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[ram013]

gusto ko i-edit yung post para tamang spelling at grammar na. medyo nakakatawa kasi.

haha napaisip tuloy ako sa mga pinopost ko. kung tama ba grammar at spelling ko

sana lahat kaya mag proofread. para wala ng mga jejemon text, text speak, incorrect grammar and typographical and totally misspelled words. medyo masakit talaga sa mata!

in the end, yung nag-type din naman ang nakakahiya at nakakatawa.

ouch nman, perfectionist b.... minsan sa bilis mag type nakakalimutan pero  sbhin na nkakahiya e sobra nman at un

[ctan]

noyskie, may PM ako sa yo. hehe!

[angelo]

kaya nga proofread.

nakakahiya kasi obvious na sinasadya talaga para sa iba. halatang may mali na talaga.
docile to correction. para naman sa tama...

[ram013]

ok.

[Mr.Yos0]

gud evening.

[angelo]

may flight pa ako ng 5am. wag na lang kaya ako matulog? 

[ctan]

ako, kapag ganyan kaaga ang flight ko, di na ako natutulog. sa plane na ako natutulog. ehehehe

[angelo]

ang iksi lang ng flight. bitin din in the end.
hmm. wala pa akong napa-pack na damit pati. grr.

priority pa ang makipag kuwentuhan dito sa pgg.

[ram013]

gano b kalyo ang flight bka nman sandali lng and not enuf to get some sleep

[Mr.Yos0]

e di sa desti ka na lang matulog.. kung di ka na talaga matutulog, inom ka na lang ng red bull or the likes..

[ctan]

hahaha! gawin ko din yan. when my flight is like 5am, nagsisimula akong magpack ng mga 1am, then ligo after so that by around 3:30am, nasa airport na ako. hehehe!

[ram013]

just want to share this from my wife:

DID I MARRY THE RIGHT PERSON?

During one of our seminars, a woman asked a common question. She said, "How do I know if I married the right person?"
I noticed that there was a large man sitting next to her so I said, "It depends. Is that your husband?"
In all seriousness, she answered "How do you know?"

Let me answer this question because the chances are good that it's weighing on your mind.

Here's the answer.
EVERY relationship has a cycle. In the beginning, you fell in love with your spouse/partner. You anticipated their call, wanted their touch, and liked their idiosyncrasies (unconventional behavior/habit) .

Falling in love with your spouse wasn't hard. In fact, it was a completely natural and spontaneous experience.
You didn't have to DO anything. That's why it's called "falling" in love... Because it's happening TO YOU.

People in love sometimes say, "I was swept of my feet." Think about the imagery of that __expression. It implies that you were just standing there; doing nothing, and then something came along and happened TO YOU.

Falling in love is easy. It's a passive and spontaneous experience. But after a few years of marriage, the euphoria (excitement) of love fades. It's the natural cycle of EVERY relationship. Slowly but surely, phone calls become a bother (if they come at all), touch is not always welcome (when it happens), and your spouse's idiosyncrasies, instead of being cute, drive you nuts.

The symptoms of this stage vary with every relationship, but if you think about your marriage, you will notice a dramatic difference between the initial stage when you were in love and a much duller or even angry subsequent stage.

At this point, you and/or your spouse might start asking, "Did I marry the right person?"
And as you and your spouse reflect on the euphoria of the love you once had, you may begin to desire that experience with someone else.
This is when marriages or relationship breakdown. People blame their spouse/partner for their unhappiness and look outside their marriage/relationsh ip for fulfillment.

Extramarital fulfillment comes in all shapes and sizes. Infidelity is the most obvious.
But sometimes people turn to work, a hobby, excessive TV, or abusive substances.

But the answer to this dilemma does NOT lie outside your marriage. It lies within it.
I'm not saying that you couldn't fall in love with someone else.
You could.

And TEMPORARILY you'd feel better. But you'd be in the same situation a few years later. Because (listen carefully to this):

THE KEY TO SUCCEEDING IN MARRIAGE/RELATIONSH IP IS NOT FINDING THE RIGHT PERSON; IT'S LEARNING TO LOVE THE PERSON YOU FOUND.

SUSTAINING love is not a passive or spontaneous experience. It'll NEVER just happen to you. You can't "find" LASTING love. You have to "make" it day in and day out. That's why we have the __expression "the labor of love." Because it takes time, effort, and energy. And most importantly, it takes WISDOM. You have to know WHAT TO DO to make your marriage/relationsh ip work. Sure true love can only happen after you've fallen out of love. When you begin choosing to love, even if you don't feel like doing it ---- that's true love. And that's the foundation of a lasting and strong marriage.


Make no mistake about it. Love is NOT a mystery. There are specific things you can do (with or without your spouse) to succeed with your marriage.

Just as there are physical laws of the universe (such as gravity), there are also laws for relationships.
Just as the right diet and exercise program makes you physically stronger, certain habits in your relationship WILL make your marriage stronger.
It's a direct cause and effect. If you know and apply the laws, the results are predictable. .. you can "make"love.

Love is indeed a "decision".. . Not just a feeling. You'll not just go away with your relationship just because the feeling is gone. In the Bible, love is a command. You make it happen.

Remember this always:

"God determines who walks into your life. It is up to you to decide who you let walk away, who you let stay, and who you refuse to let go."
FW: Ruth Beltran

"Marriage is more than saying I Do. Marriage, like a precious plant, needs constant tending for it to grow, flourish, and bear fruti to last a lifetime, and beyond."
-David and Evelyn Feliciano

[angelo]

hahaha! gawin ko din yan. when my flight is like 5am, nagsisimula akong magpack ng mga 1am, then ligo after so that by around 3:30am, nasa airport na ako. hehehe!

i used to do that. but come 9am-12nn, sobrang bagsak yung mata ko at lutang na ang isip ko. wala akong nagagawang matino. kailangan ko pa rin talaga matulog.

makapagsimula na nga...

[ctan]

hahaha! gawin ko din yan. when my flight is like 5am, nagsisimula akong magpack ng mga 1am, then ligo after so that by around 3:30am, nasa airport na ako. hehehe!

i used to do that. but come 9am-12nn, sobrang bagsak yung mata ko at lutang na ang isip ko. wala akong nagagawang matino. kailangan ko pa rin talaga matulog.

makapagsimula na nga...

hehehe! sige, gudlak pre!!!




@ram, ayus!!! but did you know, that ate evelyn miranda-feliciano has died recently?

[ram013]

what's the cause of death