutan iconsider ang payo ng parents mo..

ikaw na bahala magtimbang sa sarili mo kung susundin mo ba parents mo o hindi..at kung sinunod mo man ang parents mo at nagkamali ka in the end dapat wag rin natin isisisi sa parents kung di man naging maganda ang resulta dahil wala naman makakapagsabi kung ano ang kahihinatnan ng mga pangyayari.
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Post by: enzoafterdark on January 17, 2012, 11:29:42 AM
it never hurts to listen  :D

napanood nyo na ba yun diary of a wimpy kid? <related yun sa topic>
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Post by: pong on January 20, 2012, 02:19:06 PM
ikaw ang titimbang ng sasabihin ng mga parents mo. kung sa tingin mo, mas alam nila ang sinasabi nila, at mas tama sila sa pananaw mo: pakinggan mo. wag mo na lang sagutin nang pabalang kasi kabastos-bastos yun. (ako, sinusuwag ko lang pero hindi ibig sabihin nun hindi ko pinakinggan)
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Post by: geo on January 20, 2012, 02:22:12 PM
this is a sensitive issue... I will just reserve my comment... :p
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Post by: alrafa on January 28, 2012, 09:19:20 PM
Parents are also human. So they can't be always right.
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Post by: maykel on January 30, 2012, 01:04:40 PM
this is a sensitive issue... I will just reserve my comment... :p
hmmm... napaisip tuloy ako sa kung ano ang icocomment ni geo...
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Post by: incognito on January 30, 2012, 01:15:28 PM
listen to what they have to say. bilang respeto sa kanila. pero kaw gumawa ng desisyon na sa tingin mo ay tama para sayo.
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Post by: enzoafterdark on January 31, 2012, 12:59:40 AM
it never hurts to listen plus you made the other person feel good  ;)
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Post by: marvinofthefaintsmile on February 09, 2012, 09:20:44 AM
naalala q 2loy nung nanligaw ako sa isang poor girl..

disagree ang parents ko kase dapat daw eh humanap ako ng kalevel ko..

and i guess, eh they were right.. pag poor girl kase eh hinde maayos kumilos.. nanlalalake, nagsisinungaling, tamad, magaling maglaba, cheap ang ingredients na gingamit sa pagluluto, inutil, at walang silbe. mahilig pang makinig ng mga pinoy rap songs.. ok lang sana kung andrew e songs..
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Post by: incognito on February 09, 2012, 11:43:24 AM
^big time talaga si marvin. pero di naman lahat ng mahirap marvin ganyan. madaming mayaman na ganyan din ugali. di maayos kumilos, nagsisinungaling, tamad, magaling maglaba....  madaming mayaman na ugaling iskwater.   may mga kilala ako na di galing sa buena familia, mahirap,  pero mas maayos pa ang social graces nila kesa sa mga ibang mayayaman na nakadaupang palad ko na.  sabi nga nila, money can't buy you class. :)
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Post by: enzoafterdark on February 09, 2012, 02:41:15 PM
^ tama din nagkataon lang siguro yun marv and nakakagulat hikahos na sa buhay tamad pa ang alam ko yun mga may less yun ang nagsusumikap eh

panalo ata talaga yun chick kaya tyinaga ni marv eh  ;)
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Post by: marvinofthefaintsmile on February 10, 2012, 10:42:25 AM
^ tama din nagkataon lang siguro yun marv and nakakagulat hikahos na sa buhay tamad pa ang alam ko yun mga may less yun ang nagsusumikap eh

panalo ata talaga yun chick kaya tyinaga ni marv eh  ;)

aba'y panalong-panalo! palong-palo pa!! hinde ako papasok sa isang relasyon na alam kong talo ako.. Hinde kase sakin importante kung matalino ka o mayaman.. (i already have those). basta maganda at seksi, that's enough. anyway, ako nmn ang mag-gguide along the way eh..
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Post by: maykel on February 10, 2012, 12:44:23 PM
Just posting para hindi madivert yung usapan sa ibang topic (which I assume na mangyayari)...

I still stand on my first post here. We should always listen to our parents to pay respect but the decision is still up to us. I don't want naman kasi na mag end up na yung mga magiging anak ko eh hindi marunong mag pay ng respect sa parents nila.
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Post by: bobbylost on June 25, 2012, 02:37:01 PM
Absolutely. You should always listen. No matter how young or old you are. Hindi mo sila maiintindihan kung hindi mo sila pakikinggan. Pero, it doesn't mean na you will follow lahat ng sasabihin nila. You have to listen, understand and then tsaka mo timbangin yung sinasabi nila. Pero kung medyo bata ka pa, let say high school, as much as possible makining ka muna and sumunod sa kanila. Pag college ka na, that's the right time siguro na medyo matutuo ka rin magdecide para sa sarili mo basta huwag mawawala ng respect sa parents.
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Post by: joshgroban on June 27, 2012, 11:55:33 PM
yap listening naman is different sa obeying right?
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Post by: bobbylost on June 29, 2012, 01:48:05 AM
yap listening naman is different sa obeying right?
Correct brader!
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Post by: geo on June 29, 2012, 09:25:24 AM
makinig kayo kay monch.... siya ang makakasagot nito being a parent.
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Post by: Peps on June 29, 2012, 01:43:37 PM
naalala q 2loy nung nanligaw ako sa isang poor girl..

disagree ang parents ko kase dapat daw eh humanap ako ng kalevel ko..

and i guess, eh they were right.. pag poor girl kase eh hinde maayos kumilos.. nanlalalake, nagsisinungaling, tamad, magaling maglaba, cheap ang ingredients na gingamit sa pagluluto, inutil, at walang silbe. mahilig pang makinig ng mga pinoy rap songs.. ok lang sana kung andrew e songs..

^big time talaga si marvin. pero di naman lahat ng mahirap marvin ganyan. madaming mayaman na ganyan din ugali. di maayos kumilos, nagsisinungaling, tamad, magaling maglaba....  madaming mayaman na ugaling iskwater.   may mga kilala ako na di galing sa buena familia, mahirap,  pero mas maayos pa ang social graces nila kesa sa mga ibang mayayaman na nakadaupang palad ko na.  sabi nga nila, money can't buy you class. :)

Just posting para hindi madivert yung usapan sa ibang topic (which I assume na mangyayari)...

I still stand on my first post here. We should always listen to our parents to pay respect but the decision is still up to us. I don't want naman kasi na mag end up na yung mga magiging anak ko eh hindi marunong mag pay ng respect sa parents nila.

ngayon ko lang nabasa mga post nyo ahh, di bagay ni maykel seryoso lol
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Post by: marvinofthefaintsmile on June 29, 2012, 07:59:23 PM
^kea ngayon eh empleyado na from Finance ang nililigawan ko. So far, click naman kame.. kase ka-level...
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Post by: Peps on June 29, 2012, 11:24:52 PM
well that doesn't mean na mayaman na siya porke empleyado siya sa finance
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Post by: joshgroban on August 23, 2012, 02:25:58 PM
makinig kayo kay monch.... siya ang makakasagot nito being a parent.


hahah kapal mo geo... dami ko pa dapat matutunan
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Post by: Isamu on August 23, 2012, 02:34:50 PM
SUMUSUNOD MINSAN NALNG KASI PARA SA AKIN NASA TAMANG EDAD NA AKO AT ALAM KO NA ANG TAMA AT MALI PERO HINDI LAHAT SYEMPRE MINSAN SUMUSUNOD PARIN AKO SA MAGULANG KO KASI ALAM KO NA FOR MY SAFETY NAMN KASI :D
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Post by: marvinofthefaintsmile on August 23, 2012, 07:38:19 PM
mnsn s buhy, u need 2 mke mistkes just to learn hu u r..
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Post by: Isamu on August 23, 2012, 07:48:25 PM
mnsn s buhy, u need 2 mke mistkes just to learn hu u r..

kaya nga pero di namn nangangahulugan na di mo na need ng advice
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Post by: jelo kid on August 23, 2012, 07:50:21 PM
yes.
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Post by: bobbylost on August 23, 2012, 08:50:13 PM
Siempre naman. Listening doesn't mean following.
Hindi rin ibig sabihin, pasok sa left ear, labas sa kanan. You need to understand whatever they are saying.
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Post by: angelo on August 24, 2012, 03:37:01 PM
almost always, like 95% of the time. I agree with bobbylost above.
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Post by: Isamu on September 26, 2012, 11:46:48 AM
minsan namn kasi need ko parin ang advice nila kahit na nasa tamang edad na ako para mag desisyon sa sarili ko
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Post by: toperyo on September 26, 2012, 05:19:56 PM
Of course i should,parents ko sila....
Tsaka papunta palang ako,pero sila nakaraan na,
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Post by: Isamu on September 28, 2012, 03:54:31 PM
Of course i should,parents ko sila....
Tsaka papunta palang ako,pero sila nakaraan na,

AHAHAHA!! TAMA YUN ANG ADVANTAGE NILA SA ATIN EH
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Post by: joshgroban on September 29, 2012, 07:43:33 AM
listening  doesnt mean  you obey them. kasi may mga parents na feeling nila alam nila lahat.... just be sensitive siguro
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Post by: Lanchie on October 02, 2012, 05:05:56 AM
I remember a quote saying to honor what your parents say not because they are right but because they have already made mistakes in the past.
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Post by: lelouch on December 15, 2012, 10:07:22 PM
I would say yes, gagawin ko most ng sinasabi except kung may ituturo ako sa kapatid kong bata(tuturuan mo nalang dami pa niya reklamo) at kung may kukunin sa baba tapos wala ng tao at nakapatay lahat ng ilaw--> takot ako sa dilim eh
Most ng sinasabi sakin : "mag-ingat ka"(di ako sinasabihan umuwi ng maaga >.<) "mag-aral ng mabuti"
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Post by: joshgroban on January 07, 2013, 08:04:11 AM
good son...
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Post by: Ryker on March 25, 2017, 08:28:29 PM
Amen.
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Post by: jackxtwist on October 02, 2017, 04:09:30 PM
listen lang naman so why not? hahaha
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Post by: den0saur on October 02, 2017, 04:14:09 PM
HAHAHAHAHA NOPE.

Listen, yes. Pero sundin lahat? Nope. Lalo kung nasa edad ka na, decide on your own. Mas ija-judge ko ang magulang mo kung pinalaki ka nilang walang backbone.
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Post by: jackxtwist on October 05, 2017, 06:46:42 PM
^triggered si koya  ;D ;D ;D
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Post by: den0saur on October 05, 2017, 09:21:43 PM
^sakto Iím in that situation now eh. Sarap manermon ng matatanda. Hahahaha
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Post by: bokalto on October 06, 2017, 08:34:42 AM
Hahahahaha!
Boss Den, hahahaha!
Hahahaha!
puro tawa lang.
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Post by: jackxtwist on October 06, 2017, 06:39:18 PM
hmm this made me think. gaano kadalas at kalala ka pag sumagot sa parents mo?
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Post by: den0saur on October 07, 2017, 01:38:18 PM
Both parents were always the mahinahon kind, sa case ko. I did make face and answer back noong teenage years ko pero mabibilang lang sa daliri ng isang kamay ko. I guess mabait lang kasi talaga sila. Tsaka may edad ata talaga na nagdadabog at nagrerebelde ang tao. After nun, okay na kami. We were always treated as mature individuals, lumaki kami respecting them and at the same time close enough to share things with them that other kids wonít normally share.
Example: mom sent a photo of mangoes na pinamitas nila, I replied with a photo of sisig and beer because nag iinom ako that time. She just said hinay hinay and was just cool with it. So wala akong rason talaga to rebel. Hahaha
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Post by: jackxtwist on October 08, 2017, 04:44:00 AM
awww your parents are so nice.

well in my case, combative kasi ako I always have to get what I want. Eh ganun din mama ko. Hahahahaha. I started talking back when my sister came back to our house. Tapos palagi ko sila naririnig ni mama. Hahaha. I have an excuse. Tapos sobrang sumasagot talaga ako kapag alam kong may mali sya o alam kong tama ako at kaya kong gawin yung sinasabi ko. Looking back, I would love to think na na-underestimate ng mama ko ang strong desire for independence ko.  At nakita nya sarili nya sa akin at ayaw nyang gumaya ako sa kanya  something like that.

Nung college ako, we rarely talk. Well I almost did not talk to anyone  in the family naman that time kasi rebel mode. So yeah.
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Post by: miggymontenegro on October 12, 2019, 06:20:35 PM
For me, Yes.
According to the commandments.. we must honor our parents.
Good or bad. Honor your parents.
You are not doing it for your own, u r doing it fo the Lord.
Learn to trust in his plans because God is in control. =)